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Archived questions from: 12 October, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

There was a threesome with my boyfriend, long before I met him. Now I can't get past the idea!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 940 days ago

12 October 2005 (F) - My current boyfriend (Don) and I have been dating for 3 yrs. When we first started dating, he lived with his roommates, a married couple, Alex and Wendy. We dated for months before I got a job at Wendy's company, and befriending Wendy. (Wendy turned out not to be such a cool ... (383 words)

My ex-teacher shares his romantic life with me, and I can't stand it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 932 days ago

12 October 2005 (F) - I'm madly in love with my ex teacher and it's killing me. Recently he got married and he emailed me telling me all about it, when I just don't want to hear it! He says we can't be friends and yet he tells me his life story and I do the same. This probably sounds strange ... (143 words)

My teenage son is discussing marriage with a woman of 44!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 859 days ago

12 October 2005 (F) - I found out recently that my 16-year-old son is dating a 44-year-old woman. I worry about him - the age gap is 28 years - and I fear he will have a lot of problems. He's talking about marrying her too - and she wants to marry him too! What do I do? This worries me a... (75 words)

She had sex once with someone in her past, and I just can't move past that thought,,,

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 940 days ago

12 October 2005 (M) - I've been dating this girl for over 3 months now. We are 15 years apart. (we're of legal age--I'm older) What started off as just a "for fun" thing turned into an all out love extravaganza, and I do love her dearly. We do everything together. It's a real relationship, I couldn... (248 words)

A stray text led me to find out that he's been calling 2 other women...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 940 days ago

12 October 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for three years. We live together, and everything has been great until about a month ago, when I realized we hadn't made love for almost 2 months. I asked him why, and he said we have different schedules. Then, the next day he ... (170 words)

The closer I get to wanting to settle down with her, the further she's pulling away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 941 days ago

12 October 2005 (M) - I have been dating a girl for 7 yrs now. The relationship has everything that a great relationship should have(Common interests, same value in life, great sex). Unfortunately I am vastly more experienced than her in realtionships. I was her first and now she seems to be running ... (171 words)

I really want to believe all the wonderful things he says about me and us...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 942 days ago

12 October 2005 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 months almost, and we are very much in love. But recently he has said things like I love you and I wanna spend the rest of my life with you, and that he wants to get married and start a family, and that he respects my decision ... (160 words)

Should I confess to Mum that I met this guy online?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 941 days ago

12 October 2005 (F) - I met my boyfriend online and we conversed on the internet for about 1 and a half before I gave him my cell phone number. Then after about 2 months we decided to take the relationship to the next level. Doing the smart thing when I went to meet him I made sure my mother c... (175 words)

Suddenly, all my exes want me back. But I'm already in a relationship of my dreams!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 942 days ago

12 October 2005 (F) - Here it goes...... i am 16 years old and i have a very big problem...i am currently in a relationship with the man (boy) of my dreams. It seems as if all of a sudden a lot of boys have been attracted to me. I have had about 3 or 4 boyfriends prior to now. Within this past week ... (202 words)

We've broken up four times, but my ex still acts like a stalker!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 181 days ago

12 October 2005 (F) - Me and my boyfriend has been dating for 3 months and we have broken up about 4 times. I dont really want to be with him, and every time I break up with him he like stalks me and will not leave me alone. I have tried dating other guys, but he scares them all away and they won... (81 words)

It took 7 years to decide I wasn't attracted to my fiance!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 930 days ago

12 October 2005 (F) - MAIN THOUGHTS... I recently broke my engagement with a boyfriend that I have had for the past 7 yrs and lived w/ for the past 4. The thought of "this" being the rest of my life made me doubt marrying him. I realized I have never been attracted to him. I fell in love with ... (855 words)

My partner's ex is controlling him through his stepson!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 941 days ago

12 October 2005 (F) - Hi my partner of 4 months got with his ex when she was pregnant so the son regards him as dad and vice versa. Problem is his ex is very controlling and manipulative, telling him he is a useless father etc even though that's not true. She won't let him have a day out on his own ... (197 words)

I have issues with rules and authority...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 939 days ago

12 October 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am an adult guy and have problems working within the rules or accepting them. I find myself in burden when i work in rules and constantly try to disrespect them or even violate them. I find problems at workplace because of this. I am not able to fit in somehow a... (417 words)

The stress of house-hunting is affecting our relationship. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 941 days ago

12 October 2005 (F) - Me and my husband are trying to buy a home and the stress is really wearing on our relationship. We have been married for 14 years I just want to know if this is normal and will it get better? I thought the tough years were behind us.... (48 words)

I want to be able to have better conversations with people

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 941 days ago

12 October 2005 (M) - A part of me is not developed or underdeveloped. It is that of social skills and that of having a conversation with people in general. I always tend to rather argue or analyse or act as judgemental and it pisses off some people especially women. I can only have a conversation ... (126 words)

Things moved a bit more quickly than I would have liked...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 941 days ago

12 October 2005 (F) - I am 23 and have never really had a proper relationship although have 'seen' a few people over the last couple of years. I met this guy in a pub, he came over to me and then asked for my number. We met up and had a great night and I stayed over. I felt a bit crap after th... (164 words)

Nothing has worked to get him interested in sex and I'm starting to feel unattractive...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 941 days ago

12 October 2005 (?) - My boyfriend and I have lived together for over a year and been together just a couple of months more. Most nights I want to make love (not just because I fancy him like mad but because he's not the most affectionate person and that's when I feel closest to him) and he's 'too ... (195 words)

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This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 941 days ago

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I'm prepared for no sex to please her until we're married, but she's not sure she wants to marry me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 942 days ago

12 October 2005 (M) - I have been in a relationship for over 3 years and my partner has said to me that she has felt sex outside of marriage has been difficult. Dave's my name and I have said that I would choose abstinence (no sexual contact). If this is going to work or not I don't know, but I love ... (114 words)

At 17, I think I've outgrown my boyfriend...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

12 October 2005 (F) - I have a boyfriend of almost 2 years. I love him very much and would do almost anything for him. Lately we have been fighting a lot about the littlest things. The problem is I am 17 and he is 18 and compared to me he is really immature. I now feel like I'm his mother and not ... (131 words)

In four years, my boyfriend hasn't kept a job for more than 3 months!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

12 October 2005 (F) - I have been with my bf for 4 years. He has not kept a steady job during this period. Every job he gets lasts no longer than a week besides one exception which lasted 3 months. I am 22, he is 23 and we have lived together for 2 years, after the first three months we lived ... (97 words)

Was I disrespectful to my fiancee?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 942 days ago

12 October 2005 (M) - I have been in my relationship for five years. I am in the US Coast Guard Station overseas. I have been here for 4 months. This maybe sounds stupid or not, I don't know, but I have been using the website myspace.com to talk with old friends. I was browsing the differen... (146 words)

My partner lied about going to a brothel and now I just don't trust him about anything!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 942 days ago

12 October 2005 (F) - My partner and I have been together for 19 months. I am 6 months pregnant with our first child. A few months ago I noticed some sexy sms's on his phone from one of those 1900 numbers. I asked him about it and he said he had no idea why they send messages to his number. ... (158 words)

What do you look for in a bisexual partner..?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 942 days ago

12 October 2005 (F) - I am wondering if there are specific signs to look for, if you think your husband might be bisexual. Are there physical signs on their private parts? Help!!!... (29 words)

I've been his girlfriend for 3 months... I think.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 942 days ago

12 October 2005 (F) - My boyfriend kinda doesn't notice me most of the time. I don't know if its just that he doesn't like me or something else. I wonder all the time if he even thinks about me at all. We been together for almost 3 months and haven't even been on a date. Is that bad? Does it mean he ... (98 words)

My partner says we're "on a break", but I don't know what that means!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 942 days ago

12 October 2005 (F) - We have been in a 10 month relationship and we have just taken a break. What does taking a beak even mean? Does it mean that we can date other people or even think about it? I don't know. Can someone please help!... (43 words)

The attraction seemed mutual, but suddenly he's ignoring me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 311 days ago

12 October 2005 (F)

- I'm 17 and he's 15. He's a freshman and I'm a junior. We've always liked each other and in these past few weeks we've come closer to each other. He's the perfect guy. Then, one day it all stopped. He stopped sitting next to me and saying hi to me in the hall. He would even come ... (116 words)

I still care for my daughter's husband, but he's been in jail for a while...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 942 days ago

12 October 2005 (F) - I am in love with my daughter's father who is in jail. He's been in jail for about a year now, and during this whole time I have been faithful to him, but I am now having feelings for my childhood friend whom I have known for 10 years. What should I do?... (53 words)

How can I know for sure that we're in love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 929 days ago

12 October 2005 (F) - How do I know if he is really in love with me? How do I know if I am really in love with him. We have been together for almost ten months and we are both crazy about eachother but how do i know if it is love or not? Also we have a 6 or 7 year age difference. I ha... (84 words)

My cheating was just a symptom of our failing relationship...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 940 days ago

12 October 2005 (F) - I have just cheated on my partner with a guy that I have kinda known for nearly 2 years. I am now in the process of breaking it off with my partner because the attraction with the other guy is like fireworks going off! Even though the other guy has just told me he has deci... (302 words)

The man I want, wants to be friends. A man I want as a friend wants more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 943 days ago

12 October 2005 (F) - I have a big problem. I am in love with someone who says we should be friends. On the other hand I have someone who cares for me and he knows how I feel about the other man. I don't care for him. What should I do? ... (47 words)