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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Afraid that guys will be turned off by my pubic hair!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 570 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - I am so afraid that guys will be turned-off by my pubic hair. I don't know what I am supposed to do. Should I shave? Should I wax? Or just let it grow into a horrible looking bush? What do most women do? Does this really gross out guys?... (49 words)

I love my girlfriend but I spend way too much time thinking of this other girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 897 days ago

25 November 2005 (M) - There is a lass at work I really like.....and have done since the second I saw her. She is so perfect. One night we were out on a staff do and I think I told her I like her. She got really cross with me, all I can remember is her saying you have a girlfriend and what do i ... (150 words)

They have an energetic sex life, but he has never reached an orgasm

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 888 days ago

25 November 2005 (M) - A friend's new partner is about 23 stone and binge drinks rather too regularly. They have very energetic and regular sex life, yet he has not achieved orgasm as yet (3 months). He told her that he had been badly hurt in relationships in the past.He seems to me to be someone ... (97 words)

The spark is gone with my boyfriend and he has no idea I feel this way!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 225 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a few years but have recently met someone new. I live with my boyfriend but i feel the spark has gone slighty and look at him as more of a best friend now, he has no idea i feel like this and was going to propose recently until we agreed we ... (111 words)

I love him but he's very controlling-can we work this out if we try harder?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 897 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - I feel very foolish to be doing this, but I am desperate for answers..I am 62, quite young for my age and have raised 5 children and am now raising 1 disabled teenage grandaughter. I have had some disaterous marriages, my last 2 husbands died unexpectdly. I am going blind and ... (155 words)

I gave my virginity to my boyfriend 3 years ago so will he notice I had sex with someone else, recently?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 708 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - i broke my viginity 3yrs ago and i'm still with the same guy. today i had sex with someone else. will my boyfriend of 3years notice that i had sex with someone else! i've only known him.... (40 words)

I broke up with him because we argued so much. Now I miss him, so do we get back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 898 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - i broke up with my boyfriend about a week ago, as we kept having arguments about me not going to visit him enough. i am currently at university and only come home on weekends (he lives in my town)and during this time i try to see my family friends and him, but this was not ... (162 words)

Lonely and so horny..does anyone have tips to share?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 896 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - I am completly misunderstood by everyone. I am a female but I have male instincts I always want sex it is the best thing in the world to me. But since I am in high school I dont sleep with many guys. Vibrators dont give me any good feelings. I like it when guys touch me run ... (75 words)

I feel our love is gone, but my boyfriend just won't deal with it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 897 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - i have been with the same guy off and on for the last 3 years and here in the last 6 months, we have done nothing but argue so he has moved out. and we are to try to date again but every time i call he says there you go trying to start shit again. and i am not but thats wh... (187 words)

She tells me she loves me...but only when she's drunk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 897 days ago

25 November 2005 (M) - I have been dating this girl for three months now. Most of the time we were inseparable, she would always be telling me how much she liked me and how she was waiting for someone like me. She tells me that she loves me everytime she's drunk. But now she says she's not ready ... (83 words)

I love this boy from Belgium but he has a girlfriend..what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 898 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - im a 15 years old and every year for the past three years my family and i have been going to the same hotel every summer and when we first went my family and i made friends with a family from Belguim who go to the same hotel every year. There is a boy the same age as me in this ... (138 words)

My girlfriend makes me feel paranoid when she says I express my feelings to her too much.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 898 days ago

25 November 2005 (M) - me and my girlfriend have been together since december last year. so far we have had a great relationship but over the past month things have gone all weird and i dont know where we are going. we haven't had sex for about a month as she said all i wanted her for was sex and ... (327 words)

I need some tips...how do you keep a guy interested when it comes to kissing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 897 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - Does anyone have any kissing tips? I am having a hard time keeping guys intrastead. When it comes to kissing.... (21 words)

Help! I missed my period after sex, one week ago!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 897 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - I'm 15 years old and i've been with my boyfriend for 4 months we had sex a week ago now and i have now missed my period. What shall i do? And if i am pregnant i'm scared to tell my parents due to our religion as it recommends not to have sex until married! Help!?... (56 words)

what is the best age to have one night stands?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 787 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - When I ask this I mean an age. What age is proper for sex like 1 night stands? I think 18. But my freinds seem to think differently.... (29 words)

My wife's past is driving me crazy...what do I do?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 33 days ago

25 November 2005 (M) - I am a married man of 6 years and have known my wife for 8 years. I love hear from the bottom of my heart, the problem is we have never spoken about our previous sexual relationships up until recently, when my wife made a comment saying that she was sure that I have had more ... (142 words)

My friends told him I fancied him...what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 898 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - Hi, theres this really cute boy at school that I really like. I don't think hes had many girlfriends, and when i told my friends i fancied him, they ruined it by telling him! I think they've scared him off! When they told him, he asked to see who I was but I thought my friend ... (66 words)

My girlfriend has a profile on a dating site, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 898 days ago

25 November 2005 (M) - Yesterday I found a dating website on my girlfriend of 3+ year's browser history that she has been going to that she said she stopped frequenting after our first year together. I clicked on it and she was still signed in. Curious, I just clicked on the Mail icon, but had no ... (259 words)

What do I do about my horrible best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 896 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - my best friend is recently being horrible to me and being bitchy. i don't even feel like going to school because of her.what shall i do?... (26 words)

How do I deal with girls fancing my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 896 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - hi. I am going out with my boyfriend for 7 months. wE were best friend before so ive known him 2 years and since we've been together it has been perfect. He is a university student and lives with 3 girls! I know 2 of the girls like him and he kissed one of them a few years ago. ... (318 words)

She intentionally hurts me...what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 898 days ago

25 November 2005 (M) - i had a good relationship from the onset. but i couldn't understand her anylonger, after which she asked me that she's not confortable with the relationship any longer.but the way i reacted by sheding tears in front of her, cos i was heartbroken by the words. eventually she ... (110 words)

My wife had a past lover she kept a secret for eleven years

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 898 days ago

25 November 2005 (M) - about 3 weeks ago my wife told me she had slept with someone she had kept secret for eleven years.i knew how many people she had slept with , but why she never told me is a mystery , i think she done it while with me thats why the name was never mentioned when we had the ... (71 words)

I miss my childhood friend...but do I contact him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 245 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - I have a life partner, but recently I fell in love with my childhood friend, whom I haven't heard from for over a decade. I was once in love with this friend, but we lost touch for many years. At the time, he had caused me much hurt, so when he came back this time, we became ... (307 words)

I have a flying phobia..am I selfish to ask my partner not to travel without me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 898 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - My partner and I have been together for 5.5 years, we bought a house together last year and are very happy. I really don't like flying due to a phobia, this is something I hope to overcome in the future but for now means I am unable to travel overseas. My partner has always ... (320 words)

She wants a 'no strings attached' relationship but I want a committment.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

25 November 2005 (M) - dear cupid i have been in a relationship for the past year. i am 18 and she is 17. we went on a break recently which lasted 7 weeks. we got back with each other and then she told me she wasn't sure what she wanted. she say's that she still wants to meet up and have a no ... (125 words)

My wife doesn't want sex. Do I look elsewhere?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 898 days ago

25 November 2005 (M) - My wife does not want to make love any more. She does not like sex - totally uninterested and refuses help. She is happy this way. Do I look elsewhere?... (32 words)

Help! How Can I Achieve an Orgasm without a Vibrator

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 898 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - Although having regular sex and enjoying it very much, I seem to have a problem of actually achieving an orgasm, I get to the point of almost having one but dont quite get to the over the edge feeling. What is wrong with me and how do I sort my problem. My husband is now ... (87 words)

I want to get my boyfriend something special and memorable for Christmas...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 899 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - It's time to shop for Christmas presents but I have no idea what to buy for by boyfriend. He plays soccer and baseball, eats a lot, listens to soft rock and some rap. Whenever I ask him what he wants, he says he has everything he needs in me. This may be very sweet but it d... (77 words)