A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm so sexually frustrated that it's driving me crazy. I'm in my mid 20's, never had a girlfriend, and never really dated anyone for that matter. I'm not waiting for marriage, but I would like to it to be with someone I have feelings for. I just have no luck when it comes to women. Don't get me wrong, I don't want to give the impression that I'm just out for sex. I want so badly to find someone special to share my life with. Even a kiss with a special someone would be worth something. Even masturbation just isn't doing it of me anymore. Any thoughts?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 January 2011):
 I guess that your patience are just running low. It is completely normal for a guy at your age to be sexually frustrated so dont worry there is nothing wrong about you. But you are doing the right thing by waiting until you find a girl you really like to share sex with, going out and having a one night stand probably would just make you feel worse. Try getting out more and sociallising and meeting girls your age but just remember take your time and get to know them before you try having sex with them as you will only chase a girl away thinking that all you want is sex concentrate on taking things slowely and getting to know a girl before sex.
For the time being try and make masterbation more fun, maybe buy some porn that you can watch and spice it up a little bit. Maybe use some lube to make the sensation feel a little different. goodluck.
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