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Archived questions from: 19 November, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I think I love him but he lives so far away!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

19 November 2005 (F) - I think I'm in love. It's with someone I can't have. We live on opposite ends of the country now so we don't see each other at all. He used to live nearer to me but then moved to Surrey. He knows how I feel about him, and we both like each other a great deal, but he only sub... (117 words)

After his lies about his having kids, I can't help but wonder when he says there's nothing between him and the ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 905 days ago

19 November 2005 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months now. We get along great. The only problem is that he has 2 children with his ex-girlfriend. During the first 3 months that we were going out he denied the fact that he had children and told me very little about his ... (183 words)

Mum's racist views have percolated into my own unconscious mind, and I want to get beyond them!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 904 days ago

19 November 2005 (M) - Hello, I want to break free of shackles that tie me up due to my upbringing. I have always looked at the world from the eyes of my mother, who is quite simple in her outlook, yet she is kind of racist at times. She looks at things black and white and there is no middle ground... (277 words)

We both have had problems in dating... so I can't tell. Is James as interested as I am?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 904 days ago

19 November 2005 (F) - I am a 33 year old single female- and I will be the first to admit- I am horrible at reading other people or understanding affairs of the heart (I’m a research scientist- therefore most of my thinking is overly analytical- I will confess). I have never been married nor have... (1000 words)

I want my fiance to get his vasectomy reversed, so he can have some children with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 905 days ago

19 November 2005 (F) - Me and my fiance are very happy, he is older than me and has two kids to a previous marriage, I'm still quite young and would love a family but when I bring the topic up he says to stop pestering him and that he is thinking about it. The problem is he had a vasectomy and I want ... (104 words)

How do you start a conversation about being ready for sex, when you're a virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 901 days ago

19 November 2005 (M) - How do you bring up the topic of sex with your partner, when you are still a virgin? I have not been in a sexual relationship before and I do not know how to start, or how to ask? What's the best way, if both are ready? If both are comfortable with the idea how do you get ... (66 words)

My partner has convinced everyone that I'm the mean and nasty one... but he treats me terribly!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 904 days ago

19 November 2005 (F) - I have been in a relationship for over 15 years. Right from the start my life has been dictated to either directly or indirectly by his family. I am not allowed to enjoy anything that I used to love passionately (I still love, but scared to try and enjoy again as he'd make my ... (540 words)

I had a mid-life crisis and can't shake the feeling that my wife is going to want "revenge"!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 905 days ago

19 November 2005 (M) - Two years ago I had the classic "mid life crisis". I became isolated from my wife and family, and began sabotaging my relationship. When my relationship with my wife broke down I considered the possibility of a relationship with a female friend of mine. I left home for a couple ... (177 words)

She's seeing someone now... but she gave me her email address...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 905 days ago

19 November 2005 (M) - I'm really torn. About one year ago I was working at a phone agency when I met this really cute, funny, all-around great girl. Over the course of a few months we became friends and that's when I started wanting her as more than just a friend. I made up excuses to be with her ... (186 words)

My husband has been chatting on porn sites and that's cheating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 904 days ago

19 November 2005 (F) - I just found out my husband is chatting with live porn girls on the computer. He has been doing this for five months secretly. He does not know I know yet. We have been married eight years and I want a divorce. It is cheating, isn't it?... (51 words)

Is the woman at work waiting for the right time to leave her boyfriend for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 903 days ago

19 November 2005 (M) - I have been involved with a woman at work for the last few months. We have known each other for over two years. She has a live-in boyfriend and her actions seem to dictate that she is not completely happy with him. I am not sure about all of this and from time to time I p... (355 words)

I want to say something and tell him how I feel!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 899 days ago

19 November 2005 (F) - I have a very close boy mate at university, and we have been friends since first year, attended the annual ball together etc. In first year I told him I liked him but things went rubbish and we fell out before I found out what he felt. Then last year we had a very stormy y... (183 words)

Is there anything more to our relationship than just fantastic sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 905 days ago

19 November 2005 (F) - Hi everyone, I really hope someone out there can help me with this. It's quite long, so please bear with me. x.x I’m a bit of a commitment phobic, as I’ve been hurt before and petrified of being hurt again, even though deep down I want to settle. I recently met Mr.B nearly 2... (386 words)

I can't take the abuse from my alcoholic girlfriend any more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 903 days ago

19 November 2005 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 18 months. She is an alcoholic . She is going to AA and had been dry for a month. After a period of 3 months where she was out of control. I am at my wits end because I have listened to the promises. Been calm and relaxed not tried to rea... (175 words)