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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

It seems obvious that I have to break up, but how do I let him know I'd rather be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 918 days ago

4 November 2005 (F) - Help me!! In the past year I have been romancing my childhood sweetheart. It’s been good, until I needed to move to be nearer my family. Now all he wants from me is sex....sex talk, videos anything sexual....I am a very highly sexual woman, but at the same time, I could li... (341 words)

My husband has said he wants to wait to have sex... until we're 60!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 352 days ago

4 November 2005 (F) - I am 24 and my husband is 29. I promised to him that we would not have sex until we were married, as we are both virgins. Now he's saying that he doesn't want sex with me until we're in our early 60s - and I find it odd. He said to me that he meant this seriously, and w... (96 words)

I'm trying not to drive my 13-year-old daughter's relationship with her 18-yo boyfriend underground!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

4 November 2005 (M) - Dear Agony Aunt, My 13 year old daughter is dating an 18 year old, she's known him since her last year in middle school. He is in the sixform of her new high-school and will be going to university next year. I feel I cannot say anything because it will drive the relati... (174 words)

When we meet, we can't keep our eyes off each other. It's just that we're both with other people...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 918 days ago

4 November 2005 (F) - Hi, I desperate for some advice because I'm so confused over this situation. Basically I met this bloke when I was 17 and he was 26. He's part of the regular town social scene and although he's not that amazing looking I'd always had a bit of a thing for him. One night wh... (541 words)

I like her because she flirts with me... and with everyone. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 918 days ago

4 November 2005 (M) - I really fancy this bird and I don't think that she knows, but she's incredible so she probably does. She flirts with me, but she does with everyone, that's just her, that's what I like about her. I'm fat, she's fit, what should I do? I've even wrote a poem. I really am losin... (75 words)

How does a single dad with 2 teenage kids get back into dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 918 days ago

4 November 2005 (M) - Dear Agony Aunt, I'm a single parent with two children, who have now "just" become teenagers. I've looked after them both on my own since before one of them was still in nursery school. However, I'm quite lonely, feel I've been out of the relationships game for a long ti... (125 words)

We only have time for sex now and then, but we cuddle often. Are we abnormal, like my friend says?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 902 days ago

4 November 2005 (F) - I have been happily married w/ my husband for the past 2 years. ours was a love match and we were together for 5 years. Though we are from different backgrounds, economic, social and caste, our families get along great too. in short life is perfect. even friends are always ... (164 words)

I was trying for a romantic gesture for my boyfriend and ended up waiting 20 minutes in the freezing weather!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 917 days ago

4 November 2005 (F) - Sorry for such a long question but I really need some advice and I think you need to know the background to help me!! I'm very confused at the moment, I've been going out with my bf for 3years. We've been on and off for the last three months but decided to give it another go. ... (281 words)

Will it be a problem if my best friend's ex-hubby becomes my live-in "maid"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 917 days ago

4 November 2005 (F) - My best friend's ex-husband wants to move in with me and my child and be our "maid". He and I are just friends and there is nothing there but I am worried about how my friend will really feel although she says she doesn't care. She has re-married and moved on. Also I wonder ... (61 words)

I think the tutor fancies me as much as I do him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 918 days ago

4 November 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, There's a tutor at my university, who I really fancy, he doesn't teach me but I got chatting to him in a cafe when he sat down next to my flat mates who are his students. He's very nice, a great sense of humour, intelligent, and pretty fit, all his student... (177 words)

Not sure how my best friend will react when I tell her that I'm bi...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 916 days ago

4 November 2005 (F) - Recently I have accepted myself as being bisexual. I'm comfortable with it myself, but I'm not sure if others will be so I haven't told many people yet. I have three best friends (all girls) and only one of them knows about it. I want to tell the other two soon, and I know tha... (157 words)

After dating for a month, he had to go overseas for six months. Am I stupid to wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 919 days ago

4 November 2005 (F) - Hi everyone, Well, I'm only going to keep this question short and straight to the point: I've been seeing this fella for a month but he has moved to America for 6 months to work but will be home for Christmas for a short while. He has rang me already from America. I miss him... (104 words)

Trying hard to do what my husband wants in the bedroom, but I find it all a bit uncomfortable!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 908 days ago

4 November 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm a 30 year old women and inexperienced. I'm married and I have concerns. My husband wants a freak in the sheets everyday all the time maybe the least 1 a day. I know nothing to be freaky and I know he's bored with me because he mentioned sex all the time... (245 words)

I was looking forward to seeing an old flame... until he sent me a weird and raunchy sex questionnaire!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 919 days ago

4 November 2005 (F)

- I have been in contact with a very special old boyfriend who is overseas and wants to come back and see me in January. We have been flirty and I sent him a picture of me in frilly pants to keep him going until then! I would have said he is a "good" man. I sensed nothing odd ... (214 words)

I discovered my boyfriend downloading bestiality porn...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 902 days ago

4 November 2005 (F) - I have a serious problem and I need a non judgemental answer. I found that my boyfriend of 2 years has been downloading porn with females having sex with horses. I approached him about it and he was defensive, I feel this is wrong and told him so. I feel I can't trust him now ... (109 words)

My bf is so controlling that we regularly scream at each other!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 919 days ago

4 November 2005 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for a year and we live together. He can be very controlling and our general arguments are over me doing things without him. If my plans don't include him he sees this as a rejection, and quite often instigates an argument which then has ... (142 words)

The chance for sex came around, but I panicked because I'm inexperienced....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 916 days ago

4 November 2005 (M) - Im 22 and still a virgin. This hasn't been a problem for me in the past because I don't have any trouble getting girls, I just haven't wish to sleep with any of them because I'm more of a relationship kind of guy than a one night stand one. However, I've been going out with a ... (195 words)

After 3 years of dating, my girlfriend won't even consider foreplay...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

4 November 2005 (M) - I'm 26 and my girlfriend is 23. We have been dating for 3 years. She is completely frigid about any thing physical. Her parents act like sex is the devil or that it doesn't exist. My question is, what do I do? Do I leave her or is there some way to help her to be receptiv... (66 words)

My husband just isn't affectionate. No cuddles, no sex... I feel so unloved!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

4 November 2005 (F) - My husband and I have been married 22 yrs. But, we have known each other since I was 13 and he was 15. We started having less and less sex about 2 yrs. ago. He was having problems keeping an erection. About 4 months ago he had to have a triple by-pass. So therefore we hav... (197 words)

She wasn't allowed to date me because I'm an atheist and she's a person of faith...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 919 days ago

4 November 2005 (M) - Hi I'm having a problem right now. I met this girl through a friend of mine and when we first met we fell for each other. The problem is we broke up after a few weeks because she told me that her cell group leader did not approve of our relationship because I'm an atheist while ... (129 words)

I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 22. Soon I can move in with him...

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 540 days ago

4 November 2005 (F) - I'm a 15 year old girl and my boyfriend is a 22 year old man. A lot of people give us problems because we are 7 years apart but the way I look it at, it doesn't matter how old you are, what really matters is the maturity level. We have been together for almost 8 months now and ... (140 words)

We couldn't agree on some big issues, so we mutually agreed to end it. Mistake or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 919 days ago

4 November 2005 (M) - My girlfriend and I were virtually perfect for each other. Everybody thought that we were the perfect couple. However, there were a couple of things that we disagreed on and we couldn't compromise. Religion, our life's goals, and location (she's a city girl and I like the ... (106 words)