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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My boyfriend seems to think he's his sister's keeper!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 921 days ago

2 November 2005 (F) - I'm widowed and my boyfriend of 6 months has never been married. He's normal and wonderful in every way, and I believe he is going to propose soon. My problem is he feels an inordinate amount of responsibility for the care of his single sister. Their parents have been gone ... (111 words)

Don't love the father of my daughter. Do love my ex. What do I choose?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 900 days ago

2 November 2005 (F) - Hi, I've been in a relationship with a guy for almost 18 months now and we have a 4 month old baby daughter, the problem is I am still in love with my ex. We were together for about 16 months and I loved every minute of it, he was funny, kind, gentle and generous and I just ... (483 words)

He says one thing but seems to mean the opposite... or something entirely different!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 921 days ago

2 November 2005 (F) - The art of Male speech.. I was just wondering if anyone knows why men seems to say one thing and mean another..for example my ex has a habit of saying things to me which i simply do not understand. Also, because of the fact that he was my first boyfriend and first real... (241 words)

I'm thinking too much during sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 922 days ago

2 November 2005 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for almost a year. In the beginning of our relationship we were having good sex. As time went on the sex got increasingly worse because I was having trouble finishing up in bed. From time to time we have a good night in bed but then it goes ... (125 words)

She says that they're only friends from years ago, but her word hasn't been that great in the past!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 921 days ago

2 November 2005 (M) - My girlfriend of six years met up with a guy she met on the internet. She told me that he is a very good friend and that they have known each other for years. She has never told me anything about him and in my mind I think she is cheating on me. I want things to work out ... (95 words)

Only together for 5 months! Why do we have physical fights?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 922 days ago

2 November 2005 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for just over 5 months now and I have recently started becoming very moody when I see him. I am fine with everyone else but I can't help being nasty to him. We are always shouting at one another. We had an incident just over a week ago where I ... (97 words)

What's the best way to help my boyfriend on his recovery from childhood abuse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 922 days ago

2 November 2005 (F) - My BF was phyiscally and emotionally abused as well as neglected as a child by his mum's BF (he has also suggested it was sexual but not actually said it out loud). His mum knew and done nothing. As a result he went to live with his aunt. While his mum remained (and still do... (266 words)

We always seem to play our relationship by his 'rules'...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 919 days ago

2 November 2005 (F) - I volunteer to a lot of charities and tend to give up my time for them. But when I want to be with my boyfriend and he wants to be with me, I'm there. Thing is he says he loves me but we've broken up twice and gotten back together only once. Now he told me that he still lo... (231 words)

My bf is separated and soon to divorce, but I think he's prolonging things, so he can see us both!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 591 days ago

2 November 2005 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend and I have a great relationship. The only set back is that he is married (but separated). A divorce has been in the works for months. I want to leave him alone until the divorce is over. I feel that he still sneaks to see his wife and by prolonging the divo... (105 words)

We fight and make up... almost every day!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

2 November 2005 (F) - Hi, I am in a relationship with this guy for around one year now. We liked each other from the beginning. We share a lot in common and we talk about our lives and problems always with each other. We have this beautiful relationship, but in the past few months we start having a ... (133 words)

He's not gay or getting it elsewhere, so why doesn't my man want sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 903 days ago

2 November 2005 (F) - I'm 27 years old and have been in a relationship for a 2 years with a man I love. The problem is he just does not want sex. I feel unloved and neglected by him. I have researched the problem and tried to encourage him to see a counsellor but he just doesn't. I know he is not ... (66 words)

Things went great until we had sex. Now he's uneasy and anxious...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 913 days ago

2 November 2005 (F) - He is a new neighbour, the nicest and most genuine man I have met in a long while. I know he recently split up with someone and is not seeing anyone else. We get on really well and the chemistry seems to be mutual. I am quite smitten but try not to show it! He does all my odd ... (141 words)

He cheated with someone else's partner. Will he cheat on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 917 days ago

2 November 2005 (F) - I just found out that before we met, my boyfriend was having a sexual relationship with a woman who has a live-in boyfriend of 18 years. He obviously didn't care that he was having sex with someone else's girlfriend. And worse than that, he introduced me to this woman not too ... (73 words)

She's a wonderful girl, but I'm not sexually attracted to her...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

2 November 2005 (M) - Hi...I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 8 months now. I am 22 and she is 22. I love this girl so much and she makes me very happy. We have such a great bond together but our sex life is not good at all. I have trouble going the distance most of the time. ... (105 words)

Things were moving "too fast", but she still likes me and wants to be friends and "see how it goes". Help me understand!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 922 days ago

2 November 2005 (M) - This question is a little hairy and deals with this girl that I have liked for awhile. I had a long distance girlfriend and this other girl and I (call her Anna) started to become close but not really tell anyone about it. She didn't either. Soon, I broke it off with my girlf... (363 words)

I'm brunette and it bothers me that my boyfriend ogles blondes!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 921 days ago

2 November 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. He always does a double take when he sees a blonde woman (I am dark haired). He tells me he doesn't know why he does it, but would never be unfaithful. I find it hard to trust him because of his ogling, though he never flirts with ... (65 words)

Internet porn has become my partner's main sexual activity...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 828 days ago

2 November 2005 (F) - I know my partner has been looking at internet porn a lot. He has been since he first had a computer. To start with, I thought it was just a novelty for him. but now, even though we are living together, he seems to prefer porn to me. He knows I find it disgusting but he lies ... (181 words)

My partner seems to think that just going to work is enough of a contribution to his family...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 774 days ago

2 November 2005 (F) - My relationship is in serious need of repair but I just can't seem to find any way of beginning. My partner is more attracted to the computer than me. I am full time mum and housewife. My partner behaves like a teenager, believes he shouldn't have anything to do with kids or ... (96 words)

After I took him back, he started treating me as badly as before!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 922 days ago

2 November 2005 (F) - My ex left me and dated another girl a while later when he said he didn't want a relationship. He's treated me like dirt and is indecisive about what he wants. He was all nice and wanted to work things out, but now he's back to being a jerk and is treating me like crap again. ... (103 words)

I really fancy this girl, so should I just come out with it and tell her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 921 days ago

2 November 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid... OK this probably sounds stupid, but there's a girl at school I have a mad crush on and want to ask her out badly... I've spent loads of time with her already but I don't know whether to tell her I like her first (as in say 'I really fancy you; just letting ... (82 words)

We hold hands, cuddle, talk, have sex, but we're not really going out. Is it a lost cause?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 922 days ago

2 November 2005 (F) - I just got out of an ugly relationship, and it was an ugly breakup. I've had a crush on this guy (I'll call him Ryan), and I've thought about him on and off for 2 years and he never goes away. Everytime we stop talking, we end up meeting and end up talking again. I even tho... (229 words)

Another girl said my bf kissed her 5 months ago. He denies it. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 921 days ago

2 November 2005 (F) - How should I handle this? I just found out that my boyfriend of almost 2 years was with another girl about 5 months ago, not sexual but they kissed. I asked him about this, and he said I was crazy and that he didn't even know this girl, just knew her name. But she's the one ... (133 words)

If I run into the guy that treated me like dirt in high school, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 922 days ago

2 November 2005 (F)

- My tenth year high school reunion is coming up next year, and I'm worried about running into this guy that I had a huge crush on. We left on really bad terms, I'll try to explain why as quickly as I can. Well he was a jock, and the class validictorian. He was also the most... (174 words)

My older guy is concerned about our age gap, but I'm not...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 907 days ago

2 November 2005 (F) - HI Everyone! I'm 21 and the man I love is 42. We get along on soo many levels! HE has concerns that he will "steal" my childhood away. I feel that I'm 21 and what childhood would he really be stealing? I love him so much... Is it ok for me to love someone so much older than... (65 words)

He said he loved me and was going to leave his gf. Now I think I'm pregnant and he's still with her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 921 days ago

2 November 2005 (F) - I had an affair with a guy that has a girlfriend because he told me he really loved me and that he was going to leave her. Now that I think I am pregnant by him. He swears to her that it ain't his and that he don't love me. What should I do?... (54 words)

It's me that wants sex. I have to beg my husband for anything more than a cuddle!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 922 days ago

2 November 2005 (F) - This question is very embarrassing. I've been married for 8 years and 6 of those 8 years have been almost sexless between me and my husband. The really hard part is that it's me who wants sex and NOT my husband. Usually...men want to have all the sex and the wives have to ... (140 words)

She's had loads more sexual partners than I have, and it bothers me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 901 days ago

2 November 2005 (M) - I am 24 and have been in my current relationship for 6 months now. It is only my second relationship and my first lasted for about 4 years and they are the only two women i have ever slept with. I love her more than anything but am having a real hard time coming to terms wi... (348 words)