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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

This girl seems to care more about her ex boyfriend than about my feelings...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 933 days ago

20 October 2005 (M) - Over the summer me and this girl became very close. We would talk every day and we hung out a lot and eventually I started to have feelings for her. All of her friends said she always talked about me and likes me but there is a problem. She and her ex-boyfriend (who knows I ... (151 words)

Do want to talk to my ex about everything, but don't want my current bf to know...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 933 days ago

20 October 2005 (F) - I need someone's advice plz. I want to ask someone over the internet cause the truth is that, well you're the only one I can trust w/ this. Me and my ex have been broke up for about 4 1/2 months now, but I've had a new boyfriend for a while. I really do like this guy but I've... (165 words)

Are my folks right? Is my boyfriend immature and lazy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 935 days ago

20 October 2005 (F) - Should I end my 2 year relationship with my boyfriend? He is 17 and I am 19. He and I recently took a 2 month break to see other people. We want to get back together, but my parents don't like him. They think he is immature and lazy. I live on a farm so a hard worker is all t... (136 words)

He's 25 and I'm 15, but it's not about sex..!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 741 days ago

20 October 2005 (F) - I'm 15 and I'm seeing a 25 year that lives an hour an a half away. Everyone thinks that our relationship is wrong and that he is using me for sex but he hasn't even asked once, but no-one will believe me. I love him very much and he loves me also. What shall I do? Please help; ... (61 words)

I want to move in together. Should I push him or wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 935 days ago

20 October 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year and 3 months. He loves me dearly but is very afraid of marriage and commitment. I believe we should think about moving in together within the next few months. Am I asking for too much? Shall I insist a little or just wait for him ... (58 words)

What kind of a Christmas present can I get my boyfriend?

This question has 245 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

20 October 2005 (F) - Heya, I know this may be a silly question but I was wondering what sort of Christmas present do you get a guy? I mean, me and my boyfriend are both 14 yrs old, and we love each other very much (yes I know, its only young love but this is for real) but I'm finding it hard to get ... (108 words)

We've been out a few times, but I don't know if I like him yet!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 935 days ago

20 October 2005 (F) - I have just started dating this guy and I'm not sure if I like him? We have only been on 2 dates but everyone keeps saying to me you should know by the 2nd date and I don't. I\ve never had a proper relationship before and this is the first time it may turn into one... am ... (123 words)

His drinking is stressing me out. How do I break up, when he's threatened to take everything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 934 days ago

20 October 2005 (F) - I have an on again, off again relationship with my boyfriend of 3 years. When I was always sick, he took care of me and my children. He would give and do anything for us. Unfortunately, he drinks and today he got angry because I found all these beer cans downstairs. I want to ... (128 words)

He got drunk and cheated on me. How do I know it won't happen again if I take him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 929 days ago

20 October 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating off and on for 8 months now. He has cheated on me once before, we broke up for a while, but he put a lot of effort into getting me back. I recently found out that he has a child (he didn't know either), and I was willing to stay with him... (149 words)

Will he ever really stop visiting porn sites on the Web?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

20 October 2005 (F) - My husband is a ordained minister or I will say Layman in our church. He helps our pastor in the church, but I have found where he has went to these porno sites on the internet. What do I do when I have heard in the past from him that it will not happen again but every four or ... (100 words)

Even though we're not together, I hate the idea that my ex cheated when we were dating...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 933 days ago

20 October 2005 (M) - I was with this girl for 4 years and I broke up with her 6 months ago. Just now I found out that she cheated on me about a year in our relationship while we were together. I still love her very much, and at the same time I hate her for cheating on me. Now I have a new girl and... (74 words)

Another girl says she's pregnant with my bf's baby. He says it's not true. Trust him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 729 days ago

20 October 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for one and half years. In beginning it wasn't very good. He cheated on me and all we did is fight. I was away for a while and he said that's when he fell in love with and has been faithful since. That's what he has been telling me. Th... (118 words)

I've got so little pubic hair, I feel like a school boy!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 44 days ago

20 October 2005 (M) - I have a slight problem in the pubic hair department-I hardly have any and im 23 years of age. I've just started my first sexual experience with a girl. When we got naked for the first time she thought that I had shaved them off and they were slowly growing back. The problem ... (99 words)

I discovered I'm pregnant... and the fact that my boyfriend fancies my best friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 935 days ago

20 October 2005 (F) - I have been friends with my boyfriend for about ten years; however he has said that he has always been sexually attracted to me. About a year and a half ago we got it together officially and it was so wonderful, we moved in together after six months. I have now just discovered ... (222 words)

We're fighting too much and we've postponed the wedding...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 935 days ago

20 October 2005 (M) - I am desperate for help. Recently, my fiance and I have been fighting a lot. He is extremely unhappy at his job and our life together has gotten a little too busy to handle. Additionally, I have a 5 year old son who is very attached to my fiance. When he proposed he asked my ... (249 words)

My boyfriend is wonderful and kind... but also obstinate and irritating! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 936 days ago

20 October 2005 (F) - I'm 32 yrs old and I have been dating Steven ,31 ,for a almost 2 yrs now.We are both divorcees and come from different cultures and religions.It caused a huge furore in my family when I decided to see a white american guy,who changed his religion for me ,but I looked down upon ... (986 words)

Do I keep supporting my boyfriend, even though he's done nothing to support me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 934 days ago

20 October 2005 (F) - I am having some issues with my boyfriend. We've been together going on 4 1/2 years and starting from 2003 to now he's been in and out of jail, not really working, and just not doing anything with himself. He keeps promising me that things will get better, but when I tell him ... (116 words)

Help me with suggestions to get over the feelings for my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 935 days ago

20 October 2005 (F) - I am currently in a relationship. It's been 10 months now, and I still think about my ex. I can't get over him no matter how much I try. I love him so much and I don't knwo what to do about it. I still compare my new man to my ex and I just don't think he measures up to him. ... (165 words)

Honest mistakes led my girlfriend to think I cheated on her. But I'm innocent!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 935 days ago

20 October 2005 (M) - I need help. I have been faithful to my girlfriend of almost 5 months. She has a history of dating guys who, unfortunately, cheated on her, including her ex-fiance. I love her deeply but made 2 mistakes: right after we started dating, on old, brief love interest called and ... (245 words)

She broke it off with me. What's my next step?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 929 days ago

20 October 2005 (M) - I was just involved in a 4 month relationship with a female who I have been friends with and recently started to date me right after her divorce of 8 years. I knew I was taking a chance with her but decided anyways, she says she needs to mourn her broken marriage, and ended ... (104 words)