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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My boyfriend would be perfect, except that he feels I'm not good enough for his family!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 90 days ago

28 November 2005 (F) - My bf and I have been together for almost 6 months. I am 29 and he is 27. I have three children from a previous marriage, he has never been married and does not have children. He lives about 30 miles from me, and works about 5 miles from me. He stays with me during the workw... (337 words)

How do I know if my relationship is over?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 33 days ago

28 November 2005 (F) - How do I know if my relationship is really over? Should I just give up?... (15 words)

How do I get my relationship back on track?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 867 days ago

28 November 2005 (M)

- Hi, basically I think I've messed up everything, and need a bit of advice. I've been going out with my gf for nearly 5 1/2 years, and all of a sudden last week she said 'things' were bothering her and needed to chat. She told me some 'home truths' and I know i need to cha... (157 words)

Conflicts in my family because I'm not rich...please help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 886 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - Why do i have to conquer the world to be considered worthy of existence on this planet? I mean i did all the things required to let me earn a living for myself. But what i realize, it doesn't count anything for my family or ppl in my society. I am 24 and my cousins are high... (411 words)

How do I correctly handle my girlfriend's son?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 895 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - I have a girlfriend that I started dating about two months ago. She's 39 and I am 38, and we're both divorced. I have 12, and 14 year old step-children from my previous marriage. She has an 11 year-old son, who's father she divorced when he was very young. She married ... (560 words)

I love my friend but his friend wants me...help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 895 days ago

28 November 2005 (F) - hi im inlove with one of my best friends i no he likes me too but he has a girlfriend. now i found out his best mate (my good mate) likes me instead i dont know what to do because i no they talk about me when im not there please help!... (52 words)

Can a book make a girl dump a boy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 53 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - my girlfriend has just bought a book called is he realy just that into you she told me that 6 of her girlfriends had red it and they all broke up with their boyfriends now i am sceard she will leave me how can a book do this for all these girls to dump their boyfriends... (56 words)

I want her but she pushes me away...what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 893 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - Hi, i'm Chris (17) an i have a female friend (17)called Sam, we are friends and have become very close lately, she has had a few problems and she pushes people away sometimes because she thinks people don't care about her, she is such a beautiful girl and last week she t... (178 words)

How do I get my husband to be more responsible?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 820 days ago

28 November 2005 (F) - My husband and I have been together 6 1/2 years. I have always been the aggressor and he likes it that way. I wear the pants in the family and he lays back and takes it. I manage the money, the bills, the decisions. I bought our car, I found our house. I pick our doctors. ... (178 words)

I have no feelings for a guy I used to fancy but I can't convince this new guy...help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 880 days ago

28 November 2005 (F) - Dear agony aunt... I'm in need of some serious help,for the past few months i have been working with a new guy at work, i really enjoy his company and he makes me feel special,although i don't know if he feels the same way about me as i do about him,he's 23 and i'm 17,we ta... (149 words)

My relationship with my teacher ended...now she's back in touch. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 885 days ago

28 November 2005 (F) - I am now an 18 year old female and in my last year of sixth form. I had a relationship with my 33 year old female teacher which started in August 2004 till September 2005. My parents found out about it and put a stop to it. The police decided it wasn't criminal and the... (283 words)

Is this guy interested in me...or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 895 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - I've been going out very happily with a new boyfriend since late August. He's been very attentive and very gentlemanly, even as a lover - but we would see each other about once a week. He is very overweight and drinks a lot. However, recently he's been very distant and we last ... (92 words)

I told him I fancied another guy to make him jealous but it backfired!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 879 days ago

28 November 2005 (?) - I really like this guy. He is 18 I am 16. He is from Dubai but recently came over to Wales to go to college. I didnt know he liked me at first and i told him i fancied his friend to see if he got jealous. Which he did, then i told him i fancied him and now he is telling me he ... (113 words)

I'm too young to get engaged-but I think I may be getting a ring at christmas!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 286 days ago

28 November 2005 (F) - hello, I am 17 and i have been with my partner of 22 for two years in december. I keep hearing of proposing at christmas and engagement. But i feel i'm too young for this and i have a cousin that is my age and she knew her boyfriend for six months and they got engaged... (182 words)

Scared to hear his verdict about our relationship. Will he want to break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 895 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - My boyfriend has "come back" from his time of space, he has sent me a message asking to call him, as we have a lot of things to talk about. I have feeling THAT THIS IS IT. He is breaking up with me, he always signed of his messages reading i love you my angel, but this message ... (200 words)

I want my ex back-but she's with another guy. Should I leave her alone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 791 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - Any tips? My ex is with another man. I desperately want her back. I've told her this, she's listened to me. She's not told me no or yes. She keeps saying she needs time to live a little. I can't work out whether she's serious with this guy or whether she's just experiencin... (136 words)

Is masturbating quicker than sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 895 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - Is masterbating quicker than sex?... (5 words)

Is it okay for your boyfriend to go to a nightclub?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

28 November 2005 (F) - When a boyfriend takes a "guys night out" and the guys go to a stripclub, do they think any less of their girlfriend when they come back? Do they compare the girls they see to their girlfriend? Is there any good way to suggest to my boyfriend that he shouldn't go to these ... (96 words)

How do I end the flirting with my online friend without hurting her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 895 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - I have got myself into a bit of trouble,or could do if i can't break my habit.I have been playing on my webcam with a lady for the past month and she thinks i am single and want to meet her,she is married as well but says she doesn't love her husband.This started off as purly ... (96 words)

How do you know when you have fallen out of love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

28 November 2005 (F) - how do you know if u hv feelings for someone? and how do you know when you've fallen out of love?... (24 words)

How do I remain faithful?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 866 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - I need help. My fiance just found out about me having an affair and now everything is off. She had every right to break up with me but I want to change. I've never had an affair before and I was dedicated to her for several years without ever thinking about anyone else. ... (92 words)

I poured my heart out - did I blow it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 878 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - Everywhere I read it says not to let your ex-girlfriend know how you feel and that you still care. But what do I do if already told her everything and still want her back? Is it to late? Thanks... (40 words)

Does she or doesn't she?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 871 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - My girlfriend and I broke up about 4 months ago. It happened very sudden and we lost contanct for 2 months. We saw each other and it was like old days—everything was great. We started to talk again but she keeps saying she can't go back and wants to stay friends, hang out and ... (74 words)

My online love's family can't stand me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 893 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - I love someone. She is 16 and i m 24, it is an online love, she loves me alot and so do I. Our family find it crazy, especially her dad is against it he told her she can only meet me when she is 18 but her mom is ok with it, plus her dad doesn't let her chat with me when he ... (128 words)

My girlfriend hides our relationship at school

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 886 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - I'm a 16 year old boy and I've been with my girlfriend for 9 months now. This is my first relationship, my first love that I've ever had. But the problem is, she won't spend time with me at school. She tells me that she doesn't want her cousin (who goes to the same school) to ... (90 words)

He doesn't want to know me now...what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 895 days ago

28 November 2005 (F) - i need help. i have been with my boyfriend for going on two years. we own our on buisness.(bar) we have a four month old daughter together.well since i have had her, he dont want to spend time at home with us he wants to be at the bar. i am very insecure because of past ... (120 words)

How do you know if it is true love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 745 days ago

28 November 2005 (F) - Well the thing is that my boyfriend and me were kissing on the couch. Then he stop and just started to looking at me and started smiling, then he finial came out with what he wanted to say. He said I love you, but he first ask if it was ok for him to say that, and I said I was ... (172 words)

He's a great guy but I don't feel the spark, after dating for a month. How do I get out of this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 894 days ago

28 November 2005 (F) - I have been dating this guy my coworker set me up with for a month. He's a great guy almost perfect really, but I just don't feel anything. He doesn't get the hint when I dodge his calls and break plans with him. He's so nice I don't want to hurt him but i don't want to lead ... (76 words)

We're engaged but his family doesn't like me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

28 November 2005 (F) - I've been dating a guy for quite a long time now, he proposed to me, but his sister doesn't like me and has a strong impression on him, not changing his mind, but just making him angry. His mom is the only one in his family that he really gets along with, but when he spends ... (126 words)

We broke up and it's nearly impossible to get over him. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 896 days ago

28 November 2005 (F) - My past relationships I have found it very easy to get over a guy and move on. My last boyfriend of two years ended about 2 months ago. Ive been thru every emotion possible! It seems nearly impossible to get over him. I don't want to get over him. I feel that he is the one. ... (172 words)

Physically abusive bf wants me to move with him-away from my family!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 894 days ago

28 November 2005 (F) - right now i am really confused with my relationship between my fiance and myself, we have been together for a while now but with alot of problems and alot of arguing,just recently, i had to get a restraining order against him because he started to physically abuse me, we have ... (243 words)

My 14 year old son lets food pile up in his bedroom-the stench was foul!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 894 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - I am worried about my 14-year-old son. In his bedroom I had found a load of uneaten sausages and McDonald's burgers, and the stench was so foul I felt sick almost! I asked him why he collected sausages and fast food, and he said that collecting them was the thing that made ... (144 words)