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writes: I used to know a guy from school, and used to have a huge crush on him - of course he never knew that. But when I reached high school, I wasn't able to see him for years - yet I always used to think about him. Now I'm in my 20's and there's a chance he might come back into my life. I still think about him constantly, which is silly - since I can barely remember what he looks like. Please help me - How do I stop thinking about this guy? I don't want to miss an opportunity should I meet someone else, if I'm still only thinking about him…
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reader, Angel-lee +, writes (25 November 2005):
Ask him out, you are both adults now and chances are, he might like you too. If he says no then you have got your answer. If he says yes go for it. If he says no, he obviously isnt the one for you, im sure there are loads of guys out there that would be interested in you. The only way you will get this out of your system is to bite the bullet
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reader, Tim +, writes (23 November 2005):
 I think he must had a girl friend and never he did fancy yourself since, ur high school days he may love her truly.
If a guy likes and loves a girl no matter if he is in his early or late teen years he will tell her in one way or other way or stay in contact with her and comes to her house and meet her, calls her and making sure never loose her, but in ur blind love and case I never seen any love in his heart for you since ur high school days neither at the moment coz he never calls u or comes to ur house or like ur company, unless u force him to fall for you and leave his first love if he has one or he is with her right now, it isn't so easy for him to forget his first lover like u can't forget ur crush.
He never feel the way u do sorry, one way love means blind love like driving on one way street without.
In most cases one way love won't take u anywhere so before u waste ur time and thoughts and feeling and live for someone who is somebody else's boy friend, try to move on sweetie and find love in someone else, who loves u back and tell u how sweet and lovely u r, and he sees the whole moon in ur eyes, and he is in love and he has fallen for u.
Stop living in ur dreams from now on, open ur lovely eyes and live in reality, face it without fake it, imagine if u have never been his type from day one. Will u see any happiness in such relationship even if u have him? The answer is no.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2005): Find the guy, talk to him, and if he is single, ask him out. Women can do that these days, you know. It may be that he is a total jerk, married, with a screaming wife and three kids, and a deadend job. You won'tknow unless you confront the issue. The only way to do that is to contact him and meet him.
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