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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My cousin and I want to date!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 792 days ago

22 November 2005 (F) - I hope you can help! Myself and my 2nd cousin are very attracted to each other but havn't yet taken things to the next level as we are unaware of the law in this situation. Please help as we would not like to break the law. We are aware that a lot of people will be offended by ... (80 words)

I want to write to the girl I'm interested in... but what do I say?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 900 days ago

22 November 2005 (M) - There is this girl I have had a crush on for sometime now, but she works in a high paced work place. We say our hellos and stuff in the mornings but I can't seem to find the time to ask her out without everybody in the place knowing what I'm doing. I'm thinking of writing ... (96 words)

How do I get Mum and Dad to come around to my dating an older guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 900 days ago

22 November 2005 (F) - Ok, so here's my problem. My friend wants to set me up with this guy, who is "just like me". We have talked on the phone for a few weeks now. I really am beginning to like him! Heres the thing: I am 18, he is 25. Now, I don't think it is a big deal, and I have always been ... (126 words)

Two guys in my life. Neither is perfect, but sex with the other guy is irresistable!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 900 days ago

22 November 2005 (F) - I’ve been Best friends with my ex roommate for about 5 yrs and approx 3 yrs ago while we were living together, we ended up having sex a couple times. We decided that we didn’t want to risk our friendship so we stopped and remained friends. It’s been very obvious since, t... (405 words)

What do I say to his parents, when our first-time meeting is a family funeral?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 862 days ago

22 November 2005 (F) - dear cupid I have been going out with this guy for about a year. I have lived with him for 6 months. I have never meet his parents as they live in France (we live in the UK) My boyfriend's grandmother died (his mum's mum) and we are going to her funeral tommorrow. I wil... (102 words)

My man never lets me forget I was with someone who was married. But that was 20 years ago!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 900 days ago

22 November 2005 (F) - My new boyfriend loves me very much and he says I'm the perfect woman for him, apart from one thing: my past. He just can't let it lie and brings it up in a jokey way that hurts, or by going quiet. Then I have to get it out of him. I've been seeing him six months now and it r... (140 words)

Why can't my boyfriend spend his New Year's Eve with me, instead of back in Kansas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 900 days ago

22 November 2005 (F) - I am very disappointed with my boyfriend of one and a half years, because I told him I wanted to spend New Year's Eve with him. He said he did too, but 2 weeks later, when I asked what he wanted to do for New Year's, he said he had decided to go to his home town in Kansas. I ... (89 words)

We were lovers...now we are friends...do I tell her how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 899 days ago

22 November 2005 (F) - I'm 18 and I'm a lesbian. About 6 months ago, my manager at work starting hanging out with me. After about a week, she told me that she had a crush on me and she kissed me. I truly believed she was straight, so this really flipped my world upside down. After that, we ... (365 words)

Do I tell my mum's friend that I'm in love with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 902 days ago

22 November 2005 (F) - Im a 20yr old female and im in love with my mums best friend who is 38yrs old and married. we are very close and she thinks of me like her little sister, only im so in love with her. I realy want to tell her how i feel because i cant get her out of my mind! Do i tell her?... (63 words)

He prefers his bicycle to me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 897 days ago

22 November 2005 (F) - Recently my boyfriend has become obsessed with his bicycle. He spends so much time modifying and fixing the thing we don't even have a sex life, or even a social life anymore! I am 24 and he is 27 and we live together. I even caught him masturbating over pictures of bi... (118 words)

Does he like me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 901 days ago

22 November 2005 (F) - Ok, i have a question, i'd make it as quick as possible. I'm single, n i've been single for almost 5 yrs. i know, i dun believe it either. The thing is, I tend to have high standards on guys. Well there are guys who like me, it isn't that I have problems in aesthetic level or ... (311 words)

Is my culture right to think the way it does?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 902 days ago

22 November 2005 (M) - The culture that i have grown up in to has made me think irrationally rather than realistically. People in my society constantly dream of something that will happen to rescue their life and solve all their miseries. Is this right to think? On the other hand, there are some ppl ... (193 words)

Can I get my ex back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 901 days ago

22 November 2005 (M) - I was in love with a woman and I was going to marry her. We had a really stressful year and I was very busy at work. This other woman from work was flirting with me and things went further than they should have done. I felt guilty and left the love of my life. I regretted it ... (234 words)

One orgasm and I want to be left alone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 902 days ago

22 November 2005 (F) - Hello i am a 21 year old girl and have had trouble with sex all my life. i can only have one orgasm and that is just by fore play and then after that i completely go off everything and just want to be left alone. i have had sex with my of my partners but only sept with him ... (101 words)

My girlfriend doesn't trust me cos I flirted with her cousin...what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 889 days ago

22 November 2005 (M) - hi , my ques is a little long but i really need help. as i am in love with my girl and i have done a sin and am really paying for it. i dont wanna loose her.pls help me, ok here goes: i wanted to tell u about my story. i have been in love with my girl since day one,its b... (473 words)

Will I ever have an orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 902 days ago

22 November 2005 (F) - I hope this isn't too explicit, but i have to be honest. I'm very passionate and have a very high sex drive. when im single i can somehow go without sex for ages, but when im with someone all i want to do is have sex. and it's been like that since i started having serious ... (228 words)

He wants to touch me all the time and I need my space...what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 900 days ago

22 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend is a touchy-feely person, I am not. It's been relatively ok, because we haven't been in a relationship too long, but now that we've passed the 10 month mark, it's starting to get somewhat problematic. Touch is a big thing for him. He needs it to feel loved. I, on ... (281 words)

How do I tell if he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 899 days ago

22 November 2005 (M) - About a year ago I got out of a ten year relatioship with a girl. She broke my heart and now im interested in guys, a lot! I've met this guy whom i realy like, not for looks but for personality and same interests etc. He's also gay and I have a hint that he may like me. How do ... (93 words)

His ex-wife is going to extreme lengths to try to get my fiance back into her life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 881 days ago

22 November 2005 (F) - I am engaged to a man who loves me dearly. We met 2 years ago and became instant best friends, it was like we had known each other our entire lives. During this time he was finalizing a divorce, his marriage had lasted less than a year. Her one dream in life was to have ... (694 words)

I still daydream about a guy I had a crush on in high school...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 900 days ago

22 November 2005 (F) - I used to know a guy from school, and used to have a huge crush on him - of course he never knew that. But when I reached high school, I wasn't able to see him for years - yet I always used to think about him. Now I'm in my 20's and there's a chance he might come back into my ... (113 words)

In the last year, my guy has changed. Suddenly, he doesn't have time for me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 899 days ago

22 November 2005 (F) - Help needed very sad I have been dating this guy for 3 years and everything was great. We loved each other and showed it and always made time for each other. Then this past year everything just changed suddenly. He's busy all the time and hardly ever home, and when he is h... (156 words)

Oh no! I lied about being separated and having kids, then my boyfriend found out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 902 days ago

22 November 2005 (F) - I lied to my boyfriend a lot. I am separated and did not tell him that I was married or had kids. I am getting a divorce and he has found out. I do not want to lose him. What should I do?... (43 words)

My boyfriend is oblivious to his own insensitivity...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 902 days ago

22 November 2005 (F) - I deal with an x-boyfriend. We have known each other for 5 years, 3 1/4 of which we were together while in undergrad. We now go to the grad school (different departments). 5 yrs ago, he mentioned he didn’t want to be like his father, who is by all means a nice man, and a "n... (237 words)

He flirts and then is cold...does he want me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 899 days ago

22 November 2005 (F) - hey, i have an issue thats driving me mad! i started a new job a couple of months ago and met the most sweetest and gorgeous man who i now also work with, there was chemistry between us straight away! after a couple of weeks we all went out for a staff party, we flirted and ... (514 words)

Do I suffer from premature ejaculation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 903 days ago

22 November 2005 (M) - firstly i have 2 questions, is masturbateing quicker than sex? and, i think i suffer from premature ejaculation as when ever i pull a girl or even try to do dtuff with them i always seem to cum (a little bit) in my underwear? if this is premature ejaculation is there anyway or ... (60 words)