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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Mum's boyfriends are poor choices and they always end up moving in...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 905 days ago

18 November 2005 (F) - My mother always dates men that are not good to her and they always end up moving in. This I feel puts me in a bad situation. She has dated an alcoholic, two ended up in jail, and the other we have had arrested two times and have a restraining order against. I'm sixteen and ... (77 words)

My friend got back with her bad-news boyfriend - then disappeared!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 905 days ago

18 November 2005 (F) - My best friend has this boyfriend whom I've warned her from the beginning is bad news. He verbally abuses her and is beyond jealous. She cant even hang out with me when my boyfriend is there. I randomly leave papers about abuse and help in her car and in her room until ... (157 words)

My husband can only get off on oral!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 905 days ago

18 November 2005 (F) - My husband cannot reach orgasm through intercourse, only oral sex. The problem is I hate having to give him a blowjob every time we have sex. It feels like work, and it hurts my back, neck, jaw. He says he tries to reach orgasm during intercourse, but it's just not enough ... (123 words)

My boyfriend tells me he loves me, but I always seem to come last in his life...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 896 days ago

18 November 2005 (F) - I'm 16 years old I've had a long term relationship with the same boy since I was 14. Me and him had a lot of fights and we have had a lot of mistakes in the past. We broke up for 4 months and got back together. Ever since we've been back together I thought things would be soooo... (317 words)

I have a crush on him and everyone thinks we'd be a great couple, but I'm afraid to ask him out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 878 days ago

18 November 2005 (F) - I have a big crush on this guy and have done for five months! I have a reputation as being a swot and so does he. Everyone says we would be perfect together. The thing is I am afraid to ask him out! What should I do??? Luv Hannah... (52 words)

We never realised the strength of our love until 10 years on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 903 days ago

18 November 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid I am puzzled and frustrated and I need some help. I don't know what to do about my former girlfriend. 10 years ago, she broke up with me. Before that, we lived together for a few years and we believed we had met our soulmate. We felt that we complemented each o... (369 words)

I cheated and every time my boyfriend remembers it, it hurts us both...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 897 days ago

18 November 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for four years and everything was going on well until I cheated on my boyfriend. He found out and till this day my life has been really hurtfull. He told that it was going to take time for him to forget and I agreed to it, but every time he ... (108 words)

Awkward situation ahead. Should I completely avoid the woman I cheated with when we're at a ball together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 905 days ago

18 November 2005 (M) - Six months ago when I was on a college fieldtrip and a bit low on confidence I cheated on my girlfriend (GF) of (2yrs) with a coursemate (CM). I came clean straight away and although it has been difficult we are now as strong as ever. However both my GF and my CM will be a ... (184 words)

Is this just a nice way to dump someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 375 days ago

18 November 2005 (F) - What the heck does this mean? It seemed as though things were going really well the best it's been, then this?!? "It was fun and I enjoyed our time together. As I said earlier I thought the idea of taking a step back was a good one. Things were moving way too fast for my ... (101 words)

I just wanted to give him space, but did I break us up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 899 days ago

18 November 2005 (F) - Here goes...We are both in our thirties. Have been dating a guy for 2 months. He has so much going on that I suggested that we take a break until I see him for Thanksgiving at his parents. He simply avoided my suggestion, called me one more time and now it's been 3 days w/ no ... (109 words)

I'd like to ask my girlfriend to shave...

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

18 November 2005 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for not that long and just started to have sex, but she doesn't shave. It doesnt bother me that much but I would prefer it if she did shave. How can I approach this problem?... (40 words)

She's married with kids and not in love with me, but I want more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 899 days ago

18 November 2005 (M) - Hi. I am a single 20 yr old Male. I am in love with a woman who is 40 yrs old. She is married with kids. But I am worried because we are best friends and have been for nearly 2 years now. I am certain she is not in love with me. But I want more. I am also worried if she finds ... (86 words)

Mum doesn't like me going out with my boyfriend, but she won't talk to me about why...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 906 days ago

18 November 2005 (F) - Why is it, and what can I do? HI, I am sixteen turning 17 and the boy I am going out with (dating) is 19. He is the first person I ever been out with, and the only one I seem to really like and would ever consider to have as a first boyfriend. I am not a person to just l... (347 words)

She's been in contact with her ex for the last six years! She says they're just friends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 906 days ago

18 November 2005 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been going out for nearly 6 years. Previous to this she had been married for 16 years. Her marriage broke up because she was having an affair for about 10 years with another man. When I met her she said that she had split up with this man and that the ... (207 words)

My girl will have sex with me, but she hates to touch my penis!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 906 days ago

18 November 2005 (M) - My GF has a problem with the texture of penises and finds touching mine revolting. She was badly abused as a kid and won't talk to me about it and, to my mind, clear the gremlins by bringing them out into the open. I suspect this "touching" problem comes from these ... (80 words)

Is his attraction to teenage girls normal?

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 38 days ago

18 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend just told me he is attracted to teenage girls. He says he would never act on it, but its a pervertion of his. I dont know how to feel about this..he is 34 years old and so am I. I cannot compete with youth... Is this sick or am I being paronoid?/... (54 words)

I have to lie to my boyfriend just to have a girls' night out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 906 days ago

18 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend gets extremely mad when I go out. It's gotten to the point where I have to ask permission or lie about it. He is very protective and is a jealous person. I try to explain to him that I love him and wouldn't do anything to hurt him, but this doesn't seem to make ... (96 words)