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Archived questions from: 30 October, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

He keeps pushing me away because he's not ready for a relationship, but we ARE in a relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 924 days ago

30 October 2005 (F) - I am in a relationship in which I met the guy in college, dated off and on for 8 years and then I moved away. 10 years later I returned to the same city and we have resumed our relationship. The problem now is that he has gone through a terrible relationship and has a ... (209 words)

When someone asks you to a concert, does it mean he fancies you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 924 days ago

30 October 2005 (F) - I have been friends with a guy at work for about a year. He recently asked me to a concert with him on my own. My workmates reckon we fancy each other but he denies it and I do too because I don't want to be rejected. What should I do? I am shy and don't like the thought of ... (84 words)

I was dumped because she still wanted her ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 924 days ago

30 October 2005 (M) - I am a student away from home at uni and have been seeing a girl for about 7 months who is also away from her home and at uni. Recently tho she told me that she just wants to be friends, which I found out was due to feelings she still had towards her ex. Her ex broke up with ... (258 words)

I'm 14 already and still have never had a boyfriend...

This question has 48 answers - newest was posted 59 days ago

30 October 2005 (F) - Please help! I'm a 14 year old girl, brown hair, slightly attractive, nice figure, killer personality and yet I've never had a bf. I always fancy someone but I'm far too shy to ask them out and I won't let my mates ask them out for me. This is really getting me down and I ... (65 words)

Is my girlfriend wrong to visit other guys, or am I just paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 924 days ago

30 October 2005 (M) - Hi, I'm 16 and my girlfriend is 15. We've been together for about a year and 3 months and were very happy together, but now she has started going to other boys' houses. She says they're just friends but I can't help feeling jealous. When I told her about how I feel she just ... (90 words)

Why am I such a nasty bitch to my friend? Can I stop it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 924 days ago

30 October 2005 (F) - Hi, I know this might sound pathetic but, I have 2 best friends. One of them I can be nasty to at times - in fact most of the time - and she's a real good friend for coping with me. But I want to stop being this nasty bitch. I have tried so hard to be nice all the time, bu... (74 words)

How can I not be "the same woman" he fell in love with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 925 days ago

30 October 2005 (F) - I have been with my man for almost 2 years. For the first 13 months it was long distance then me and my oldest son who is 4 moved in with him. Then we found out we were pregnant. The baby is now 3 months old, we just bought a new house, he has a new job and I just started ... (149 words)

My boyfrriend has dumped me twice, because he wants to try dating others...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 924 days ago

30 October 2005 (F) - I'm 20 years old and I've been dating the same guy for the past two years. We are normally very happy and have an awesome time together. However, 2 months ago, we broke up because he was scared he was never going to date anyone besides me. After 2 days, he said he wanted to be ... (164 words)

I gave him lavish gifts when we were a couple. If he leaves, shouldn't he give them back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 924 days ago

30 October 2005 (M) - I am a 23 year old gay male. My best friend and I (since we were six) decided to become boy friends about 6 months ago after five years of relationships with others that never worked because we found we were looking for each other in our partners. We moved to a differen... (350 words)

My husband has a double-life, another woman and another child!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 923 days ago

30 October 2005 (F) - Hi, I am in the biggest dilemma of my life and need some help. I am 26, Indian, female. I had an arranged marriage 7 years ago when this really sweet guy from UK came to my house in UK and said he wants to marry me with his family. He seemed really nice and said he has a good j... (524 words)

No "I love you", even after 9 months. Is he scared?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 921 days ago

30 October 2005 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 9 months now. I think I love him but I don't know if he feels the same way. Why hasn't he said I love you yet? Does he expect me to say it first or is he scared? He was previously in a long term relationship in which lasted 3... (86 words)

Two guys, neither wants what I want right now. Do I wait or carry on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 925 days ago

30 October 2005 (F) - Hi, I am a 28year old girl and have been seeing a fantastic 37 year old man for the last 2-1/2 years and had a really great time with him. The problem being this man does not want the whole marriage and kids thing and just wants to have a good time with me and we travel a lot ... (236 words)

My ex is looking for a woman nearer to his own age, but he still wants me close, too...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 923 days ago

30 October 2005 (F) - I have been seeing a younger man for 4 months. He broke up with me to find a more age appropriate woman. Yet he keeps calling me and wanting to see me and have me in his life. He says I am his best friend, that I am nicer to him, and that he enjoys my company more than anyone ... (98 words)

I hardly have to touch my boyfriend and he's already done!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

30 October 2005 (F) - Is there anything I can do to stop my bf having an orgasm so quickly? It's not nice for me and sex lasts 10 seconds! I hardly touch him and he's already there! It takes me ages to get turned on, so I get nothing from it! Please help me!!! x... (51 words)

My wonderful American guy went back to the US and started ignoring my emails...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 921 days ago

30 October 2005 (M) - I had a wonderful relationship with an American man. He also had a partner at home but while in Australia for seven months he had two relationships. Our connection was amazing and we both had never experienced this before in our lives. His partner arrived from the states ... (285 words)

Am I doomed to be in love with my boyfriend AND his best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

30 October 2005 (M) - Hi there...so I am in a real mess right now and I have no idea who to turn to. I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now and for the last year we have been having a long distance relationship because of university. The last few months have been really tough because a ... (228 words)

Is it fair that I'm left alone so my girlfriend can be with her family at Christmas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 925 days ago

30 October 2005 (M) - M26 F20, My partner of 3 years wants to spend Christmas and her 21st birthday with her family (she was born on Christmas day). We have just moved to a new town which is 14 hours drive from her parents' house. I have two problems, 1. She knows that we both can't go and I will b... (130 words)