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writes: Help needed very sadI have been dating this guy for 3 years and everything was great. We loved each other and showed it and always made time for each other. Then this past year everything just changed suddenly. He's busy all the time and hardly ever home, and when he is home I feel invisible sometimes. He tells me he has a lot of responsibilities but he still loves me. He goes outta town and I usually find out a couple of days before and I have no say; he's an adult. I've tried telling him how I feel but to him...life goes on. There is an 11-year age difference( he's 48 I'm younger) and I'm wondering if that's it or what. Why would you stay with someone you have no time for? Please help cuz I love him a lot and I don't want to lose him. Reply to this Question
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reader, Angel-lee +, writes (25 November 2005):
Tell him how you feel, all sounds a bit fishy to me. Be honest with him and tell him you are not waiting around any longer for him because you fell in love with the person he was not the person he is becoming. bE STRONG, IF ITS MEANT TO BE ITS MEANT TO BE
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2005): you are obviously feeling very insecure when he doesnt have time for you. He says he loves you. Hold on to that. Most guys will not say that if they dont, they'll avoid the subject, turn it around, anything but talk about love if they dont.It sounds like he's under a lot of stress at work, (it may also be mid life crisis) and the last thing he needs now is you whinging about how you feel. Talk to a girlfriend about your insecurities but try to ease up on him. Reassure him that you are there to support him. let him have space if he needs it. Ask what you can do for him rather than what hee can do for you and your relationship might get a little stronger.
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reader, tamul11 +, writes (22 November 2005):
just give him some space. as a guy i can say that if he says he loves u he must.just give things sometime.just sit down with him and talk to him. take a day off and have fun just the both of u.may god bless u
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