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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Shy about asking a girl out because she's a mate's sister and she's taller than me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 919 days ago

3 November 2005 (M) - Hi, I'm a 15 year old teenage boy below average height. I haven't had a girlfriend ever. I have asked someone out and she was supposedly going to date me but my mate asked her and well... Well they broke up 3 times after only 3 weeks. Anyway there is this girl and she is my ma... (108 words)

We're together long-distance, but my boyfriend still tries to control me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

3 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years. He recently went abroad about 6 months ago to work and we agreed to keep the relationship going. The problem is that he wants me to tell him everything every time I go out. Whether guys have come up to me or have I ... (166 words)

In order to get full custody of her son, my fiancee had to cut off contact with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 918 days ago

3 November 2005 (M) - I am engaged to be married a year from now to the most wonderful woman in the world, positively my true love. We have been best friends for 3 years and our love for each other was unstoppable and became clear last May. With her I knew a happiness only Gods could create, as ... (239 words)

Can I persuade my student not to return to school, or should I stop worrying about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 919 days ago

3 November 2005 (F) - Hi. I hope someone can give me some advice or help put things in perspective for me. I am a teacher at a college and am worried about a student. She is quite ill and seems to need my help a lot. The problem is that I can't handle her being around and don't want her to return n... (133 words)

Why is life seeming so pointless?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 903 days ago

3 November 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm 12 and I think I am depressed. I just feel life is pointless at the moment. I did feel like this a couple of months ago but I started to get a bit better, but now I have started to think it again and I could almost cry every day. I do not know what to do as my friend ... (92 words)

I'm going to visit my online bf in Spain. Should I finish it with him because of the distance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 920 days ago

3 November 2005 (F) - I've been in a relationship with this boy for just over two months. He's 4 years older than me and the biggest problem is that he lives in Spain. I know it seems stupid but I never felt like this about anyone before. It's really hurting my parents and I can't stand to see it ... (95 words)

My lover thinks too much is at stake. Should I let it go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 915 days ago

3 November 2005 (M) - I am a married man of 10 years with two children. Six months ago a woman started working with me. She is also married, but with no children. We have fallen in love with each other and although we have not been "intimte" we have kissed many times. She thinks that there is too ... (108 words)

I'm scared of sexual contact with anyone after being molested by my cousins since childhood!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 880 days ago

3 November 2005 (F) - This is something that had been bothering me for so long.... I grew up around my male cousins and nostly that's all i knew was boys because that's all i had been around. Well i guess i was a very attractive little girl because everytime i was around any of my male cousins the... (495 words)

The father of my child says I'm on my own, but what's best for the baby?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 905 days ago

3 November 2005 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I dated on and off for about a year. I found out a few months ago that I am pregnant. Initially he said he was confused but he did know that he didn't see a future for us together and I would be on my own. We saw each other a few times subsequently, tried ... (157 words)

My boyfriend's still seeing his ex. I know, because SHE told me about it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 920 days ago

3 November 2005 (F) - Hi Well, to cut a long story short, my met this man about a year ago and he spent 8 months pursuing me 'cos he said that as soon as he saw me he wanted to be with me. Well, eventually we got together and everything was perfect. I love him still, even now. I found out... (172 words)

I'm not over my ex and I want her back in my life. Am I just torturing myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 920 days ago

3 November 2005 (M) - My girlfriend split up with me about 7 months ago, after an intense relationship that lasted for 5 and a half years in which we lived together for all of that time. She also happens to be my best friend (soulmate) and has been for the last 12 years since we met at school sixth ... (311 words)

Financial troubles and fights about our kids are ruining our relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 920 days ago

3 November 2005 (F) - I have been in a relationship with the same man for 2 years. We have a 4 month old and I have a 3 year old from a previous relationship. Recently he has been getting angry a lot and we argue a lot over the children and our finances. I dont know what to do from here. I love him ... (83 words)

We're separated by shyness - and international borders!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 919 days ago

3 November 2005 (F) - Ok there's this guy I really like. The problem is he never talks to me, oh yeah and he lives in a different country! He comes over here occasionally and I get to see him but never have the guts to go over and talk to him. I just don't know what to say. He's really shy as well ... (88 words)

During sex, my boyfriend says he sometimes doesn't "feel anything"...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 902 days ago

3 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend says he mostly can't feel anything when we make love, yet when it is good, it can be amazing and he can feel me (he also says I don't always move correctly which affects things). It has got to the point now where he will pull off during sex and mostly not even let... (124 words)

We're broken up, but I can't get my ex to leave my house!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 919 days ago

3 November 2005 (F) - I split up with my partner last week, as things weren't going too well, but now this person just won't leave my house. I have asked but I'm trying to get her out the house without hurting any more. How can I get her to leave? Also there's someone else I'm intrested in but she ... (100 words)

I'm so hung up on the guy from school that I'm starting to feel stalkerish...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 919 days ago

3 November 2005 (F) - HI, I'm 16 and theres a boy in my sociology class... I think about him all the time. I dream about us kissing and holding hands almost everyn ight. I also talk to him online, but he never replies... does that mean that he doesn't like me? I see him smiling at me sometimes, bu... (142 words)

I'm 34 and I'm ready for sex as part of a loving relationship... but I've never had it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 918 days ago

3 November 2005 (M) - This is an extremely embarrassing thing to admit but at 34 years old, I have never had full sex. I have only once had a sexual partner, about 4 years ago and had severe problems in the bedroom department. She wouldn’t go all the way with me as she said that ‘I wasn’t ready’. P... (143 words)

My bf is going through a rough patch, and he takes out his frustrations on me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 920 days ago

3 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend was in a car accident about 2 months ago-his car is a total wreck but through a contact of his he decided to fix it for about R10000. To do this he had to take a loan etc. He's OK but so frustrated and irritable. I feel like he takes all his frustration out on m... (192 words)

I cheated with my ex a long time ago, but my current boyfriend doesn't trust me NOW...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 917 days ago

3 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend of a year does not trust me because when we got together I had an affair with him whilst with my ex-partner. We are very much in love and have great times together but he keeps accusing me irrationally even when he has proof of where I have been. I am very ... (122 words)

What will happen to our relationship if my fiance has to work interstate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 919 days ago

3 November 2005 (F) - My fiance is leaving to work in Florida for 2 months, and I'm worried things won't be the same way when he gets back. Am I being selfish? Or just scared to be without him or what?... (37 words)

My time with this guy was just a rebound fling and I know it. Problem is, he's in love with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 919 days ago

3 November 2005 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of two years about a month ago. I still miss him and think about him, though I feel that I made the right decision leaving him.( I left him due to communication problems) The problem is, I did the rebound fling thing with one guy about two weeks ag... (136 words)

Is my loss of libido from medication? Depression?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 902 days ago

3 November 2005 (M) - How does a person know if their sexual dysfunction or loss of libido is due to depression problems or not? I am aware of meds causing problems but for me I have had sexual desire problems for a long time and I am only 26. I just have no sex drive and my doctor has no idea what ... (60 words)

I want to let this guy down easy. He wants a relationship that I just can't give him...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

3 November 2005 (F) - I kinda talked to this guy for about 3 months and then we ended up sleeping together and I actually took his virginity. Well we messed around a few more times, the problem is I have lost interest in him, but he hasn't in me. He is completely infatuated with me, but I don't fe... (143 words)

I have to work off my room and board with my girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 920 days ago

3 November 2005 (M) - Ok, I'm a 26 year old male. I absolutely despise my girlfriend though....and I live with her in a house she is paying-off. I constantly have to adhere by her strict rules. I mean just because it's her house and she lets me live there that I have perform all the yard chores ... (77 words)