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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Is she feeding me a line...to get rid of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 897 days ago

27 November 2005 (M) - I'm 26, she's 24. So..My "girlfriend" tells me that she needs to get her own life in order before she can take on the responsibility of a relationship. She says she still wants us to date, has strong feelings for me and that she's doing this to preserve anything that we could ... (148 words)

He confided to me that he cheated on his gf-I like her so what do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 897 days ago

27 November 2005 (M) - I currently live with an old mate, and his girlfriend. I have known my mate for 5 years, and we've always got on fine and had no arguments or issues to speak of. Recently, he admitted to me he has cheated on his girlfriend. I am disappointed in the guy for being so weak, as he ... (134 words)

Why doesn't she like to do 'relationship' things with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 744 days ago

27 November 2005 (M) - Hello, I'll keep this as short as possible. I'm 19 and my girlfriend is 16, we've been together about 7 months and things got rocky mid way but have settled. We argue trivially, but get over things quickly. Recently I had finally got her to admit she was mistreating me and ... (185 words)

I smasturbating bad for you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 886 days ago

27 November 2005 (M) - Somebody please tell me the truth, is masturbating good, or bad for you? Is it healthy? If you do it to often do you waste your cum? Does your penis become skew? I'm hearing so many different stories, i'm lost. Thanks... (41 words)

I love him but don't trust him...what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 897 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - Four weeks ago, I found out my boyfriend cheated on me a thid time. Says he didn't have sex with the girl but was wearing a condom. Turns out she said she no longer wanted to have sex with him but he claims that if he really wanted to have sex with her he could have but he ... (242 words)

I'm not lying, but he won't listen to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 897 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - I'll try and make this as short as possible, well I am involved with this guy my ex hes such a nice guy and we still love eachother very much, but, i went out last night and ended up out later than planned. Well he turned up and he and my friend argued really bad and she ... (178 words)

Why are some men not afraid to have sex during a women's menstrual cycle?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 895 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - This is a weird question, but I am very curious about it. Why is is that some men are not afraid to have sex during the girlfriends cycle, while some guys won't get near you? I know it is a very personnel matter. I just don't understand it. ... (48 words)

I'm a youth worker-she's a troubled teen girl. I'm falling in love with her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 867 days ago

27 November 2005 (M) - I am a 25 year old male youth worker and have been doing it for over a year now. I work with young adults aged between 14-18. Since I started I got on really well with one of the female members of the group who is now aged 16. She used to be into self harm and comes from a ... (327 words)

Ideas for a christmas gift?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 897 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - Hey everyone. umm.. I'll get straight to the point my boyfriend is 16 and I'm 15. I'm finding it hard to find out what to get him for xmas could anyone help me thank you.... (35 words)

What if the guy I'm hanging out with already has a girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 897 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - I am a 30 year old woman who lives in England. I have met a guy who I clicked with straightaway; he is a real gentleman, is very easy to talk to, and I find him very attractive. However, he has, or did have earlier in the year, a girlfriend. I'd like to find out if he still... (148 words)

My mate is supposed to be getting married, even though he's flirting with an old flame!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 895 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - Hi! I'm hoping for some advice because I'm worried about my friend. Basically he's engaged to this woman that he's been seeing for about a year and they are due to get married early next year. When I spoke to him he was really enthusiatic saying that he's met someone really s... (256 words)

I feel disgust-my bf fantasizes about me having sex with an old man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 897 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - I am 21 and my boyfriend is 24. He said to me that he wants me to sleep with an old man 'because it is one of his fantasies'. He said he won't get jealous and that it's good for our relationship. I find his idea slightly creepy to say the least. Our relationship was go... (105 words)

Tried to offer support to my brother... but his negativity rubbed off on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

27 November 2005 (M) - Hi.. I am in need of some serious help. My personality has changed since I tried to get close to my brother when he was hurt with his break up. I tried to offer him a listening ear and support and went so much close as to reveal some of my deepest feelings or secrets. I didn't ... (190 words)

Should I wait or walk away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 896 days ago

27 November 2005 (F)

- I am seperated from my husband and i have 2 kids.I have been seeing a man for over 2 years,he hasnt any children and he works away during the week and comes down to see me weekends.I want him to move in with me but he doesnt really want to because he isnt used to kids and where ... (130 words)

My boyfriend went too far...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 890 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - Okay I went to a sleepover at my mates house and i started getting off with my boyfriend... we started doing "stuff"... afta a while i tried 2 back off but he just kept followin me and forcing me...well it felt like that... now i look back and feel really ill... i don't think ... (108 words)

I think I love him but its taken him so long to text me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 897 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - hi....im sure you dont want to hear this...but this is what the site is for...so this problem all started when i started fancying this boy in the year above from me at school. i fancied him for ages, and then my brother found out somehow and told the must untrust worthy g... (453 words)

He had flings with family members but I'm not allowed to confront them!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 897 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - i have been split up with my husband for 10 months, we are going through a divorce. my husband has just recently confessed that he had a string of one night stands during our marrage what hurts the most is that one of them was with my brothers girlfriend and another was with... (162 words)

He won't change but wants me to...what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 897 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - Please help. When I first met my boyfriend, it was hearts and flowers. I've since discovered that he can be critical, impatient, judgemental and school teacherish. He has a temper and doesn't cope well with stress. I stand up to him now (didn't use to) but he has told me he do... (152 words)

How do I make him want me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - I want to do something special for my husbands birthday... I can count the number of times that we have had sex on one hand in the last year, and if I use both hands thats about how many times we have in the past 18 months. I'm really confused about this we are both young, and ... (146 words)

How do we go back to how things were though she cheated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 897 days ago

27 November 2005 (M) - 3 days ago I discovered my partner of 5 years was seeing someone else. I still desperately love her, and want to get over this and get back together. She has been seeing him for a month and says that while she still has feelings for me, she loves him and wouldn't have cheated ... (143 words)

My husband wants to buy a gift for a woman he works with and I'm objecting. Am I right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 897 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - I've been married for 18 yrs. My husband has been working with a woman for 3 yrs. and wants to buy her a christmas gift. Is this acceptable? (The thing is, he had an affair 8 yrs ago with a different woman he worked with). I've met this woman and she's not friendly toward me ... (119 words)

Mum is having an affair...do I confront her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 897 days ago

27 November 2005 (M) - I have recently found out my mum is having an affair. My parents have never really got on in the past 10 years. I dont know weather or not to confront her or even mention it to my brother. Please help... (41 words)

I'm not enjoying sex with my girlfriend...but I can't tell her that or it will hurt her feelings.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 897 days ago

27 November 2005 (M) - Hi, me and my girlfriend are having some problems in our sex life.. when we're really in the mood and about to do it the mood somtimes just gets ruined. Theres a number of different things that can spoil it. When we start off it hurts her and i have to go really slow and ... (338 words)

I'm in love with my brother's mate but he already has a girlfriend and she's my mate. I love him so much. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - I'm in love with my brothers mate. His girlfriend is my mate and I am 13. My brothers mate is 16 going on 17 and I'm afraid I don't know what to do. I love him so much I would do anything for him. Help me please.... (47 words)

I'm confused! The guy I like ignores me when we see each other but he always text messages me. What's going on with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - Hey, my problem is that I like this guy but am not sure what he feels for me. Whether its just curiosity or more! I met him a month ago and he got my number, but we have never been on date, because he hasn't asked me out. We have met on a couple of social gatherings and on two ... (379 words)