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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I've been with my girl for two months, but I really don't know anything about her past...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 905 days ago

17 November 2005 (M) - I have been seeing my girlfriend now for just over 2 months. Everything has been fine and we really get on well with each other and have a good time. However I have an issue which I can't talk to her about.. I don't know anything about the girl's past! It's things such... (214 words)

Help! Dating problems!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 904 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm 20 and I have never had a proper relationship with a guy in the last two years, since I split with my boyfriend of a year. I don't have any feelings for him now but it did take me a while to get over him due to him being my first proper boyfriend. The thing is, no guy... (270 words)

If I can't get oral from my girlfriend, can I get it somewhere else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 892 days ago

17 November 2005 (M) - My girl doesn't want to give me oral sex anymore. But there is this other woman who told me she she wants to give me oral sex. Is there a way I can get my girl to give me oral or do I go to the other woman?... (48 words)

Together we have 3 years together and a baby. He says we'll get married "when we can afford it"...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 903 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been living together for over 3 years. We have a baby and he considers us to be commonlaw. He doesn't feel the need to get married. It's just a piece of paper that won't change anything. He tells me that he doesn't think about it. He knows I do and tells ... (103 words)

Love the guy, but not crazy about the sex. How do we improve it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 905 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - I love the guy but the sex is bad. Im almost positive it isnt me thats making it bad. How should I go about making it better without telling him he's a bad lover?... (36 words)

I can't admit to any past attractions, because my current girlfriend has threatened to leave me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 906 days ago

17 November 2005 (M) - About ten months ago I started dating my girlfriend. When she asked me about past relationships and why I hadn't had a long term girlfriend or very many girlfriends, I said that I wasn't attracted to them. But that was a lie. I was afraid and felt that I wasn't allowed t... (131 words)

How can I earn the trust of a man who says he starts out trusting no one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 905 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a few months and i have a problem. I asked him on a scale of 1-10 (this is childish but) how much he trusted me. I had my mouth open when he told me four. He said he starts out with no trust in people and they earn trust unlike me who trusts ... (73 words)

He moved out due to the gambling problem, but now he doesn't want to see me at all!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 902 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - I have been married almost 25 years. 21 of those being beautiful, then my husband went out of control with his gambling. In the last 4 years I have asked him to move out 3 times (this on being the 3rd). This time it is worse then the others. He won't talk to me or see me. He c... (166 words)

We live 120 miles apart so when we get together and have sex... well, it goes too fast.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 596 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 months and we live 120 miles apart. When we have sex which is once or twice a week, if that, he has this problem. He can't go very long and he says it's not my fault. He's had this problem before and his mom even comments on it ... (223 words)

I broke up with my ex to be with my current girlfriend, but it's the ex I really want!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 906 days ago

17 November 2005 (M) - I've been dating this girl for almost 5 years now and I can say that she is fun to be with. We had our share of ups and downs for the past few years. But I keep on thinking about my ex-girlfriend, whom I've been with for 2 years before my current girlfriend. She (my ex) is o... (327 words)

I like this guy, but I resent the fact that he likes me and every other girl, too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - I've really liked this guy for a long time, and I'm getting sick of it. I can't seem to get over him. What should I do? We met at church. His sister is my best friend and I happen to live with her, so I see him all the time. I knew he liked me last year, but I told his sisters ... (498 words)

Is the grass always greener on the other side? My ex seems to want me back...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 899 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - Should I get back with my ex? I have been in a serious relationship for 5 1/2 years. We have a 3 year old daughter together and we just now have started living together. We plan to marry, but I love him, I just don't think I'm in love with him. About a month ago I ra... (276 words)

My girlfriend sometimes asks too much of me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 903 days ago

17 November 2005 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been going out for almost a year and I'm pretty sure that I love her and want to always be with her. Her brother died in July, and since then she has become quite dependent on me, which I don't mind but she continually tells me I'm not putting in the e... (94 words)

How can we make things work, when I live 3 hours away from my guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 903 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - I've been in the most happiest relationship ever with the lad of my dreams and everything was so well and perfect. Then the other day he started getting annoyed that he had to wait 3 hours to get home, that I live too far away, he has to pay a fiver every time he comes down and ... (120 words)

I married someone else on the rebound, but still have feelings for my ex-husband!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 904 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - I have been divorced from my ex-husband for 6 years. I have now know him 21 years. (Since teens) We have two sons together. The problem is that right after we got divorced I got into a rebound relationship and have now been married for 5 years. My husband is good to me but ... (169 words)

Should I be bothered by her keeping a photo of her ex-boyfriend in her wallet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 901 days ago

17 November 2005 (M) - Hello. I am 24, as is my girlfriend. We've been dating for about 3 months now and things are going very well. The other day we were at the mall and when she pulled out her wallet to pay for something, she pulled out a photo of her ex-boyfriend. They had dated for 3 year... (405 words)

I'm not looking forward to Thanksgiving with my boyfriend's twin...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 902 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 5 years. We have a one year old daughter together. We have had our good times, and we have also had a lot of bad times. I love him so much. And I believe he loves me too. But he shows it in a negative way a lot. We both have our ... (266 words)

His family threatened to disown him if he gets back with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 905 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - I'm sorry for such a long letter but I really need help on this one and I have to tell you the full background! My bf of 3 years and I have got back together after a three month on-off period. We do love each other to pieces and get on great. The thing is my bf does not think ... (580 words)

He has a reputation for treating girls badly, but now he's going out with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 902 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - Please help. I'm going with a guy for 11 weeks. He has had a reputation in the past treating girls bad. He is going out with a girl for 3 years and is now going with me but he tells me he really likes me. I'm different! "One in a million". I'm wary though, because iI have bee... (125 words)

We've had some hard times in our five years together, but is it time to move on now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 899 days ago

17 November 2005 (M) - Hi, I am in a relationship which has so far lasted 5 years. My partner and I have not had an easy run at things, yet I refuse to give up on a relationship which does have some really good times. I have noticed that I have given up all the good things which I enjoy and ha... (150 words)

What could we have done to make sex so uncomfortable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 905 days ago

17 November 2005 (M) - Me and my girlfriend where having sex and it was all good. Then I must have moved wrong and I jabbed her the wrong way or too hard. She got me to stop right away and she looked like she was in a lot of pain. I stopped right away and after that whenever we have sex she says it ... (96 words)

I was dumped because I don't have enough sexual or emotional "experience"!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 900 days ago

17 November 2005 (M) - I have been dumped because my partner was my first person that I got involved with, and slept with. Now he tells me that I have no previous relationships, sexually and emotionally. I was told that I have nothing to rate this relationship on. I'm 22, he is 25 and I am in love ... (200 words)

I love my wife, but since she's cheated twice, I just don't know if I trust her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 906 days ago

17 November 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have been cheated twice by my wife. We have two lovely kids aged 9 and 10. I truly love my wife but I am now not sure whether I will be able to trust her again. She says she still loves me and wants to keep the family together. Sometimes I feel like a fool to c... (72 words)

Should I give my unforgettable ex a second chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - Is it always best to stay with the "comfortable, nicer" boyfriend? Four years ago, I dated a guy for about a year and a half. I was crazy about him but unfortunately, he was still inexperienced with relationships and had a hard time expressing himself and giving me a serious ... (464 words)

I don't want my husband to even say "hi" to another woman, because he might cheat!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 905 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - Hello, I'm a 26 year old female married and have two kids. Been married for the past 3 years. When we first got married he hardely said anything that if I look good or no, once in a while! The problem is that I go crazy if I see him standing with another woman at work, or... (222 words)

I can't seem to have a talk with my fiance!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 906 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - I don't know were to begin, I love my fiance very very much. But to honest there are a lot of things we need to talk about I just don't how to talk to him. It sounds wierd because we known each other for so long, but when I go to talk to him, I just can't. So I just shy away. ... (91 words)

My baby's father only comes around to borrow something, or for a favour... or for sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 906 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - I think my bf, with whom I share a child, doesn't love or care for me any more. He doesn't call or come around, and when he does, it seems like it's only for a ride, sex, money or something stupid like that. He will go days without calling me. (But if I do that he will accuse ... (73 words)

Do I tell my boyfriend about the messages I found on his phone?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 886 days ago

17 November 2005 (F)

- We have been seeing each other for 2 years and we live together. About 1 month ago I was going through his phone and read some messages from a girl I dont know. It said "I don't like to share, call me when you're single". I don't know what to do, or how to approach my boyfrien... (93 words)

Was he just using me... or was he actually genuine?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - I have this very complicated situation. There is s guy I like. I’ve met him since going away to college. We all hang out in a group of about 10 of us, and we met thru the college's website before coming to the college. The first time we met, we kissed, we were rather wasted. I ... (400 words)

He can't leave his ex yet... and we've been dating for 6 months!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 907 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months. When we began seeing each other, I knew that he still lived with his ex-girlfriend, and he cannot leave right now financially. Both her and I are really bothered by this. I never go to their house, hate their dog that they ... (72 words)

We used to have sex, but now my gf is scared of getting pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 882 days ago

17 November 2005 (M) - Hi, me and my gf have been together for 1 year. We are both 16 and we have always had sex often. Now all of a sudden she says she can't because she is scared of getting pregnant. We always use protection and I can't help think she is cheating on me or something. It's starting ... (81 words)

Had to give up the sneaking around on our partners, but my ex lover won't take No for an answer!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 907 days ago

17 November 2005 (F)

- I wonder if anyone can help me? I have just broken up with a man I was having an affair with. He has a partner and I'm a married woman. We did fall in love but I felt that we couldn't keep seeing each other because it wasn't fair on our partners and the guilt was killing me. T... (129 words)