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Archived questions from: 15 October, 2005 (see latest questions)

(More questions from October, 2005)

Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Two years with my bf, but he leaves me flat. Not like the new guy at work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

15 October 2005 (F) - Hi there! Hope you can help me..as I don’t know what to do! and I’m going crazy! Basically, I’m in a 2 years relationship with my bf; we live together, although we kinda drifted apart. I love and care for him, but still cant say that he's THE ONE! Well, I work in a retail ... (337 words)

Both my best girl mate and me fancy my best boy mate!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 898 days ago

15 October 2005 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm 13, and I have been best mates with this boy since playschool, 11 years. A week ago, I realised I fancied him, REALLY BADLY! So I told my other best mate (female)and she said she fancied him too! Now I don't know what to do, because of 2 reasons: 1. I don't wa... (134 words)

What's the deal with my goth friend? She's starting to annoy me and our other friends...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

15 October 2005 (F) - I am a little worried for my friend because she seems to have a strange personality. She wears clothes which 'stand out' (goth clothes) and when I asked her why she said she didn't know. Her friends outside of school are all in their late teens or early twenties and she is o... (162 words)

Neither my boyfriend nor I can keep from kissing other people!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

15 October 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year and 10 months and I feel games are being played. I kissed a couple of guys frequently and he kissed this one girl he dumped me for frequently. I got back with him. But he kissed her again after we made up. But, I kissed one guy a ... (76 words)

Why do I keep chasing men who aren't available?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 884 days ago

15 October 2005 (F) - I can't help myself. I always seem to go for guys that are unavailable or out of reach in some way. I don't know why I do it but I wish I didn't. I recently fell head over heels with a guy I have been working with for a couple of years. We got friendly but nothing heavy. H... (263 words)

I was sprung when I sent a text to a girl who's not my partner!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 937 days ago

15 October 2005 (M) - I sent a text message to a girl and my partner found it on my phone. It read "hello sexy,when r u back in town ?". What do I do ?... (33 words)

My husband has cheated for the last two years!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

15 October 2005 (F) - I don't know what to do. I am 36, married with 2 children and work part-time. My husband and have been happily married for 14 years but he has been having an affair for the last two years. I am devastated. He doesn't know that I know about it and I don't want to break up ... (90 words)

My ex wants to "see what's out there", but I realise our breaking up was a mistake!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 939 days ago

15 October 2005 (M) - My girlfriend of 4 years and I broke up last Sunday night, we had been talking about it for awhile because we both thought prehaps we should 'see what else is out there' as I'm 21 and she is 20. The thing is, I want her back! I have spoken to her a few times and she has told me ... (224 words)

The guy at work has a girlfriend, but I think there's a mutual interest between us...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 939 days ago

15 October 2005 (F) - There is this guy at work. He is one of those rare, nice looking, amazing personality guys. I have noticed lately that he looks at me differently. When I walk in a room, he is looking at me, when he walks past my desk, he stares, smiles or sometimes nearly dislocates he neck ... (89 words)

Anything I can do to make my ex more comfortable when we have to socialise together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 939 days ago

15 October 2005 (F) - My ex and I have been broken up for quite a while (not quite a year, but a few months) and he has been acting weird around me/ignoring me as we were just placed in a situation where we have to see each other every day after a long break of no contact. i thought he was a... (267 words)

We're both shy. Any ideas on how one of us makes the first move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 939 days ago

15 October 2005 (F)

- How can I make the first move? Me and the guy that I like are both really shy and neither of us have made the first move to be more than friends. I want to let him know I'm ready for the relationship to go forward but without doing it in a slutty way. Does anyone have any i... (62 words)

We let things move too fast and ended up in bed. Was it wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 936 days ago

15 October 2005 (F) - This has never happened before to me. I have been seeing this man for about three weeks. We talk every day on the phone for hours so I feel like we know a lot about each other. We have both been in past bad relationships and I lost my financee about one year ago. Tonigh... (287 words)

Instead of having a foot in both Eastern and Western cultures, I feel like I belong to neither...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 940 days ago

15 October 2005 (M) - I am a guy born and brought up in Asian culture and influenced by western culture, especially American. Though my upbringing was in humble background, I always fancied the boldness of life of people in West. I aspired to be one of them. Somehow, I have realized that I couldn't ... (110 words)