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Archived questions from: 13 November, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

How can I get my Albanian guy back into my country?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

13 November 2005 (F) - I don't know where else to find help regarding my problem. I'm very confused at the moment, I'm English, my mother lives in Greece, where I met the most wonderful Albanian guy ever and we had the most wonderful summer together and fell in love. We had long term plans of... (222 words)

All my girlfriend wants is to be alone. What did I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 903 days ago

13 November 2005 (M) - Hi there, I'm with my girlfriend for the last 2 years but recently since August she has been acting very strange with me. She gets angry at me for no reason and gets irritated if I try to explain something to her. At times, if I say no for something, she will speak very rud... (174 words)

My boyfriend dumped me and said he didn't love me any more after he caught me in a lie...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 356 days ago

13 November 2005 (F) - I lied to my boyfriend. He found out and he has dumped me because I lied. And to make things go from bad to worse he told me that he didn't love me any more and that he was in love with someone else and that he loved her and was going out wth her. I don't know what to do. I st... (95 words)

Crush on a visitor to my workplace. Don't know what to do about it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 909 days ago

13 November 2005 (F) - I am currently single and have developed a huge crush on a consultant who comes into my office regularly. We get on very well but I am too shy to enquire about his relationship status or to ask him out. Any tips?... (44 words)

We're still newlyweds and the sex is already pretty much null and void!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 908 days ago

13 November 2005 (M) - Me and my wife are happily married...However, our sex life is pretty much null and void. She was a virgin when we got married almost a year ago and it seems like we only have sex once every week or two. It also seems that it takes more time to try and get her aroused than it ... (137 words)

I think my bf is basically good, but he runs hot, then cold, then hot...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 907 days ago

13 November 2005 (F) - I have this boyfriend. I really do like him and I can see the good in him. But I think he doesn't know what he wants. Because one day I'm his girlfriend and he is as sweet as can be towards me, then the next day he says he hates me and doesn't want me anymore that only lasts ... (84 words)

My boyfriend has to move away and I'm afraid that I'll never see him again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 910 days ago

13 November 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm 15 years old and me and my boyfriend have been going out for 10 months. Now he has to move too far away from here and I will never see him again. I dunno what to do because he means the world to me. I love him so much. Please help me. I dunno what I'm going to do with... (70 words)

When my gf found out about the small lies, it made her start pulling away...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 886 days ago

13 November 2005 (M) - Hi, I'm in a two year relationship and I started it out with a couple of lies that really had no effect either way. Well I should say truth wouldn't have hurt! I'm also a recovering addict and at the point of our relationship I had two years clean. Because of the lies that... (256 words)

Sex is over in just a few seconds. What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 908 days ago

13 November 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid Sex for me is always over in seconds and it always has been. Even when I masturbate it doesn't even last a minute, but this is not the case when a girl does it. There are 2 things I know would help alleviate this problem but I'am unsure whether or not it is actual... (180 words)

How can I check out his interest level in me without risking rejection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 907 days ago

13 November 2005 (F) - I am 16 and I really like this boy at school. I really get on with him I find him really easy to talk to. I really want to find out if there's a chance that anything might happen but I'm scared of rejection. How should I approach this?... (49 words)

I don't understand why my boyfriend needs porn to have sex with me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 902 days ago

13 November 2005 (F) - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years now. Wwe have 2 children. The last 2 months every time we are going to have sex he puts on a porn film and I don't understand why. Becouse he gets hard when he kisses me. This is really making me feel down, as the porn he watches ... (72 words)

How do I tell my family I'm gay so I can be with the man I love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 887 days ago

13 November 2005 (M) - Hello, please any ones help and advice will be greatly appreciated. I have a huge problem and a severely broken heart. How do I tell my parents and family that I am gay, when Nobody suspects a thing -and I know that for a fact - and they are antigay? I'm involved in a relation... (340 words)

Things have been hard since my ex emailed my current girlfriend and said she was still in love with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 907 days ago

13 November 2005 (M) - I am currently feeling very distressed over a relationship problem. My girlfriend (let's call her P)and I have been having a long distance relationship for the past 3 months (In fact we just got together 3 months ago too). Things were going very well, and we communicated thr... (240 words)

I didn't do anything wrong. My girlfriend says she just doesn't feel the same...

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

13 November 2005 (M) - My girlfriend doesn't want me anymore. I didn't do anything bad. She just doesn't feel the same anymore. I'm having a hard time letting here go. In fact, I don't want to let go of her. It feels so hard for me. I really want to be with her. I just love her so much. I don't wa... (72 words)

I was dumped by my ex, but now he lives right in my town and I see him all the time!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 905 days ago

13 November 2005 (F) - My ex dumped me several months ago for a lot of complicated reasons. It took me a very long time to get over him, but I did. Now, he moved to where I live and I see him more than I did when we were dating. It took a while, but all of the emotions came rushing back with time. I ... (325 words)

How can we stop fighting so much over financial issues? And how can we restore the spark?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 909 days ago

13 November 2005 (M) - Call me M.J. I am 35 years old. I am married. Lately, all my wife and I do is fight, especially over money. There is never enough. I want to help, but I don't have my disability yet. Is there any way for us to restore the fire in our lives? If anyone can suggest something ch... (133 words)

The marriage is over, but my husband won't leave!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

13 November 2005 (F) - My husband won't leave. We have been together for ten years, only married for one. But since the wedding we have both changed. I want out of the marriage but he won't leave! We have two children: one is his and I have one from a previous relationship. He says he won't leave wi... (158 words)