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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

He tells me that he loves me, but I want the little gifts that show it, too!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 876 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and we've had some pretty rough times, like all couples. He's never taken me on a date or gotten me anything for Valentine's Day, my birthday, Christmas, etc. He tells me all the time that he loves me and is very affectionate. We get ... (112 words)

I get frequent erections during the night... and I'm 80!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 896 days ago

15 November 2005 (M) - I am not a young man in fact I am told that I am past the age of a sexual relationship being 80 years old. My problem,if it can be called a problem, is that I have, over the last two months, been experiencing VERY frequent erections during the night, sometimes as many as three... (187 words)

I fantasise about women when I'm in bed with my fiance!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 904 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - When I am in bed with my BF, I fantaise that it is a women doing the things to me, that he is. Not any specific women. It is the only thing that gets me off. Am I gay? I love sex with him and it is only during foreplay that I do this. I do not think I would like to try it f... (84 words)

I'm shy and she has a boyfriend, but I want to take her to the prom!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 910 days ago

15 November 2005 (M) - Hi. I'm a 15 year old. A while ago I began to fancy a girl who I have known for a long time but never spoken to. But a few weeks ago I started talking to her online. I have found out a lot about her and we like talking to each other. I also talked to her after school when we ... (159 words)

I don't trust him because of what I know about his history...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 534 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - I met my boyfriend through an ex boyfriend, that's bad I know, but my former boyfriend was terrible. I knew a little about my current boyfriend, he's a bad boy and all that. While I was going out with my ex, my current bf had sex with an ugly girl I knew and it was gross be... (130 words)

I've realised I don't want to marry my fiance. What do I say to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 909 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - How can I break up with my fiance? We're both 50, he's somewhat old-fashioned, conservative, and intolerant. My 3 teens annoy him (as most teens do) and they aren't that crazy about him. He's quite controlling, negative, and thinks highly of himself. We've been planning... (110 words)

He thinks the spark between us has cooled, but I know we're perfect!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 909 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - I've been with my guy for 2 years now, and the relationship has just turned long distance, he says he loves me and he still finds me attractive. We have absolutely no problem in the physical department as the spark is still totally there. It's just that he feels the spark has ... (169 words)

He lied to me and continued his friendship with the other girl...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 910 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - My BF of 7 years insists on continuing his friendship with a female friend even though it makes me extremely angry and hurt. He began this friendship about 3 years ago and I was bothered by it due to the overly inappropropriate flirtatious nature of the female. I told him it ... (224 words)

I stopped cybersex after I got together with my girlfriend, but I feel guilty about my past...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 910 days ago

15 November 2005 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now. Before we met I got addicted to chatrooms, and soon discovered the thrills of cybersex and dirty talk. I became addicted to it and even went as far as indulging in webcam sex as wel. I couldn't stop when I met my girlfriend and ... (137 words)

I feel like my husband's maid... or his mum!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 910 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - My partner has never showed any affection or there has never been any romance in the relationship. He is not very thoughtful either. If I'm unwell he doesn't bother asking if I want a drink or anything. Sometimes I've known him not to even kiss me when we have had sex. All he ... (182 words)

What do I do when my friend says he loves me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 910 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - My best mate has recently told me he loves me and I don't know how I feel about him because I love him to bits - but as a friend. Wwhat shall I do?... (34 words)

At about the time he started having feelings for me, he decided it was time to "step back"!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 907 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - I have been seeing/hanging out with this guy since september. I'm in my late twenties and he's in his early fourties. He has been hot and cold with me all along. Until the past couple of weeks something had changed and it seemed like he was starting to develop feelings for me ... (226 words)

Our mutual friends still talk to me about my ex and I don't need to know what he's doing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 908 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - Hello! I’m having a problem with my ex-boyfriend. We broke up 5 months ago and have only talked like 3 times within it. The last time we talked we got into a huge fight and that was 2 months ago and haven’t talked since. Within the 5 months have been nothing but chaos. I... (298 words)

Did I marry my husband too young? What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 910 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - I have been married for four years and have a small child. My husband is the most perfect man on earth and I am well aware of this. I just don't fancy him. I love him in the same way you might love your best friend, he is my best friend. I find myself wondering why I married ... (190 words)

Our relationship was great. What hurt it was the distance!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 909 days ago

15 November 2005 (M) - Hi, I've recently split with my girlfriend of about 2 months. We got together just before I went to uni and I've been making regular trips home to see her. Last time I went home she told me she doesn't like me not being with her and couldn't be with me in a long-di... (132 words)

He's busy, but it feels like my boyfriend doesn't make me a high priority in his life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 910 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - I have been with my guy for over 9 months now. He is caring and gentle, but lately I feel like I am not a priority for him. He works a lot, and I understand that, but now we have sex once in a couple of weeks or so. Is it fair of me to blame him for that, and for not ... (70 words)

In my dreams, I cheat on my boyfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 910 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - This may sound a bit silly but over the past 5-6 months I have regularly been dreaming that I'm cheating on my boyfriend and in the dreams I am fully aware of the fact that I have a boyfriend but I simply don't care. These dreams actually started after our relation... (207 words)

Go with the current boyfriend, or reconsider my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 910 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - I am having a rough time right now. I am divorced and currently dating a younger man. The problem is my ex still wants me back and I still care for him. I don't know what to do because I also care for the guy I am currently with. I feel like either way I go someone is going ... (103 words)

My longtime boyfriend wants to experience sex with someone else, just so he knows what it's like...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 909 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 15 months. I'm 19, he's 20. We were both virgins when we started the relationship and it's also the first real relationship each of us have ever had. We are in love and even though we are both young we reckon it could definitely work ... (140 words)

Does my ex want to be back together, or is it more a friends-with-benefits sort of thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 901 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - Dating great guy for 8 months. He broke up with me 4 weeks ago. He was very honest and open with his feelings. He said he just didn't feel like I was the one. He wasn't in love with me enough etc. etc. I agreed since I felt the same. All the right ingredients were there, ... (351 words)

He spends more time with the Playstation than he does with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 910 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - I've been dating this guy for 3 months now and he's a real sweetheart. He's very calm and down-to-earth. The thing is, now that he lives with me and my 1-and-a-half year old daughter, he spends more time on the computer or his video games (most of the day actually) than with ... (130 words)

He wants some time apart, but he doesn't want to lose me, either...

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 81 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - Hello, I have been hurting lately. I don't know how to cope with this and I don't know what to do. Well I was living with my boyfriend, but a few weeks ago he broke up with me. He says he needs his space. He said he has been hurting for a while. He hates his job and his job ... (460 words)

We hang out together, but we don't go on "dates"...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - I'm a 25 year old female who's been dating James for about two months. We've gone on a few dates here and there, but mostly we just hang out (he comes over, or we hang out in groups). I have been iritated lately because he doesn't take me on dates. We're not a couple yet, but ... (233 words)

While I was away, her old ex seems to have moved in...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 909 days ago

15 November 2005 (M) - Hi all, I've been in a serious relationship with someone for 5 years now and we were talking about moving back to the southeast. Well I got a job back there and she couldn't move yet because of her job and we couldn't afford to move all our things. I took what I could carry an... (629 words)