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I don't feel much during sex!

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Question - (19 January 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 January 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi everyone!

I'm 19 years old and a sophomore in college. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 10 months now and were friends for a few years before entering into the relationship we have. We started having sex a few months ago. We talk to each other about everything and are very open in communication. We want to make each other sexually happy. During sex though, I never get any feeling out of it. I just have more of an emotional connection with it. He has tried to find where my gspot is during sex and in anything we do but I never finish in sex or in any other way. Is there a reason for that? Or is time the only way it gets better with the feeling? Are there any positions or methods in increasing or heightening the feeling for me? He feels EVERYTHING. Thanks for any suggestions ahead of time.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2011):

This is pretty normal at your age, just keep at it it gets better! Also remember that for us women most of the sensitivity(90%) is on the OUTSIDE mostly the clitoris. Get to know your clitoris an use positions whore his body is pressing on your clit. Also do more grinding. In and out does VERY little for women in spite of what most men think (too much porn!)

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A female reader, FluffyPie United States +, writes (19 January 2011):

FluffyPie agony auntYou have masturbated too much perhaps, and now you can't find satisfaction unless it's "yourself". I know I had this problem, I was never able to have an orgasm whenever my boyfriend was trying to please me. When we started to have sex, I use to have the same empty feeling inside, I wasn't completely satisfied.

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A male reader, joshuaty2010 United States +, writes (19 January 2011):

joshuaty2010 agony auntMaybe when you both intend to have sex you are not in the mood, or sorry to say this but you might not be interested to your boyfriend to have sex. You are the only one can answer that just be yourself to know what your feeling are for him. Anyway, if this is matter of your sex behavior you might want to read this posted article that tells about how to become a phenomenon lover.

http://www.menshealthinstitute.org/2010/12/06/top-five-ways-to-become-a-phenomenal-lover/

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