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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I'm ready to end it, but the house is in my husband's name and I'm worried about how our kids will react...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 910 days ago

11 November 2005 (F) - Hi, I have been married for nearly 4 years. My husband is a drug addict, coke user every weekend and sometimes one or two nights in the week. He has been to counselling but abandoned it. Has his own company, very succesful, but I am in debt to the tune of £100,000 due to u... (278 words)

I love my best friend, but she doesn't want me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 861 days ago

11 November 2005 (M) - How do I get over loving my best friend? We have been doing stuff together for over a year and I told her I loved her but she doesn't feel the same way. Now she is trying to do everything to show me that we can never be together. When I ask her what she wants from me she ... (147 words)

Need kissing tips...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 706 days ago

11 November 2005 (F) - I'm a 16 year old girl who is dating the most wonderful guy on the face of the planet. He's 22, and we're both really, really shy... lol! Now, I haven't kissed a lot of people before, and he hasn't actually kissed ANYONE before me... but when we DID kiss, it was lacking some... (106 words)

What am I doing wrong? Every relationship ends with me being ignored and hurt...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 912 days ago

11 November 2005 (F) - It seems that every relationship I have been in except for one, always ends up with them totally ignoring me. Now the relationship never ends off in a bad way, it just ends up with me being ignored. No discussion that it's over, nothing! Now, I try to keep in touch and stay ... (96 words)

I'm a girl with a crush on a girl... Am I a lesbian?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

11 November 2005 (F) - I have a huge crush on this girl. I am by the way a female. I am only 15 yrs old. She even asked me out. I went to her house for a sleepover and we kissed. Does this mean I'm a lesbian?... (43 words)

We've broken up a number of times over his womanising and lying...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 910 days ago

11 November 2005 (?) - I’m a 50 year old woman and I’m going out with my best friend’s brother who is 56 and a widower. He was married for 20 years to his wife and he used to be unfaithful to her. He’s a musician. He was married previously twice and his marriages never lasted. Besides that I didn’t ... (417 words)

Why can't I have the orgasms that my girlfriends all talk about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 911 days ago

11 November 2005 (F) - Hiya, I have a problem. I am 30 years old and honestly I have never climaxed in my life. I have had boyfriends and have been sexually active for a while - I have faked it when my boyfriend has a good one. I have felt it coming and literally I choke it. What is wrong? ... (133 words)

Thought I was over him... until he came back home!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 912 days ago

11 November 2005 (M) - I was in a relationship with this guy for one year and then he had to go abroad to work. We decided to really end it to save our feelings. We are in contact every week and most recently I thought I was getting over him until he came home and all my emotions blew up in my face - ... (125 words)

Should I go back to the ex I feel strongly about, or stay with my new boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 892 days ago

11 November 2005 (F) - I have a very huge problem. Well my ex-boyfriend is extremely mad at me. We broke up because of some complications, but we were planning on getting back together when I could date again. Well, over time I had feelings for someone else, and I told my ex that he should go out a... (219 words)

Who should introduce their parents first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 913 days ago

11 November 2005 (F) - Please I want to know: Who has to introduce the partner in a relationship to their parents first. Is it the lady or the gentleman? thank you... (33 words)

I'm not ready for sex, but my boyfriend is!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

11 November 2005 (F) - I have a boyfriend and he wants me to have sex with him. I'm not ready to. What should I do?... (22 words)

Help! I keep hurting my relationship by seesawing over going back to my ex...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 37 days ago

11 November 2005 (M) - Hi, I have a problem that I could really do with some advice on !! I am seperated from my wife and son, and struggling to move on. I have met someone else but every time I try to commit I start doubting everything I have done, so keep hurting my new girlfriend by backing ... (297 words)

I fancy this guy because he's so fit... But I'm afraid to kiss him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 893 days ago

11 November 2005 (F) - Dear cupid I fancy this guy, how is so fit. He goes boxing but I don't know what to do. We have talked to each other. People call him a male whore. I daren't kiss him in case he doesn't speak to me anymore. My friends know that I fancy him. What should I do? Please help me. ... (110 words)

What can I do to get Sam to pay attention to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 912 days ago

11 November 2005 (F) - There's this really lush lad called Sam that was at my college, but now he's left and gone to this other college! I really really like him and I still see him around. I phone him and that, but he never knows who I am. How can I get him to notice me?? Please help me! I also g... (68 words)

Once I thought he might be attracted to me, but now he gives me strange looks..!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 910 days ago

11 November 2005 (F)

- When I was dating my ex boyfriend, we always used to go visit a young man at a career counselling center for youths on welfare. I think I sort of had a crush on him and I got the feeling that he was attracted to me too, but because he was married and I had a boyfriend I never ... (188 words)

What's the best way to tell my ex that the boys and I are moving in with someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 909 days ago

11 November 2005 (F) - Hi, I am a recently divorced mom of 2 small boys. My ex husband is still trying to get me back, but he has been harassing me, and has somewhat of a pyschotic problem. He has accepted that we are divorced finally, and we have come to an agreement on custody, which is going to be ... (183 words)

Does the one who had the first crush automatically have "dating rights"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 913 days ago

11 November 2005 (F) - I'm seventeen, and I'm co-stage-managing a play with a great guy. I met him at the start of the play, and I currently have a huge crush on him. However, a close friend is the lead, and she's also got a crush on him. She's constantly flirting with him, and since she had her ... (117 words)

I just can't believe that my wonderful girlfriend was a stripper all those years ago. Sometimes it bothers me...

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 66 days ago

11 November 2005 (M) - I love my girlfriend totally. We've been dating for 2 years and talk marriage often. She's 35 and I'm 37, so we're not kids. We are both divorced. She used to be a stripper when she was 19-22. She supported her slacker ex and paid her way through veterinary school by doing ... (150 words)

Does my fiance really love me, or is it just my financial support?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 910 days ago

11 November 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been with my fiance since 7.4.2000 and in this time he has been unfaithful once, but I have still allowed him in my life. I do love him, but I feel tired of supporting someone other than my 3 children (2 mine, 1 ours), whom is quite capable of getting ... (151 words)

What are we doing wrong? Oral sex doesn't feel like anything at all...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 583 days ago

11 November 2005 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 3 months. He goes down on me and I don't feel anything, and when he tries to finger me it hurts. What is going on?... (34 words)

My old ex-boyfriend is back and I'd rather be with him than with my husband...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 913 days ago

11 November 2005 (F) - Hi I need some advice. I have been married for 3 years, and an ex-boyfriend came into the picture that I still care about. I want to be with him but I can't get a divorce for that. What do I do?... (43 words)

How do I tell if he's interested? And if he is, what do I say?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

11 November 2005 (F)

- Ok, I'm sooo confused about the signals I'm getting from this guy that I have a crush on. So I could use any advice at this point. In one of my college classes I noticed a really cute guy about a month ago. We would glance at each other during class and he would look at me ... (230 words)

Things moved too fast, then he became depressed. Now he doesn't want my help and our relationship is suffering!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 913 days ago

11 November 2005 (F) - I'm 38 he's 35. He's been divorced for 6 years. He married his high school sweetheart, they were together for 12 years married for 5. She left him and is set to marry the man she cheated on him with. He's had one other long term relationship that lasted about a year. She was ... (278 words)

The timing was terrible. Her crush on me ended before I got interested in her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 913 days ago

11 November 2005 (M)

- I recently found out my best friend had a crush on me about 3 months ago. Now I have a crush on her but from everything I can tell I think it's too late. What should I do?... (38 words)