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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I gave up my interested male friend for my boyfriend's sake, so why won't he dump his female admirer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 907 days ago

16 November 2005 (F) - My partner and I have been together for about 10 months. Our relationship is fantastic, other than one thing. About 2 months ago a girl started texting him (it was a friend of his ex). She made it clear that she is keen on him and is constantly trying to get him to meet her. ... (264 words)

Why would my mate say such mean things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 906 days ago

16 November 2005 (F) - Hey people, I met my best mate 2 years ago and our personalities clicked instantly. Even though I've never thought of him as a bf I still love him to pieces as a friend, and he feels the same way about me. *Jamie and I are the kinda mates that dont let anything come between ... (159 words)

Each of us thinks we want different futures. How can we fix things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 908 days ago

16 November 2005 (F) - Hi everyone, I am so scared to lose my bf of a year and a half now. We have been friends for 4 years, and he is so wonderful and unique. I am 23 and he is 28, we are just starting to realize that we want different things with our future "together". He doesn't want marriage... (144 words)

We'd broken up and he had a one-night stand. Now, somehow, I still feel betrayed...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 908 days ago

16 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend left me unexpectedly about 3 times during our first 2 years together. After lots of time, talking and counselling it turned out to be related to some issues from his childhood, which we have now dealt with. We have enjoyed a year together without any problems of ... (215 words)

I'm confused by what seem to be his conflicting messages to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 903 days ago

16 November 2005 (F) - Can anyone give me a clue as to what might be going on? This guy, a senior person at work, has been having a tough time so I used to jolly him along, sending him supportive emails. When we are alone he always seems welcoming and friendly and has replied to my emails telling ... (308 words)

My fiance is so concerned that I might not be happy with him that he's driving me nuts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 902 days ago

16 November 2005 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for 2 years now. We have known each other for 10 years before we got together. Last year he was in and out of jail. The last time he was in, there was talk of prison. So I made a really big mistake; I cheated on him with his best friend. ... (178 words)

His mum says he has to choose between living at home and being with me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 908 days ago

16 November 2005 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over nine months. We are very happy together but our main problem is that his family does not believe we should be together because of our ethnic differences. He is Ukrainian and I am Hispanic and Black. His mother feels as... (136 words)

I love crossdressing, but I'm afraid of what my girlfriend might say about it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

16 November 2005 (M) - I'm 29 and ever since I was 12 or so I've been secretly wearing women's clothing. Sometimes just undies/tights etc and sometimes dressing up completely as a woman. At different times I have stopped and sometimes even got rid of all my feminine clothing but sooner or later I ... (116 words)

My boyfriend keeps delaying his return from the country he's working in. Does he still care about us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 908 days ago

16 November 2005 (M) - Dear Aunt Agony. Whats more important? Your job, or the person "that you love". would you come back for your soulmate, or stay for your employment in another country? I'm a gay 23 male involved with a man 25 years old. He went overseas to work for 1 year, therefore makin... (629 words)

I worry about my girlfriend's best friend's influence on her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 908 days ago

16 November 2005 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 5 months and everthing is okay, but she refers a lot of things to her best friend. It is okay but the fact her best friend isn't a very good best friend really annoys me and I feel she isn't very trustworthy. Therefore when they go ... (73 words)

Should I ask our a girl I only just met?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 908 days ago

16 November 2005 (M) - Hi. I'm not really sure what to do about this girl I met last Saturday. She was really attractive and we had a nice conversation and I'd really like to ask her out but I don't know if I should because we just met Saturday and probably will never see each other again - unless of ... (65 words)

His friends all say he likes me, but does he?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 907 days ago

16 November 2005 (F) - I am 14, and I really like a boy who is in nearly all of my classes. I think he likes me too, but even though my friends all tell me categorically that he does, I just don't know. I don't want to jeapordise our friendship by telling him how I feel, but I just don't know what to ... (86 words)

I broke up because I'm always finding fault with my boyfriend. Now I wonder if I made the right choice!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 907 days ago

16 November 2005 (F) - I broke up with my bf of one year few days ago. He loved me to death, but I asked for the breakup and broke his heart. I feel so sad and have been crying for days about it. I am not sure if I am doing the right thing. I decided to break up because we were always fighting... (375 words)

I want to tell my wife how much I love it when she's dressed up, but I feel weird about it...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 908 days ago

16 November 2005 (M) - Ilove my wife's femininity. I love when she is dressed up, her perfume, clothes, boots, nylons, sexy underwear, etc. I am unable to communicate this without fear to her and am afraid she thinks I am weird. I suffered abuse as a kid and fear this uncertainity about being no... (63 words)

Sex has gone from multiple times a day to maybe once a week!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 908 days ago

16 November 2005 (F) - I am a 20 year old female and I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year. We have a incredible relationship and are very much in love but for the last 6 or so months ago he doesn't want to have sex with me. It's usually about once a week if that. When we first started ... (122 words)

I already have my suspicions about my husband and his female friend, so what happens when I have to leave them alone for a week?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 903 days ago

16 November 2005 (F) - My previous question was "Are my husband and female bartender just friends or is there something going on? This was tagged "Three's a crowd" The reader's responses were very helpful but my next question is - next summer when we go to our cabin and I go home for work for a we... (126 words)

My husband stopped speaking to me when I told him I was 7 weeks pregnant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 907 days ago

16 November 2005 (F) - My husband was mad when I told him I am 7 wks pregnant. We have been married 2.5 yrs now and he says he doesn't like children, though he plays well with his niece and nephew. He wants me to abort. What shall I do? He hasn't refused to talk on this subject anymore and we haven... (68 words)

Do I really make my fiancee happy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 908 days ago

16 November 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am a 23 year old man who is uncertain about how my fiancee feels about me anymore. A few months ago I was put in jail for about a week for mistakes I have made in the past. While I was detained my fiancee slept with my best friend. We worked things out, ... (207 words)

I want to break up, but how do I do it and avoid the emotional blackmail?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 908 days ago

16 November 2005 (F) - I've been with my partner for 18 years. I no longer love him and want to leave him, but he emotionally blackmails me with suicide. How do i tell him I'm leaving and how to end our relationship? I've had enough. All I want is to be on my own and bring my son up, without him. I ... (74 words)

My boyfriend doesn't love me like he used to...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 909 days ago

16 November 2005 (F) - Why does my boyfriend not have sex with me as much as we used to? How do I get him to love me like he used to?... (27 words)

I wasn't ready when I met him, then he turned around and married someone who doesn't make him happy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 908 days ago

16 November 2005 (F) - I'm in love with an unhappily married man. I had my chance with him not once but twice. But I had just gotten out of a bad marriage and I was not ready for the kind of relationship that he wanted. He was ready to settle down and have children and he is a very loving kind of guy ... (151 words)

I can't talk to other boys and he just doesn't trust me. How can I make things good between us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 887 days ago

16 November 2005 (F) - I'm 17 and have been with my boyfriend since I was 14. I thought everything would be perfect. I was besotted and thought we would last forever. We are still together now but everything is going wtong. Our relationship is based on nothing. There is no trust between him for me ... (342 words)