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writes:my boyfriend and I are sexually active and he'll only "hold up" for less than 5 mins.. I get "wetter" than normal and we're not using any protection.. he'll pull out when he starts to cum though.. how do we prevent this and make him last longer.?
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reader, 091892 +, writes (6 January 2010):
091892 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionsheesh some of youu don't have to be so harsh.! but you're all right so i'll take all of your advice in consideration.. =) thaaanks.!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2010): Your an idiot for not using protection- flat out, not excuses, you're going to get knocked up sooner rather than later.If you want to make him last, you need to work on his sensitivity. First, make sure that he's not jacking off (Google "the death grip") and training his dick to come fast to avoid detection. This is a problem from some men, who have to hide their masturbation, or grew up fearing detection. If this is the case, he's going to have to start taking longer with his self-pleasure. He needs to practice jacking off and holding his ejaculation for longer and longer periods of time.If this NOT the case, you still need to work on his ability to stall his ejaculation. Slow hand jobs are good, and making it a game is good too. It may take a month or so. Also, if he can come once, then get hard again and make the second time LONG... both of you may win!
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reader, person12345 +, writes (6 January 2010):
 First off, the average guy can only last two minutes after penetration. So he's actually not cumming that early. Second off, the pull out method is really ineffective. If he pulls out when he actually starts to cum the chances of him getting something inside you are REALLY high. So what is the solution to BOTH problems? Use a condom. They will definitely allow him to last longer and then neither of you have to have a care in the world about getting pregnant.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (6 January 2010):
 He'll last longer with a condom on. You should be using a condom anyway unless you actually want to get pregnant. Maybe suggest that he has a little "practice" session earlier in the day - that should help. Of course, if he had been down on you for 20 minutes already then the fact that he only lasts 5 minutes wouldn't really matter.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010): Stretch marks aren't sexy so start wearing a rubber or get on the pill or it wont matter how long he lasts. When u get preagnant it'll turn him off so he wont last at all and your kids won't ask stupid questions like you.
Good luck and Start getting safe and save the world!!
AMtZ.
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reader, Jujubie +, writes (5 January 2010):
With me and my bf I usually will have him come once then he is usually good after that to do it for a while if that doesn't work then just go slow.and then when he's gonna come go really slow.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (5 January 2010):
Well to be honest, you are going to be pregnant soon so it won't matter. Stretch marks are not sexy. He'll leave you for a new girl instead and it won't be your problem any more.
So you can solve both problems by not being an idiot and buying some condoms.
Some have mild numbing agents that are specially designed to make a guy last longer.
Good Luck!! xx
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