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It hurts when he enters me, why is this?

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Question - (19 January 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 January 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This is quite long because i wanted to explain myself properly, please take time to read and help me :)

Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly a year now and i was sexually active before i met him. It never used to hurt when we had sex within the first few months of our relationship. However for the last month or so it has been really painful when he puts his penis inside me. once hes put it in and we start having sex it gets better and by the end it doesnt hurt at all. but it takes ages because it is so painful to put in, but why is this? It happens every time and im worried something may be wrong with me?

I dont know if i have come up with a reason or not but a few months ago i changed to the contraceptive injection- i have had 2 of them in total but have talked to nurses and have decided to go back onto the pill because i have had irregular (daily)bleeding for the entire time.. would this have anything to do with the pain?

Thanks for any help

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2011):

yes he does take time to get me ready and we have even used extra lube to try and make things more comfortable for me, but it still hurts

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A male reader, gigolojone Uganda +, writes (19 January 2011):

gigolojone agony auntDoes he take his time to get you ready for the action?

I mean does he make sure you are well lubricated before he can insert his penis inside you?

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