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Archived questions from: 5 November, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

He can be thoughtful, but he can also be judgemental and insensitive...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 890 days ago

5 November 2005 (F) - I am recovering from agoraphobia and trying to build my confidence every day. I kind of slipped into working for my boyfriend. I did it because I love him and now I work for him every day. He doesn't pay me. I pay him rent to live in his house. I really hate the imbalance of... (375 words)

What makes me keep falling for my best friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 892 days ago

5 November 2005 (M)

- Hi, I'm a 19 year old student and I've never been in a proper relationship. My best friend was a girl who recently moved away, and the person who I'm closest to now is another girl. I've known her for just over a year but now we've become a lot closer I've developed a really ... (160 words)

What do I tell her when I say that I think we should break up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 916 days ago

5 November 2005 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for 5-years now. Here lately things just haven't been the same. Ending the relationship has crossed my mind many times recently. The one problem I have is that I am the worst at breaking up with someone. I never know what to say. I feel so ... (84 words)

So many barriers between me and the girl I'm seeing... Should I just move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 916 days ago

5 November 2005 (M) - I'm 20 years old and recently got dumped by my girlfriend after 3 years. I was pretty cut up but got over it after about a week. I thought she was the only one for me and that I wouldn't find anyone else. However, 1 month later I met a another girl. She's my mate's ... (528 words)

My wife told me everything about the guy who sent her a drink and danced with her. She says it's nothing...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 917 days ago

5 November 2005 (M)

- I'm suffering from jealousy. It's never happened before. As a matter of fact, it's always been the opposite. We've been married 20 years. My wife is a wonderful, beautiful lady. She is EXTREMELY attracative and gets lots of people looking at her. She has never thought an... (471 words)

Our relationship looks headed for breakup and we know it. So why is it still so painful?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 917 days ago

5 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 1/2 years now and we live. I haven't been feeling satfisfied in the relationship, emotionally. I've told him, but I haven't seen any effort on his part. So we talked some more and we decided to give our relationship until the end of ... (110 words)

My boyfriend thinks I should also sleep with his dad, but I'm completely disgusted by the idea!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 881 days ago

5 November 2005 (F) - I am 18 and my boyfriend is 19. He said to me the other night; "If you love me you'll sleep with me, and my dad as well." I told him that the idea was disgusting but he just repeated the idea again and laughed my opinion off. I can't understand why he wants me to sle... (117 words)

Need some advice on why my girl pulls away from my affection...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 916 days ago

5 November 2005 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for nine months now and I find that the intimacy level between us has declined quite drastically. She has told me in the past that she is not a kissy cuddly person even though she most times shows that she likes this kind of affection. I ... (129 words)

I'm afraid if I marry my boyfriend, he'll continue his late nights at the pub while I continue to wait for him to come home!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 916 days ago

5 November 2005 (F) - I am writing this because I am at the end of my patience with a realtationship. When we met I was overwelmed by the love and happyness in the realtionship and after 3 years togther we have got a lovely house and we often talk about getting married in the near future. Last n... (251 words)

Talking with her in real life is nothing like the flirty talk we have online...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 915 days ago

5 November 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, Well, my problem is with a girl. I met her when my mate gave me her e-mail address, and so we IM eachother every night now. The problem (well, one of the problems) is that we hardly ever talk in real life, and when we do it's just normal and nothing like whe... (337 words)

My guy seems more interested in dope-smoking and video games than our future. Will he ever grow up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 916 days ago

5 November 2005 (F) - I was ugly in high school and could never get a boyfriend, so when I got out of high school I was searching for one high and low. I fell in love with a loser. I know he loves me but I just think we don't have enough in common. When we first got together and he asked me if I ... (189 words)

I have the dirt on my friend's cheating wife. Would it help to tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 916 days ago

5 November 2005 (F)

- I just found out that my best guy friend's wife has been cheating on him. I've never liked her because she treats him like dirt. She is ten years older than him and has two grown kids from another marriage. Her kids are drug addicts and have stolen from my friend. She has ... (170 words)

I've only heard a fraction of my girlfriend's sexual history and already it's disturbing...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 909 days ago

5 November 2005 (M) - I love my girlfriend very much, but she has told me she has a long and varied history with guys that she is deeply ashamed of, and her worry that she could lose me when I learn of it is tearing her up. I've heard a small part of it, and its pretty heavy stuff. I am very ... (94 words)

We're friends and we flirt over the phone. He just won't get serious with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 918 days ago

5 November 2005 (F) - Hello, I love your advice column, and I read it weekly. I am a single woman, no kids and I'm 24. There's this guy I've known for a long time (it's been years) We dated on and off, but never seriously. I really care about him a lot. He was in the military, so he traveled a lo... (475 words)

My ex wanted my permission to date another guy. I said it was fine, but I lied!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 918 days ago

5 November 2005 (F) - Well, my ex dumped me for my best friend and she wanted my "approval" before they could go out. Being the nice person that I am, I said it was fine and that I didn't mind but, boy did I lie. Every time I see them together it hurts more and more and I realized that I was still ... (99 words)

I was too shy to tell my friend how I felt about her, and she said Yes to someone else...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 100 days ago

5 November 2005 (M) - I have an urgent question and in dire need of some help. I have been hanging out with this girl for a couple of weeks now and she is single as am I and we just totally clicked with each other we spend most of the time talking to each. People also noticed this and think of us as ... (459 words)

Lack of sleep affects my disposition with my boyfriend, and he takes my snappishness to heart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 916 days ago

5 November 2005 (F) - hi.. I'm a 20 year old female and I've been with my 21 year old boyfriend almost a year now. We love each other very much and have plans to get married when we finish studying, we've started saving and everything. The two of us study architecture and are in the same year. It... (246 words)