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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My girlfriend keeps ditching me and it hurts. Help me understand why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 883 days ago

26 November 2005 (M) - OK. I am a 16 year old boy. I've been with my girlfriend who is also 16 for almost 4 months. I love her very much and she loves me too and I have no doubt in my mind. We have a mild Long distance aspect to our relationship because her family has a summer house here and that's ... (345 words)

My long distance girfriend wants to get back together again...should I go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 893 days ago

26 November 2005 (M) - My ex-girlfriend has resurfaced in my life after a year and a half of being apart. We were together for 2 and a half years, but she moved to pursue her career, and couldn't handle the distance and broke it off. Now, she's been calling me, saying she misses me, and she's sorry, ... (143 words)

Is it normal that someone can get real drunk and still orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 897 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - For the guys out there. I know an alchoholic that can drink for days get very horny go for hours and hours and can still come. Is this normal? I thought that if you were drunk you wouldn't come?... (39 words)

I'm worried about seeing my girfriend again, now that I live far away.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 898 days ago

26 November 2005 (M) - Me and my girlfriend live miles from each other and phone and email every night but I am worried I won't see her again as I live with my aunty now. What can I do?... (35 words)

My boyfriend ignores me and treats me badly...but I would do anything for his love and affection. Help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - Im so confused :-( My boyfriend (on and off for 4 years, we are now 17 1/2) has being ignoring me constantly at school, and treating me badly. Im not sure if it is just me being paranoid but it never used to be like this. Things have happened in the past which have made tru... (199 words)

I'm feeling sad that he has contacted me in quite a few days. What's going on with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 899 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - I am in a relationship, everything is great so far. It is just that over our Thanksgiving break he has not wrote me an email since Friday November 18, 2005. I can't have phone calls so our communication is emailing. I do call him sometimes. We usually talk in school. Today is ... (73 words)

I like a lot of sex and she is refusing. Am I driving her away or is she trying to bail out on this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 898 days ago

26 November 2005 (M) - i have been with my girlfriend for 12months now but i think i have a few problems. it all started 2 months ago. she said to me that all i wanted her was for sex but i enjoy having sex and i do feel like i always want to have sex with her. so she said that she would rather jus... (516 words)

My 35 year old boyfriend doesn't want sex with me, anymore..does this just happen to older men?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 61 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - Hi,my name is rebelgirl1801. I am 18 years old and I am currently in a relationship with a 35 year old man. He never wants to have sex anymore with me. What can i do to make him want me more? Is it me? Or does this just happen to ... (105 words)

My boyfriend's small penis keeps coming out during sex..any advice on how we can keep it in?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - I have a serious problem My boyfrieds penis is so small it keeps comming out during sex. (its less than 8cm!) How can we keep it in?... (29 words)

My wife refuses to do oral sex...what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 866 days ago

26 November 2005 (M) - My wife refuses to do oral on me and does not like me doing it on her. What can I do?... (22 words)

My boyfriend is having erection problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend is 19 and having erection problems and we very strongly feel it is due to marijuana usage. He has a strong desire to have sexual intercourse and gets 'turned on'. He is now getting scared when it comes to trying sex thinking he will not become erect and he doesn't. ... (161 words)

Is he flirting? And if he is..does he really like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 94 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - hi. i'm 16 and i really fancy this guy. my friends have told me we flirt. since my party we're always poking and smiling at each other. then my friend told me she has seen him staring. and also..when i was getting stressed he sat with me and grabbed my hands to calm me down.... (408 words)

He has a crush on me but I still have feelings for the other guy, I broke up with!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 899 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - Hi I recently broke up with this boy cus he was only going out with me cus he was desperate 4 a girlfriend ! At my school disco I danced with this boy that has a crush on me. he's really sweet but I still have feeling's 4 the over guy !!!!... (55 words)

I fear intimacy, so I trust no one.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 898 days ago

26 November 2005 (M) - I am 24 and am scared of intimacy for the fear of getting abandoned and hurt. I can trust no one. I believe ppl are too much cruel for my tender inner self. Please advice. ... (39 words)

Please help! He dumped me, found another girlfriend...now he wants back in my life again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 898 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - Please Help me. Me and boyfriend broke up 2 mounths ago. And then after he dumped me he found a new girlfriend. I was heartbroken, about 2 weeks ago i realized I have to move on. Then just yesterday he said he loves me again, but i don't know what to do cause I do still like ... (67 words)

He has a girlfriend but wants me...what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 897 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - Please Help. I'm 14 and about 2 months ago I broke up with my boyfriend. We hardly ever saw each other. When we broke up I was heart broken, but about a week ago I realized I had to move on, seeing as he had gone out and found himself a girlfriend. And just yesterday we were ... (126 words)

I love him but how can I get him to want sex again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 899 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - We dont seem to have sex anymore and it really upsets me. I have been with a my man for a little over 2 years. Things were always fab with us, sex, laughs so much in common and we are madly in love. We have a great relationship except for the sex, its seems to be dead on its ... (505 words)

I'm giving him his space, but will he come back to me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted yesterday

26 November 2005 (F) - Hello everyone, Please tell me is there a phase in the year where people want their space to re-evaluate their lifes and relationships? I've noticed that i am not the only one going thru this, "thank goodness". But my bf has asked for some space "to think things thru". The ... (132 words)

My boyfriend and I argue over the dumbest things..how can we stop doing this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 409 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 7 months, we both love each other very much and we plan on spending the rest of our lives together. Yet, it seems the past month or so we've just been arguing and fighting over the dumbest things. I'm not sure what to do. We've always had ... (75 words)

We hug and cuddle a lot but just how physically affectionate should best friends be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 731 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - Okay...so I'm a teen and i got a crush on my best friend and she knows it..and she was a tease but then she started to kinda stumble too. i mean she doesnt like me like that but it was almost because of the mystery that it made us seem to think of each other that way..but i ... (378 words)

My best friend is dating and now ignores me. It's very upsetting so am I over reacting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 897 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - hiya, i have been best mates with this girl for 3 and a half yrs and we get on really well and have a laugh. but this all ended when she started dating this boy. she has left me on my own for hours standing in the cold because she is to busy with him and she cant see she is ... (128 words)

I finally get a great job only to have my boyfriend get mad. What is going on with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 899 days ago

26 November 2005 (F)

- I don't understand my bf's behavior. I had been unemployed for a really long time, and he used to ride me about it and tell me that I needed to better my life and that I was just living off the system (welfare). Well I wasnt totally doing nothing, I had two volunteer ... (180 words)

His son hates me! Please give me tips on how to improve the situation.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 899 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months now. He's a really good guy, we are great together and i love him dearly, but lately we've been fighting quite a bit. He has a 2 1/2 year old son who i've also grown to love, but lately he's been a bit of a handful. Maybe i... (499 words)

I think I'm in love with a guy I had sex with, just last week!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 899 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - Last week I had sex with a guy I hardly knew but I believe I am in love with him. How can I tell if I really do. Oh I am only 17.... (33 words)

Need more advice! My teen son still insists on marrying his 52 year old girlfriend and the police can't do anything!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 286 days ago

26 November 2005 (M) - Thank you for all your help so far as regards my problem. Yet my 16-year-old son still wants to marry this 52-year-old woman. I contacted the police but they can't do anything about it apparently. My wife is worried about our son. What kinds of problems would my son fa... (84 words)

My husband suspects I had an affair. Now he's always questioning me and I'm denying everything.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - I have been married for sixteen years and have two children. I have been having an affair with a married man for the past two years. It has been on and off during those two years. We were friends for about seven years and it evolved into more. I know it is wrong and have ... (130 words)

Help! My ex boyfriend is making my life a living hell!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 899 days ago

26 November 2005 (F)

- I just broke up with my boyfriend and he is trying to make life a living hell for me. He bought me a phone and now, he's taken it back. I want to forget about him totally cos i have the feeling I don't love him anymore. What should I do?... (52 words)

He seems very inconsiderate..should I marry him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 899 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - I used my credit card to rent a car for to go on a 6 hr trip that my boyfriend needed to do, work related. He asked me to rent it for one day and go with him. I did but now he is rushing us to go back because he does not want to pay for another day. I feel that we should stop ... (113 words)

We were seeing each other just for sex and pleasure...now I've fallen in love with him! Do I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 899 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - Mike and I have been friends for 10 years. Over the past year, we have been with each other for sex and pleasure. Neither of us has seen other people and because we are both work-a-holics, we try to get together whenever we can. I am very much in love with him but don't know ... (106 words)