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Archived questions from: 16 April, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How do I stop wondering about my gf's past relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

16 April 2007 (M) - I know its none of my business, but I cant help but to wonder about my girlfriend's past relationships (what all she did with them). Why do I do this, and how do I stop?...

He kissed me and I told him to get off but at first he wouldn't. I don't feel I can trust him anymore. Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 627 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - Im going to make this quick. Theres this guy, Boy we'll call him. Hes much older than me... 4 yrs. Im twelve hes sixteen. We have been freinds forever and I invited him to this chocolate fondue party. He was in my room eating chocolate. Appare...

Why cant my b/f just love me on a daily basis instead of when it suits him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - why cant my b/f just love me on a daily basis instead of when it suits him,if i voice my opinion an he dont like it,he starts calling me about things from my past an accuses me of sleeping around cheating on him,which i can honestly say i havent an ...

If we had a great weekend well then why he has not gotten in touch with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - This weeken my baby daddy stayed with me. We had a great weekend, no arguments no nothing. Then he left Sunday because he had a sofball game to go to. he called on the way back to his home to tell me he was having truck problems so I made sure he ...

He's catholic, I am not. My opinion on a religious topic struck a nerve with him. Will I always have to watch what I say?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 634 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - My partner is Catholic and I am non-religious, although I would not say an atheist... I feel spiritual, but just havn't figured out my beliefs yet and see alot of hypocracy in the human side of religion! I made a comment the other day about ...

Having a hard time with know my gf had sex with someone else before me! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 634 days ago

16 April 2007 (M) - I'm having a hard time with the fact that my girlfriend has had sex with someone before me. I really have no room to talk, as I penetrated before her, I just stopped myself, and was out immediately. I also have done everything except sex previous ...

He seems to correlate money with affection! Are his expectations too high, or am I just cold?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - Did I do something wrong? I picked my fiance up from the airport and couldn't figure out how to unlock my door or the trunk right away, but when I finally got it I got out to ask him how his flight was. He told me to go back and do it again (and ...

He doesn't share my feelings...but do you think that there's the possibility of a relationship with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 632 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - I should probably say up front that both the person I'm talking about and I have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend, had sex or even kissed anyone. Also, if some parts of this post aren't clear, it's because I'm attempting to truncate a really h...

I have these weird moods where I cry and just want everyone to leave me alone. What is wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 634 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - I dont know whats wrong with me but i have been like this most of my life. I love my boyfriend with all my heart. I have this thing with me where i get really really irritated and annoyed with people and i think it has alot to do with my work cuz i ...

My best friend and I argued and I want to have a meeting with her to explain things. What should I do and say?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - I have recently argued with my best friend. Can you please give me advice on how to organise a meeting between us. Recently someone told me that friends are never your friends if you are quite rich and she when we last argued told me she only liked ...

We have a daughter and I want to plan for a future but he doesn't. Should I leave or stay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 550 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years. And I think it might be time for us to go our seperate ways. We have a 3 year old daughter who makes this situation the hardest. I want to do family things, hangout and make friends together. Save money ...

He never gives me a reason to doubt him but I am plaqued with mistrust in this relationship! Why am I this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - I have alot of trust / jealousy issues and am looking for some help! My boyfriend is very good to me, and trustworthy, and I have known him for a long time before we got together (he is my bros best mate), yet I still find it really hard to trust ...

He deletes the history on his computer so he must still be looking at porn, but hiding it! I hate it and its ruining us!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 627 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - I have a huge problem with my boyfriend looking at porn (which I know he does). I looked on his computer once and saw in the history all the sites he had been looking through. It hurt so badly and I still can't stop thinking about it everyday, and ...

My life is a series of heartache and problems---is everyone's life like this or is it just mine?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 634 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - hey. i dont really need advice but i its something else i need?? my life has been a complete wreck!! :: when i was 5 i found out my dad was actually not my dad. then when i was six i saw my biological dad in morrisons. then when i was 8 he hung his ...

I want to get married and have a family, but not sure it's what my current bf wants also!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - I have a dilemma at the moment. My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years. I do love him VERY much. He was my dream guy before I got with him. But I have a problem, I'm 24 and am wanting to start a family soon and get married. ...

I think im love with my boyfriends brother! Is this just a phase ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 625 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been dating for two years now.I think I am in love with his brother!Is this just a phase or what?...

Is it wrong to be wanted and desired ? Married 14 yrs tomorrow and I want him to be crazy over me!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - Hi all, I really need your help.Is it wrong to have the need to be wanted by someone ? I like attention, but from only someone who loves me. I feel the need to be wanted and desired all the time. Is there sometehing wrong with me ??? I am marr...

Why does my Fiancee blame me for everything when we row, infact even when we dont things are my fault!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - Why is it easier to blame things on someone else when things don't go as one has planned? When there is an arguement betweem my fiancee and myself, no matter who has started he blames always it on me. He brings up the past of me and tells me how it ...

Worried that hes already done the get married have kids thing, It wont happen for us, scared its not me anymore!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - I think I am just feeling sorry for myself, but I dont know what to do. I live with my partner, have done for just under 4 years. I love him immensely and that isnt in any doubt on either count of us. He adores me and does do alot for me. We ...

I'm obsessed with sex because hes not putting out! How can we get it back ? I'm scared Im gonna stray!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - Hi, We have been together 4 years and are still very much in love, we are a young couple in their 30's. I feel as though the relationship is going slowly downhill. We do equally do things for one another, I mean we both share the cooking cleaning...

Im sick to death of my husband, Sometimes I love him, others I dont, I want to make it work, maybe I dont, Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - Hello everyone.. I'm really in trouble here.. I have been married for 4 years with my hubbie for 8 have one child and its just gone down down down hill. I really love my husband but i hate him to. I hate the fact that he promises things and...

Did he act in this way because he is innocent, or because he is guilty of something!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - Hi, I have been very honest to my boyfriend from the beginning I got with him. But I have a feeling ( a gut one) that he is not. He is not attentive to me as much as he was earlier in the relationship. He mentioned about a female friend of...

Do you think she slept with this other guy before me when she was 14 ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 581 days ago

16 April 2007 (M) - I found a picture of my girlfriend and her boyfriend when she was 14. He was acting like he was going to grab her breast, and she didnt look like she minded too much. She was put on birth control at about this age because of her devastat...

Together for 6 years and on a break, he needs time to figure it out and I'm hurting, why cant he just tell me it will all be okay!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 634 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I (of 6 yrs) have been on a break for the past 2 months. It started after a huge fight which was all because of a misunderstanding. Now that things are cleared up, he is still in the "grey." He says he needs time to figure things ...

I'm so sexaully frustrated and my partner isnt meeting my needs!! Its driving me insane what do I do!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 634 days ago

16 April 2007 (M) - I no longer know how to deal with feeling sexually frustrated all the time. I have talked to my partner a few times about the lack of action in the bedroom but he doesn't seem to think it is that big a deal. He tells me he doesn't feel like it as ...

When he said he would quit smoking, did he really mean, I'd like to but dont think I will ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 634 days ago

16 April 2007 (M) - After being together for almost a year I found out my bf smoked. He had hid it well and told a few lies to cover it up. When I found out he smoked he said he'd quit when he was ready. When we moved in together he was worried the smoking would be...

I feel like our relationship has gone downhill and he doesnt care, should I leave or give him another chance ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 634 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and i do love him we moved in together after only being together for 8 months we bought a car together and we have a cat and a guinea pig since we moved in together i feel as though our relationship has ...

He cheats and lies all the time! But tells the kids its my fault daddy wont be at home anymore, how can I leave him in the least damaging way to the children?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - Wow, I am either a hopeless optimist, or just truly pathetic. There is a chance it is a combination of both! I have been with my significant other for nearly 9 years. We have three children together. Through out the years, we have had several ...

With all this going on I'm depressed and feel as though my BF doesnt care, any ideas how I can be a little happier and get my BF to care more ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 634 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - Ok, so i guess even the helper sometimes needs some help. Anyway, a while ago i posted on here with a question about how far i should go with my boyfriend and stuff. Well all of that is going fine and we are really happy in that area. Recently ...

He has left me 3 times in 6 months, this last break up is all too confusing, I Dont think hes coming back, not sure where to go from here!? (long)

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - We broke up last night. I didn't see it coming. I did, but I didn't. He came home from work around 7:30 (this being Saturday evening) and said to me with no notice, "You're not going to like what i have to say, but I really HAVE to paint the cond...