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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My husband claims his definition of cheating is different to mine, so it's not cheating...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 693 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - Cheated on and dont know what to do? My husband was recently discovered to be having a secret companion that kept him so involved in her day to day activities with her and her husband that he forgot my birthday. The children were the ones to discover his infidelity. My h... (191 words)

I'm waiting for my online married guy to leave his unhappy marriage, so we can be together...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 912 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - I was happily married for seven years, so I thought, but my husband left me for a much younger woman. I have some children but was lonely. I went in a chatroom and met a man I think is wonderful. From the start he told me he was married but unhappy. We have been seeing each... (180 words)

Should I try again, even though she says she just likes me as a friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 913 days ago

8 November 2005 (?) - I have fallen for this girl who I am just starting to be friends with. I asked her out and she turned me down because she likes another guy and she only sees me as a friend. However I know she can do better then the other guy because he is a bit of a troublemaker. Do I try my ... (78 words)

My boyfriend and I had sex 2 weeks ago. Could I be pregnant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - I'm 15 and I had sex with my boyfriend almost 2 week ago and I've been geting signs of pregnancy, like tiredness, constantly going to the bathroom, eating a lot, getting headaches, and feeling sick. I'm not getting my hopes up or whatever, but I'm just scared if I am I dont ... (69 words)

Lack of sex has driven me into the arms of my partner's best friend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 900 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfreind for 4 years, I love him with all my soul but when it comes to sex, he has no interest. When we first started dating we had great sex but not anymore. I've tried everything to spice up our sex life and nothing seemed to work. We are 21 years old so ... (223 words)

After 7 years of being the family breadwinner, I want to take a break and let someone take care of ME!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 914 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - Married for 7 yrs now. For those 7yrs and even before that I am always the bread winner between us. I bought everything that he wants. But I am getting tired on this relationship. I am not happy anymore, for all these years I feel that I am the only one caring. I'm tired. I ... (73 words)

Why is my girlfriend so close to her ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 914 days ago

8 November 2005 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 7 months, and ever since the start her ex boyfriend has been constantly trying to get her back, which is very damaging to our relationship. I've put up with it for 7 months but I'm at breaking point as he tried hugging and kissing ... (98 words)

I have to choose between my December holiday and my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 914 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for 18 months now. I'm a student and live 50 miles away from him. He works full time but comes up to see me often. Recently my house mates found a cheap holiday deal for this December and I instantly decided it'd do me good to go, since I neve... (156 words)

My roommate and I are attracted to each other, but neither of us knows what to do next!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 915 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - I am a thirty one year old attractive female who recently had a twenty-nine year old male move in with me as a roommate. It has only been a couple of months but I have very strong feelings for him and want to become more than friends and/or roommates. I know he feels the same ... (79 words)

My sex drive is waaay higher than my girlfriend's...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 914 days ago

8 November 2005 (M) - help My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year now, but I seem to have a problem.....an overly high sex drive. I really don't know what to do about it anymore. It's putting a lot of pressure on our relationship, and I think if I carry on hassling her like to do we... (81 words)

Had unprotected sex with a close friend and now I have a genital disease!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 914 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - There is this guy that I have known all my life. My best friend is his cousin and my close friend is his cousin, plus when I was younger, he lived across the road from me. When we got into high school, we became friends (social) and we got along well. After college, we bucke... (190 words)

I used my boyfriend's computer and found explicit photos of women...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 891 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - I went to use my fiance's computer and found naked pictures of women that he took. The pictures are of four women doing sexually explicit things to each other. It looks like a bachelor party at one of his friend's houses. I am deeply upset because he knows strippers bother ... (72 words)

I have a connection with my ex that transcends his marriage and our distance!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 914 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - I am entangled and sad. I'm still deeply in love with my former boyfriend and I don't know what to do. We have been separated for some years and we have both moved on with our lives. Although I was never able to forget about him, I got a new lover and he married his rebound ... (248 words)

Neither of us expected our affair with married partners to become so intense...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 913 days ago

8 November 2005 (M) - I have been having an affair with a married woman for nearly 18 months. I am also married and my wife is away a lot of the time. We were together one evening when she started crying and said she didn't want to go home. Then, the following day she suddenly said she wants to stay ... (155 words)

We break up over such petty issues!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 685 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 months now. I'm 20 and he's 26. I lost my virginity to him earlier on during the relationship and regret doing so, but I did. Now, we can't seem to stop arguing and "calling it quits" over petty things. Last week, we "broke u... (232 words)

After just a few months together, all my bf wants to do is talk about moving in together and getting married!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 912 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - What should I do when my boyfriend of three months is arleady making plans to get married and move in together? Every time we see each other I feel like that's all he wants to talk about, I've even caught him looking at wedding cakes magazines and talking to a sales women about ... (123 words)

His emails say he wanted to be back with his ex. Do I tell him what I found?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 915 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - I recently found out that my boyfriend of 1 year wanted to get back with his ex four months of our relationship. I know this because I found out from one of his emails. We are planing to get married next year and I'm really confused and don't know if I should confront him. Ple... (57 words)

Do I have any reason to worry about my bi-curious boyfriend and his gay friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 915 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - My bf has always said he is bi-curious but has never done anythng about it. Now he is going out for drinks with a male friend who is gay. They text each other and always put x (kisses) at the end of texts. He says he loves me and I have nothing to worry about. Do I ?... (58 words)

I'm so desperate for affection, that I'm prepared to get it elsewhere, but I want things to work out with my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 844 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend of three years doesn't sleep with me, have sex with me, or give me any physical affection for months at a time. I've expressed my feelings with him, I've tried to make the first move, and I've even resorted to splitting up to "get it somewhere else". He will give ... (94 words)

Could his cheating with his ex have been a "mistake"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 774 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend of four months recently cheated on mewith his ex-girlfriend when I went away. He rang her after he spoke to me and took her back to his house. He says it's the biggest mistake of his life and is completely distraught. He says he has been the happiest ever since ... (71 words)

We want different futures. Should I stay with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 914 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - I have been with my partner for over 3 years and do love him but I'm realising now that we both want such different things out of life. I think he's just happy to settle for whatever he gets, but I'm not. What should I do? Should I stay because I do love him and we have bee... (78 words)

How do I best help my self-harming friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 915 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - I have a friend, that means the world to me. She has been there for me, when I needed help the most, but this time I can't ask her to help me, because it involves her. My friend suffers from major depression, and she was seeing psychologist for a while, as well as a psychi... (149 words)

He says he loves his fiancee, but now I'm pregnant with his baby!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 915 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - I had a sexual affair with a guy who was engaged, but not happy. We saw each other for about 3 months and then his girlfriend found out. We continued for a few weeks and I found out I was pregnant. We stopped seeing each other and I moved cities. Since moving we have kept in ... (136 words)

Why would my boyfriend want to be friends with a girl I hate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 915 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend has a lot of "girl-friends," but I trust him so I'm usually ok with it, But one of his friends has something against me. I tried to talk to her and ask why she hated me so much, but she kept persisting to be rude and just malicious towards me. He knows that we both ... (97 words)

I was shocked to find out my boyfriend has been having an online relationship while with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 915 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - I found out that my boyfriend of almost a year, has had an on-line affair with a woman from another country. He's even asked her to marry him. He has no intention of doing so. I was devastated...betrayed...this was the first man I had dated in almost 15 years (I spent time ... (107 words)

Oral sex seems really unappealing...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 902 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - Am the only girl anymore who doesn't like to go down on a guy? I find it highly undesireable and very embarassing. My boyfriend of 6 months says it okay for him that I don't go down on him, but I know he would really like it if I did. How can I go about getting rid of my bad ... (87 words)

What would YOU do in my situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 891 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - What would you do? I am shocked that I am struggling in this area but I really am having a problem. I know it's not right so I am not wanting to know if it's right or wrong. I am just curious to know what others would do in this situation. I am attracted to my boss. I dream... (229 words)

The woman I want is with someone. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 905 days ago

8 November 2005 (M) - For the past eight months, I've been gradually and hopelessly falling for someone whom was in love with someone. Now I'm afraid I've finally fallen in love with her despite the fate she's with someone else. my question is do I let go and fade away or fight for her with my every ... (71 words)