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Oh no! I lied about being separated and having kids, then my boyfriend found out!

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Question - (22 November 2005) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 November 2005)
A female , anonymous writes:

I lied to my boyfriend a lot. I am separated and did not tell him that I was married or had kids. I am getting a divorce and he has found out. I do not want to lose him. What should I do?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2005):

Ok, I'll preface this by saying you sound kind of nuts.

If you dont want to lose him you need to de-emphasise the 'trap' nature of the information he just found out. Dont ask him for commitments, make plans etc...

And you are going to have to put out some pretty good sex...

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A female reader, Stewart Terrace +, writes (22 November 2005):

Just be honest with him if you care for this partner sit him down and talk to him open all your emotions and things that you have been hideing

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2005):

you say you dont want to lose him, yet you didnt respect him enough to tell the truth. at what point were you planing on telling him the truth? Hes probably feeling hurt, angry and cheated that you are not the woman he thought you were.

You need to ask yourself some serious questions. are you so deperate for a relationship that you will lie about who you are, lie about being a mum? how can you expect other people to accept you when you dont even accept yourself.

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