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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I feel as if the world isn't real...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 899 days ago

23 November 2005 (M) - I am 24 yrs of age and feel that world revolves around me. I keep thinking of what other people would say or do in reaction to what I do. I tend to easily believe someone, as my shutter of brain is down when I talk with people. I can't separate truth from deception and lie. I ... (100 words)

I'm with one person, but I think I might be falling for someone new!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 899 days ago

23 November 2005 (F) - I'm in a bit of trouble you see. I'm with one but secretly falling for another. I feel like a prisoner in my own home. I have been very very sad and do not know what to do. Should I stay or should I go ?... (46 words)

I'm not ready for sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 900 days ago

23 November 2005 (F) - ok, i am 18 years old and my boyfriend is constanly pressuring me into having sex. i really love him and we have been together for 3 years, but im just not ready to become that intiment. what should i do?... (41 words)

My boyfriend's ex says she's pregnant, and her family insist they get back together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 900 days ago

23 November 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid My boyfriend has now confessed to me that his ex girlfriend may be pregnant for him. Apparently they broke up when she told him that the child she was carrying was not his. That was the story until about a month ago when the story changed and she now says that it... (296 words)

I can't understand why a woman who seems to like me keeps me at arms' length!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 900 days ago

23 November 2005 (M) - At the start of October, I kept bumping into a girl when I was out at the weekend. After a few weeks, we started emailing each other. Then she came home from uni three weekends ago and we got on well. She asked me out to a gig the following weekend. I agreed. We went to the... (332 words)

He led me on for five years, talking about a wedding that could never happen...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 895 days ago

23 November 2005 (F)

- Dear Cupid, I have been dating a guy for 5 years. We started on when I was 26 and I'm 31 yrs now. He is my first and only boyfriend. He told me me he wanted us married in November this year and that he really means it. I asked him so many times if he was sure because I am... (445 words)

I think I've lost her, because things were moving "too fast"...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 900 days ago

23 November 2005 (M) - I have been dating this girl for the last few months. Everything happened very fast, but it seemed mutual. We both have expressed how strong we feel for each other, but now she wants to slow things down. She still wants us to date, but take a huge step back. I don't know ... (115 words)

She kissed someone else...what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 899 days ago

23 November 2005 (M) - I have been going out wit my girlfriend for the past year and 2 months. I love her very very much and i did want to spend the rest of my life with her. I currently travelling round the world and she's back at home studdying at university. Im am going travelling for 9 months and ... (452 words)

Drugs are a worry and we have no money but do I marry him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 900 days ago

23 November 2005 (F) - ok, i need to know what you all think about marriage. heres my story. i am 21 years old and have been with my significant other for about 3 years. we have a ten month old son together. i feel like im missing out on alot because "joe" (the other half) will be 30 next year. ive ... (291 words)

Met a great guy but my ex wants me back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 899 days ago

23 November 2005 (F) - Hello Cupid, Ok. My boyfriend split with me a couple of months ago. I found out he snogged another girl whilst on a stag do and he said he had been unsure of his feelings for me for about a year. He then went on to meet up with the girl he snogged on the stag do which ma... (405 words)

How do I arouse my girlfiend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 550 days ago

23 November 2005 (M) - HOW to Arouse My girlfriend in a nice way?... (9 words)

13 years old and I want a boyfriend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 824 days ago

23 November 2005 (F) - hello i am 13 an i am so very woried that i havn't snogged a boy every one else in my year have and i have only ever had one real boyfreind what should i do because i realy want to get off with a boy but none of the boys at skool like me and i dont know any boys that i like ... (68 words)

What's the best way of measuring my penis? Don't want to mislead my internet girlfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

23 November 2005 (M) - Hi can u help My internet chat room friend wants to know the size of my penis. How do i measure it to get the correct figure U hear about people being 5,6 or 7 inches but where do u measure it from?I want to be accurate as not to misslead her Someone plz help,... (63 words)

Can I change the way my testicles look?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 888 days ago

23 November 2005 (M) - I am a man of 24 years of age but i am scared to get naked,never mind have sex with women. The problem is im embarrased by the size of my testicles,they are so small and tight u can barely see them.i think girls will laugh when they see them. Im not gay but when i look at o... (91 words)

How do I start to do some soul searching?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 899 days ago

23 November 2005 (M) - Dear Cupd, and readers. I relly need some advice, and I hope that I can get all the advice that i can get. "How do you find yourself, and what your purpose is in life? How do break free from what society expects you to be and search what it is that you truely want to be" ... (162 words)

How do I break free of my protective family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 899 days ago

23 November 2005 (M) - How do I tell my parents to get a life, and let me go and get my own life? I'm 22yrs still living at home, working in partnership with my dad, I am not allowed to move out,not allowed to travel, make friends, meet my friends. If my cellular phone rings, and its business or one ... (350 words)

He hates his ex and just wants to be friends...I want more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 900 days ago

23 November 2005 (F) - We have a strong emotional connection and both clearly like each other, but he has such a bitter hatred for his ex that he cant get over. They were together for three years and she cheated on him so they broke up this summer. Since then, we have hooked up but thats back when ... (151 words)

Should we marry or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 900 days ago

23 November 2005 (F) - i', sapossed to be getting married but there alot of things wrong in our relationship. we can't have a serious convertion he wants sex like 10 times a day i want it maybe twice a week what should i do ... (40 words)

A guy I like is friends with my ex but will he ever be with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 898 days ago

23 November 2005 (F) - A guy who I had been dating for nearly two years broke up with me, broke my heart. He instantly hooked up with his ex and moved in with her. After a few months and a rebound relationship which was fun but wasn't ever really going to work, I find myself thinking all the... (177 words)

I can't believe that all those phone calls were just to "a friend"!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 901 days ago

23 November 2005 (F) - I've been living with my boyfriend for 2 years. We've had our ups and downs, but for the most part, we were so happy together. Towards the end of our relationship we get in a huge fight of something small of course. I tell him...fine....just move out. So he does. But the ... (361 words)

He doesn't think to send me cards or say nice things to me. Is it just a guy thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 900 days ago

23 November 2005 (F) - I'm a 34 yr old women dating a 35 yr old man for about a year. We are very much in love and talk about our future a lot. I love to tell him how great he looks or how sexy or kind or strong I think he is (not all the time just a few times a week maybe)... I even send him cards ... (135 words)

I just can't get a proper erection and it's driving me mad...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 899 days ago

23 November 2005 (M) - I am male, 56 and have had sex problems all my life. I have almost never been able to get an erection. If I take Viagra I can get one but as soon as I enter I lose it. It is so frustrating. I sometimes wonder if I wasn't sexually abused as a child and have repressed it. The ... (90 words)

My lover can't even cuddle me without it becoming sexual!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 900 days ago

23 November 2005 (F) - Me and my lover of 2 years are happy except when it comes to one thing ... He wants sex all the time. He can't cuddle or be next to me with out touching or being sexual, even when other people are around. I think he has sex with me in my sleep! How can I get him off of me?... (63 words)

My boyfriend says he doesn't like to kiss...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

23 November 2005 (F) - Ever heard of this one? a guy who doesn't like to kiss? He says he doesn't like it and that most guys don't either. ... (28 words)