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relationship help and advice

What can I do with my insensitive ex-boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 902 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - I deal with an ex-boyfriend. We have known each other for 5 years, 3 quarter of which we were together while in undergrad. we now go to the grad school (different departments) 5 yrs ago,he mentioned he didnt want to be like his father, who is by all means a nice man, and a ... (226 words)

How can I regain his trust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 645 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - I have cheated on my boyfriend in the past but so has he!i've been going out with him for 1 year and 4 months and we've split up, seen other people and then got back with each other cos we really loved each other!He's lost all trust in me now and does not believe a word i say ... (181 words)

I'm 14, he is 20! What if he finds out my age?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - i reali lyk dis lad called wayne. he is 20 and im 14 bt he finks im 15. i dnt fink age shud b a problem bt im scared incase he finds out and wants nothing to do with me. please help. i duno wot 2 do.... (47 words)

How is kissing meant to feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 902 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - Well my boyfriend and me kissed for the first time, I mean really kissed not like the grandmother type of kissing. This happened when we went back to his house after just coming from his stepmother art showing. The thing is that the kiss was not a shot one, ands I did not find ... (103 words)

My husband's contact with his ex is causing problems!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 248 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - I am having a very difficult time deciding what to do about a certain issue I am having. My husband's old ex gf from high school continues to call him every couple of months or so just to check in on him. Early on in our relationship, I was very uncomfortable with this, and my ... (268 words)

Can I trust him or will I get hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 902 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - Hey Guys I start dating an old childhood friend. I couldnt believe how happy i was. I never knew what being treated was untill i met him. I was falling for him fastly and he said he felt the same way too. Then one day out the blue his ex came back on the scene beggin... (432 words)

I slept with someone else...do I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 289 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for nearly two and half years and I love him very much. But this weekend I went to see my friend and I slept with another guy. I don't want to break up with my boyfriend, but I feel that I need to tell him otherwise we don't stand a chance, ... (65 words)

Can we be more than friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 876 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - I have been at uni for 2 months now and have become quite friendly with a guy on my course. The only trouble is that I want to be more than just friends with him. I spent 2 hours talking to him last night but I think he was just being polite and only likes me as a friend. ... (85 words)

She's his ex...but does he care about her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 902 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - When my boyfriend and I were first together, he told me all about a woman that he'd had a relationship with for only a couple of months but she called it off as she wasn't ready. When he told me about her, he went on about how lovely she was, just right for him, how he thought ... (190 words)

Rollercoaster relationship but should we be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 902 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - Me and this guy have been friends for five years and for the bulk of that time he has told me how much he loved me and wanted to be with me, etc. Before I left for college he came over my house and told me that he was in love with me. I didn't feel the same way at the same ... (1360 words)

My son wants to marry a woman 36 years older than he is!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 838 days ago

21 November 2005 (M) - My 16 year old son has told me he wants to get married to his 52-year-old girlfriend now. what do I do? Please help me, I need your advice. Martyn in Watford, Hertfordshire... (43 words)

Why does my boyfriend seem so cool and distant with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 90 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend of six months sometimes seems a bit distant. When I confronted him and asked him if he wanted to end the relationship he was adamant he did not, but yet he won't introduce me to his parents. I am getting a lot of mixed messages here. He has said he loves me and ... (128 words)

I'll never measure up to my dad's expectation...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 902 days ago

21 November 2005 (M) - The guilt tripping, mind games and control tactics of my father has influenced me to such an extent that i can't see myself living on my own or making my own life. He has raised me up in a way so that i satisfy his ambitions and wishes in life. In my culture, children generally ... (239 words)

I got with my cousin's boyfriend, after she persuaded me to have him. Now she hates me for it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 659 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - Me and my cousin were best of mates, going places, and having a laugh. We would go to meet up with some lads! But a couple of weeks back (about 2) me cousin told me to set a trap up for her boyfriend. So I txted him and told him that I liked him. He rang me and I put it on loud ... (249 words)

I just wish my 10-year-old daughter would act more like a girl!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 902 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - I wonder if anyone could help me! I have a 10 year old little girl and she is slim and blonde and very pretty but she hates looking like a girl. She want to wear tracksuit bottoms, trainers, cap (round the wrong way}. She hates washing and brushing her hair. I get really upset ... (193 words)

My ex was my rock when I needed him, but now I'm just his bit on the side...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 902 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - Hi, I' a 39 year old rcoverying from cervical cancer. I split with my ex a while back when he had affair and got the girl pregnant. We have children and a business together and while at beginning seeing him most days was painful, I got over it and tried to move on with my life. ... (243 words)

He wants to go away without me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 883 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend of 18 months wants to go to south america for a month on his own as opposed to 2 weeks with me - I can not go any longer as I have 3 children to consider - does this man really love me ? should I end it now ?... (52 words)

My girlfriend looks at other men in front of me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 900 days ago

21 November 2005 (M) - why does my girlfriend check out other guys?And sometimes in front of me.It makes me feel like i'm not good enough for her.... (23 words)

How can we get rid of his sexual frustration?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 901 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - my bf n i have been together over a year and a half and we talk openly about our relationship. recently he has been telling me he is sexually frustrated. we can have sex and wiv in twenty minutes hes frustrated again. i have spoke to him about previous relationships and he said ... (88 words)

My husband's ex wife is abusive and lies to their daughter!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - Hello! A long story short; My husbands ex wife has done everything she can to keep him away from his only daughter who is 5 years old now. Through legal help we are finally establishing regular visitation and by being in the same state now. His ex wife is telling lies an... (404 words)

My boyfriend is still in love with his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 902 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months. He was really upset the other day (I have never seen him like this before). Later that night he admitted to be that he has been spending time with his ex, and that he is still in love with her. She is in a serious relationship with ... (242 words)

How can I make him feel secure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 902 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years, he is STILL so insecure and no self esteem so he still wont trust or believe in my love, how can i get this to change?... (35 words)

This hurts so much...do I wait or move on from him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 902 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - Hello, I've been reading about other peoples problems and a few of those things relate to me. I recently was dumped, by the person with whom, "I Thought" id spend the rest of my life with. We were made for each other, and somewhere, somehow, i still feel that there might be ... (342 words)

When is it the right time to move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 899 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - I split from my boyfriend of 3 years about 6 months ago and since we have met up and have been talking to each other. However a couple of weeks ago I told him that we should be just friends for definite, clean slate and everything. Since then I have met someone else and have ... (120 words)

How can I increase my sex drive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 902 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - i am married to a lovely and understanding man but i just have no interest at all in sex and dont even get any urges to do so. i have a 5 year old child and only felt i wanted to have sex then because i wanted a baby and havent had sex since then.i also can not face up to ... (88 words)

We both want to move past the hurt of my girlfriend's cheating...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 902 days ago

21 November 2005 (M) - About a month ago, my girlfriend confessed to having an affair that began last summer. We had been living together for the last 5 years, but a new job 1 1/2 hours away forced me to relocate. We still dated on weekends and remained intimate and involved. She says she felt ... (117 words)

I want to get over my ex. It's been two years!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 745 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - Hello, I need to have some advice on how you get over someone. Have poeple out there had experiences of being really into someone and then it all turning to Sh*t and then not being able to get over them? I have been trying to get over my guy for TWO years!! I see him every now ... (150 words)

My boyfriend lied in the past,. Can I trust what he says now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 878 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - Almost 3 months ago I found out that my boyfriend had lied to me about almost everything he told me about himself. I decided to stay with him despite his lies because I really like him. First he lied to me about his age. He told me he was 24 yrs old but he is actually... (296 words)

She says she won't cheat ever again, but she still sees the guy she cheated with at social gatherings!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

21 November 2005 (M) - My girlfriend has cheated on me more than once. She says she will never cheat on me again and has been going to counseling. My problem is that she works with the guy she cheated with and a lot of her friends hang out with this guy. She promised me that she would not hang o... (108 words)

I have to choose between the father of my baby and my mum!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 903 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - I am 19 and just had a beautiful baby girl. Her father and I are going through tough times right now and I came back to live with my mom to clear my head. We agreed I would go back to be with after things have cooled down. My mom and him don't get along and constantly talk ... (121 words)

I love her and don't want to hurt her, but I can't find a way to make it work.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 586 days ago

21 November 2005 (M) - I've been dating a great girl for 1.5 years. The relationship has been somewhat long distance (about 2-3 hours driving one-way). She's only my second girlfriend, and the first girl I've been intimate with. Part of me wants to date other girls, and part of me wants to stay wi... (407 words)