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writes:me and my boyfriend, which is 18 and im 15, where playing around in are secret spot at school this morning like always. and this weekend we got to know more details about each other, like small things about his future and past, and how he felt about me.we he was supose to come to my house, but he didnt make it cuz of my fault, i asked him to get me food, lol.so i was with him and he fingered me, and we kissed, and he kept me warm, cuz it was really cold today. and i told him i want to kiss his penis, so i went into his pants, and got it out and kissed it. so im holding it in my hands, and i looked at him. he said that if i was ready, to go ahead, and i decided to kiss it again, and i went a little farther, than a kiss. but then i stopped, and i said i couldnt anymore and put it away.we talked about it later on, and i told him if he wanted me to, i would do it without thinking, because i really like, may even love him, and i dont want him to miss out on anything on his senior year becuz of me.so i agreed to go all the way tomorrow, even thought i dont have a problem doing it for him, at all, but idk if in the future, if someone from church asks if i had oral, i will be able to lie?so should i take the do it, even though i want to? Reply to this Question
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (12 January 2009):
 That guy is corrupting your innocence and you need to get rid of him and find a guy who will respect you.
I know that now your hormones are raging and that affects your judgement, but if you go too far with him sexually now, you will regret it.
Unfortunately, people can get sick (HIV and STDs) through oral and anal, as well as vaginal intercourse.
Condoms help, but they don't
guarantee you won't get sick. only ABSTINENCE will do that.
It might not be the answer you want, but choose ABSTINENCE for now. If you're bored and need something to do, find something to fill the void, learn an instrument or learn to ride a horse or get a job at a stable, play soccer, etc. Don't mess around with sex, it will lead to heartache. You have your whole life to have sex and when you do, it shouldn't be with this creep.
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reader, kymommy +, writes (12 January 2009):
You need to be aware of the legal side of this if he gets caught he will go to jail be charged with rape be on probation for 5 years and have to regestier as a sex offender for the rest of his life o r 10 years min. Trust me i know it happened to a friend of mine. So having sex with his girlfriend cost him big time. They arnt together anymore but hes still paying for it 5 years after the fact
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reader, sheribaby38 +, writes (12 January 2009):
 first of all here in california what you are thinking about doing is illegal and called statatory rape. your only 15 and hes 18. if you were my daughter id make you stop seeing that boy. i always tell my own daughter that boys like to kiss and tell so be prepared to be called the school slut for the rest of you school years coz once you guys arent running around anymore the rumors will sure will be. good luck!
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reader, FashionistaBaybee +, writes (12 January 2009):
I can't tell yu yu should or shouldn't because its yur descion. if yu wanna do it atleast take the time to this think about the consequences. yur the same aqe as me so I knoe that if he qoes & tells people yu sucked him then there's qonna be HORRIBLE rumors around skool. but if yu truely trust him & yu really wanna do this (not because he's forcinq yu but because yu want to pleasure him) then do it. truthfully nothinq we say is qonna chanqe yur mind. if yu wanna do it then yull do it.
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (12 January 2009):
 Well, it sounds like he's a good guy cuz he isnt making you do anything you dont want to do. All i can say is follow your heart. If you go ahead and do it then please use some protection. At 15 and 18 you guys are not ready for a baby. Really i dont think you are ready yet, but follow your heart and your feelings.
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