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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

No orgasm with my boyfriend, even after four years! Suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 912 days ago

10 November 2005 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for four years and he has still yet to be able to get me off. I've heard putting pillows under your butt works, but I've had no luck. Can someone give me some tips please?... (42 words)

I'm in love with my boyfriend's brother but I don't know how the brother feels!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

10 November 2005 (F) - I'm in love with my boyfriend's brother. His brother has told me time and time again that he feels the same way. I am not happy with my boyfriend and really don't know what to do. I need to find out whether his brother is stringing me along or if his feelings are true, but I ... (107 words)

He doesn't want to break up, but suddenly he doesn't love me, either...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 912 days ago

10 November 2005 (F) - When I step outside myself, the answers to my confusions seem so simple but my heart wants to complicate it. I've been dating this guy, let's call him Jordan, for almost 8mths now. He's 36, I'm 27. I've known him a year and a half. I met him through a club that I worked a... (716 words)

First he broke up with me, then he was friendly. I don't know what to do anymore...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 912 days ago

10 November 2005 (F) - I met this guy when I was in my first year of university (I was 18 and he was 20). We hit it off right away and spent the entire year madly falling in love with each other. That summer I broke with him b/c I was having personal problems even though I still loved him very ... (376 words)

My husband looks at porn, then blames the fact that I work in the evenings...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 894 days ago

10 November 2005 (F) - My husband has been looking at nude pictures of women posing on motorcycles. When I confronted him, he denied it first, then said it was my fault because I work evenings. When I do get home, he's already asleep. What should I do about his browsing?... (49 words)

What's the best way to treat a former-romance, former-coworker?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 912 days ago

10 November 2005 (M) - A few months back I was seeing a girl who I worked with. We had only known each other for about a month before we started dating. My opinion of her had changed completely over that month, from not really caring to speak to her, to finding I really enjoyed being around her. This ... (306 words)

Is he hiding something? Should I be worried about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 909 days ago

10 November 2005 (F) - I'm in a longterm relationship but he will never show me his phone. I am beginning to think he is hiding something. I'm worried this will affect our relationship. What should I do?... (33 words)

I can't stop thinking about the girl in school, even though she's dating someone else...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 913 days ago

10 November 2005 (M) - Dear cupid, I have a problem in school, well, a love problem. I love this girl to bits in school but she is going out with someone. He is a really horrible and I hate him. But what the problem is, is that I can't stop looking and thinking about her. Could you give me ... (71 words)

Looking for tips on getting fit without going to the gym...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 909 days ago

10 November 2005 (M) - I am a 15 year old. And I don't have access to a gym. I am fit and quite small. How can I build muscle in the house? I do 20 - 40 pressups a day. ijust want toned shoulders and body. Is there any other hints besides situps?... (53 words)

How can I learn to worry less about the past, so I can move on in my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 912 days ago

10 November 2005 (M) - I am seperated from my wife. It has been a year and we have a little boy of 2yrs and 8 months. I have these overwhelming feelings of guilt for leaving both my wife and my little boy. I phone my little lad every day and I see him every 2 weekends without fail. I just keep ... (183 words)

Does he love me or is he scared he was going to get hurt, or is he a jerk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 909 days ago

10 November 2005 (F) - With this guy I cheated on my boyfriend for, we got together, For a year three of those months were actual non cheating. Intro to the fam, said they loved me. then he says he doesn't trust me because I've lied about still speaking to my ex. I just didn't want him to be mad. ... (245 words)

I met him online 9 months ago. Now his church commitments take up all his time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 912 days ago

10 November 2005 (F) - Been with my boyfriend for nine months now. Met him through a Christian dating website and met him not long after. The problem is that was nine months ago and I haven't seen him since. He lives 2 hours away on the train so not very far but he's training to be ordained as a ... (158 words)

Don't want to tell him how strongly I feel about him, because I might lose our friendship entirely...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 913 days ago

10 November 2005 (F) - I still have feelings for an ex-boyfriend I was with 5 years ago. After the breakup, we have kept in contact and became closer than we were when together. He is now my best friend who knows everything. He has a girlfriend, in which he says very little about. His excuse for not ... (106 words)

She wants a break from the relationship, but I don't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 913 days ago

10 November 2005 (M) - hey.. I'm having a very big problem right now. Me and my girlfriend we have been going out for 4 months plus. We just had a big argument, about me being childish and that I always hurt her feelings, when in fact she is the ne who is hurting my feelings. She said to me yesterda... (170 words)

If I tell my fiancee I love her, will that help clarify her feelings about us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 912 days ago

10 November 2005 (M) - After nearly 3 years my fiancee turned around to me and said she didnt know what she wanted any more so we split. I know that she loves me and wants to be with me but I feel that other influences in her life are stopping her from realising this. We have planned to go away and ... (117 words)

I'm confused about whether to move on or try to work things out...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 913 days ago

10 November 2005 (F) - I'm 23 dating a 24 years old guy. We've been seing each other for almost a year now but three months back we started arguing time and again until now. Mostly it's about sexual issues. We often get on each others' nerves and it makes me sick. I don't know if i still want to ... (82 words)

It seems like my friends would rather be with each other than all of us together!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 611 days ago

10 November 2005 (F)

- I am female, and have 2 close female friends. These friendships started off separately, with both girls not really knowing each other. These friendships have now merged into one group of 3 friends. Lately i have been feeling as though the other two would rather not have me... (260 words)

Any change of a relationship with my boss?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 913 days ago

10 November 2005 (F) - I'm working as a laundry girl and have no boyfriend. I'm staying in with my boss who's a 36 year old, gorgeous single man without a girlfriend. I think I'm in love with him. Is there any possibility for us to have serious relationship? ... (48 words)

We're from two different States. Should I up sticks, or should he?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 913 days ago

10 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I are talking about getting married, but he lives in Shreveport, LA and I am from Alabama. He wants to move back to Texas where he was born, and I don't want to pull my roots from the 'bama soil. He says he's willing to compromise and move here, but then I am ... (107 words)

I don't want what my girlfriend wants, but I don't want to ruin her visit by breaking up...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 882 days ago

10 November 2005 (M) - I need some help. My girlfriend and I have been dating for just about 2 and a half years. She currently lives in a different city and is coming home for 4 days this weekend. Lately I've been feeling that she has been more of my best friend, than my girlfriend. I don't feel like ... (395 words)

Why do I still feel so strongly about my ex, even more than a year after we make a break of it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 913 days ago

10 November 2005 (F) - I'm going to try make this as short as possible.. but it's a really long story, hah. Me and my best friend, who was a guy, decided that we liked each other more than just friends and got together. We got on really well, and things went great for the first while. We both had... (516 words)