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writes:My Bf thinks I'm cheating, with my COUSIN but he doesn't know he's my cousin. Ok yesterday I went with my guy cousin to the atm, he's never met the cousin coz he's just visiting, well as we leave the atm we see him coming in a car, but my cousin didn't want me to go to him coz it was raining and says I'll see him some other time, since my cousin was accompanying I figured I can't let him walk alone and run to my BF, I thought I'll say a quick hello when the car passes us.He did stop besides us and as I approached the car I noticed he didn't stop for me but for his friend, I said hey where you going he said you were walking so continue walking! I said oh, and walked back to my cousin. As we were walking he calls me and says "Don't ever come to me again EVER" I was so confused I asked why but he hung up on me, my cousin told me He thinks maybe I didn't come to him in the car because I was with my other Bf(cousin). I sent him an sms telling him that's my cousin and explaining the whole situation, Didn't reply didn't answer phone till night, and said I must leave him alone for a while, he was calm then but still didn't want to see me, I don't know what to do.Please help, I've never cheated on him and never will.
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reader, Sisyphus  +, writes (12 January 2009):
 I'd be cautious about this boyfriend of yours, over-reacting like this over such a small thing and accusing you of cheating on him just because you were walking down the street with someone else is indicitative of a larger issue here IMHO. The fact that he didn't even give you the benefit of the doubt sounds like he doesn't trust you at all, and such an untrusting attitude towards a partner is not the basis of a healthy relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009): it sounds like your boyfriend has some trust issues; if he should react like this simply after seeing you with another man in the street then I would be very worried by his attitude. How does he react to male friends or work colleagues you might have? I think he is acting extremely childishly and would ignore him until he contacts you. As far as I can see you haven't done anything wrong.
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