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Archived questions from: 20 November, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I fancy my best friend's younger sister... Do I ask her out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 201 days ago

20 November 2005 (M) - Dear Agony Aunt I am 22 and I have feelings for one of my best friend’s younger sister who is 16. She is very mature for her age and looks and acts nearer 20. We get on like a house on fire and have some great laughs together. I don’t have trouble finding dates my own age... (229 words)

My ex hates her current relationship, but "doesn't know" about getting back with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 894 days ago

20 November 2005 (M)

- Hi I have been friends with my ex-girlfriend for round about two months. Lately all the feelings I had for her back then have come back. She is in a bad relationship with this other guy, she complains about everything he does wrong to me, and I feel as if I have another cha... (156 words)

Does my ex want me back? If she does, why doesn't she just say so?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 902 days ago

20 November 2005 (M)

- Hi My problem is I went out with my ex girlfriend for 6 months, 6 of the most magical months of my life, but by the end of the sixth she dumped me saying she needs time to sort out her priorities. I was upset but I recovered. It's been around about 5 weeks since she dumped... (178 words)

Am I reading too much into these subtle signs from my doctor-employer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 901 days ago

20 November 2005 (F) - How would you interpret this? I work for a consultant surgeon and although he is usually very professional and caring, he occasionaly comes out with insensitive comments and regrets it. The other day he said something (half in jest) he knew had hurt me about my looks, then h... (172 words)

No foreplay, very little oral, and he lasts about a minute... Do I keep working on sex with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 899 days ago

20 November 2005 (F)

- I wonder if anyone can help me here. I've been with a guy for over two and a half years. The sex I have with him is not too good. He is in his early 40s but he doesn't do much foreplay. He gets funny if I try to kiss him all over, he never explores my body, all he does is kiss ... (187 words)

Now that we're together, my boyfriend doesn't even try any more!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 903 days ago

20 November 2005 (F) - How can I get my boyfriend to quit being so "lazy" about our relationship? I know about the "now that he has me he can stop trying" thing that men do, but what can I do to get him to try as hard as he did when he first was pursuing me? ... (53 words)

I think I'd rather be with my ex... even though he's not very reliable...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 903 days ago

20 November 2005 (F) - I have a boyfriend of 3 months and I thought I was in love with him, but now my ex wants me back and I think I want him back too, because recently my feelings are changing for my current boyfriend. I feel trapped and don't know what to do. I don't want to break my boyfriend's ... (71 words)

My boyfriend is having an affair... and she's not even cuter or younger than me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 901 days ago

20 November 2005 (F) - I am 19 and my boyfriend is 22. I have just found out he has been having an affair with an obese old woman in her 50's for 3 months now, and I feel inadequate and I worry about if he will come back to me or not. What do I do about the affair? Jodie ... (62 words)

Sex is off the menu with my girlfriend, at least until we get married!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 900 days ago

20 November 2005 (M) - Religion has ruined my sex life. My girlfriend and I have had a pretty great sex life until one day she just decided her priorities in life were different. Now she insists on us waiting until marriage to do "it" again. I plan on marrying her and she knows that. We've talked ... (143 words)

He said he just needed time, so why did he suddenly change his mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 903 days ago

20 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend had broken up with me after I was "walking all over him". Then told me he wanted to get back together, but needed time to get his life back on track. I waited for him, then he changed his mind after a month. My friends say he probably met someone new. We had ... (76 words)

My ex keeps breaking my heart, but I see him every day!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 903 days ago

20 November 2005 (F) - Hello, I am in a lot of pain. My ex broke up with me 3 years ago- it was very heart breaking as he was my first everything- sex, love etc. One of the reasons we broke up was because he was moving to a different city. I have now moved to that city and he is roommates with my ... (241 words)

My new guy would be perfect... except he's married!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 902 days ago

20 November 2005 (F) - I meet this guy, lets just say it's like the pretty woman movie. He buys me all sort of expensive gifts and such. It is so different with him, the other day we were making out for 4 hours straight without having sex at all in any way. He says he is in love with me and I kn... (115 words)

I'm in love with a stripper, but did I miss my chance with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 903 days ago

20 November 2005 (M) - Hi, My friends invited some strippers over and I got involved with one of them. She really liked me, by the way she expressed herself to me and I fell in love with her. Then I asked her out, but on Saturday night after she finishes I got sick and we could not go out. Then n... (118 words)

My boyfriend doesn't follow through with his promises!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 903 days ago

20 November 2005 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship and my boyfriend for 2 months tells me he'll do things and he doesn't do them. Is he trying to tell me he doesn't want to be in this relationship any longer?... (39 words)

The idea that my boyfriend looks at porn before having sex with me is a big turn off!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 903 days ago

20 November 2005 (F) - When my boyfriend looks at porn I feel really betrayed and unsexy. I just had a baby and still have a lot of work to do on my body so I am very sensitive anyway, and it just hurts to think that I am not enough for him after what I have been through (pregnancy and child birth, ... (191 words)

The pain of my past relationships makes me push even nice guys away!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 901 days ago

20 November 2005 (F) - I've dated a lot but I haven't seemed to be able to get passed the hurt I still feel inside- I feel that I gave all of myself to my ex-husband- my heart, soul, love-I'm afraid to let people in- I've even dated really nice guys but I always seem to push them away. How do I get... (66 words)

I cheated, but promised my girlfriend I'd tell if I ever did. Now what do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 882 days ago

20 November 2005 (M) - This might be a long read, sorry about that, I hope Irish could advice on this, you seem like a very intelligent and mature woman. I'm a 25 year old male and I've quite recently messed up completely (like so many other stupid stupid men). Three days ago I cheated on my gi... (519 words)

My ex will take me back, but what if I miss a chance with a new man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 902 days ago

20 November 2005 (F) - I need help. Fisrt I'll give you the run down of the situation. I cheated on my ex-boyfriend *Colin (* = not real name) so he obviuously broke up with me. I was very regretful and begged and begged for him to take me back but he refused. So one day I was at college crying ... (229 words)

I'd swear my husband's buddy was flirting...even though he denied it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 903 days ago

20 November 2005 (F) - I am married for two years now and love my husband dearly. I have always been faithful to him and never thought of cheating or being with someone else. Last December I met his buddy, whom he has known since high school. He is an attractive guy and very successful. When I m... (263 words)

I argue so much I feel like I don't belong in my family!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 904 days ago

20 November 2005 (F) - hello, I am having massive problems with my mum. I keep arguing with her just before I called her a f*****g b***h. Then she came into my room and threw my Christmas tree across my room and slapped me on the arm. It all started when I was downstairs and I said bo..om instead of ... (110 words)