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writes:My boyfriend is in love with me. I love him too. But I know there is someone else out there for me. I am beginning to like his team mate who told me he likes me and would like to go out with me. But, I don't want to hurt my boyfriend. What should I do? Can I go on with my boyfriend if I'm falling for someone else? Reply to this Question
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reader, louweez23 +, writes (13 May 2008):
 "You know there is someone else out there for you???????"
How?
I mean I'm not being funny but there's no such thing as a one and only true love. We're all capable of loving many different people.
The secret of true love isn't finding the right person. The secret of true love is learning to love the person you're with.
If you truly don't want to be with your partner anymore do the decent thing and end it with him before starting a relationship with someone else.
With regard to this teammate you better make sure he's serious before you go splitting up your relationship for him. I would suggest that you tell him that your planning on leaving your partner because you want to be with him, and also at the same time tell him you don't believe in sex outside a committed relationship.
Then keep your mouth shut or it will end up full of dust as he runs for the hills.
You will be amazed at the stuff men can come out with when they think sex is being offered up on a plate with side salad and chips. If you want to get used for sex, put out for him now.
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reader, lilmizzbaybehh +, writes (13 May 2008):
take it from me hunni never leave da 1 u love for the 1 u like because the 1 you like will leave you for the 1 they love, and i have been in dis situation recently and broke up wiv my g/f of 3 yrs for sum1 and i dont even know if they like me its really hard because i really really like this girl but i acctually dont think she likes me after 2 months so if i was to answer your question from my veiw i would say to you to stick with who ur currently with untill your very clear of what it is your looking for....and forget about this other person i am just about trying to do that now but i cant i need....i think you need to think about the best times you have had with your current partner and this may help you to get along in your love life...
good luck hunni i hope this helped
xxx lilmizz xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2008): If your boyfriend is a controlling freak, then my suggestion is for you to break up with him, but if he truly says that he loves from the bottom of his heart, then by all means be with him. Trust your heart and you make your own decisions.
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