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writes:A real quick question - Men are very sensitive about penis size, women not too bothered about it, which seems to suggest its a man made issue and often when you read answers about does size matter women will answer size doesn't matter - its how you use it, the tongue can be better and thats not big etc etc but to a man a large penis means everything - every man wants a big one and wants to be praised on it. Getting a penis out in front of a woman is a tough situation for a man even though we would rather do it so that we get what comes with it but unless you are above 8/9 inc you will agree with me, the first thing a woman does is look at it and you can tell immediately what she thinks even if she is not overly into a big one - she would almost always show whether she thought it was big or not and if not the pride is dented forever.Q: How does a man get over this problem - how can he feel that he is not subject to this test - how can he feel that the woman doesn;t have these thoughts altho we all know that research shows the first thing a woman does is look at stregnth and that this is signified when naked by penis size?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (1 November 2010):
 Thoughts ?
no disrespect meant, Op, I swear, but my first thought is that you are a bit stressed out and you need to take a nice vacation or take up a new hobby and stop thinking about your penis. All this penis self evalution is ok in teenage years but from an adult is slightly disquieting .
Anyway :
there always will be individual preferences and therefore women who like your size more,or less, than other sizes.
But , scientifically speaking :
- girth is more relevant than length. Only the first outer third of the vagina has nerve endings- and this is easily
covered even by a short penis.
- longer penises are not an asset but a liability for many women, because you really have to know how to use them or you can easily hurt them by hitting the cervix, which is for many women a very unpleasant sensation.
- The average penis length is something around 5,5 - 6 inches.
- About one third of all women can't even climax by intercourse alone, so , to put it crudely, as long as you have fingers and tongue, you could even be penisless and it would be fine.
- Only a very low percentage ( sorry I don't remember exactly the number, but it IS low ) of men have penises 8 inches and over , so it's not very commmon to meet them and the general perception that there are a lot around probably comes from watching porn movies. Movies are not real life.
I hope this helped a bit.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker  +, writes (1 November 2010):
 No. But then I'm one of the girls who thinks size-ism is nearly as bad as racism.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the input all.
I'd be interested to know what those that like large ones deem to be large - what constitutes large?
THose that like small ones, whats small?
And what do you consider to be average?
My gf told me she has seen 3inc to 8inc - I asked her whats big and small she said a fat c--k (say 6inc around) but only 5inc long she would consider big - she said certainly bigger than one that was only say 4inc around but 8 inc long.
I have always felt that a c--k is bigger than mine if its longer - I am 6inc long and 5inc around. My gf says I am average length but slightly bigger than average around.
What is disturbing tho is that most surveys show the woman's ability to judge size iss very inaccurate - I asked my gf whats average and she said between 5 and 7inc long - for someone with 5inc a 7inc c--k is huge and i'm sure visa versa.
I would presonally feel more secure with an 8inc c--k that is 4inc around than what I have.
thoguhts?
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (31 October 2010):
 Realize that you do not actually know what the woman is thinking and you are just making things up in your mind. Unless the woman tells you specifically, verbally, that she has these thoughts you have to realize this is your mental problem and not real life.
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reader, PatientlyWaiting1 +, writes (31 October 2010):
I prefer a big one. But one of my friends hates big ones and loves small ones! So all women are different.
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reader, glassblower +, writes (31 October 2010):
 Seems like all men are obsessed with their own equipment. I've found that 8in+ hurts me more. I prefer average men. That help?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (31 October 2010):
 Some (a few) years ago the bunch of bastards I call friends and (not a bastard) me were all concerned about our height. We all grew, to different heights. The newer generations ate better (political upheavals notwithstanding), so they are now usually taller than we all are. Neither me nor my friends care.
Do you see what I am trying to say?
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