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*arie2009
writes:H. me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now. we have a great sex life, and we get along like a house on fire. It's just, sometimes when we have sex, just sometimes, we get into it, and obviously im horny etc etc, but then, out of nowhere i just don't want it anymore. Eg. 10 minutes in its fine, next minute, i just dont want it anymore. I've recently told him his, and he went mad. he thinks it him, when really, i dont know who it is!! I used to fake orgasms sometimes, as i didnt just want to say in the middle of sex, i don't want it anymore!! how awkward and weird is that for him? i feel like i'll disappoint him and let him down. is that an insecurity of mine? Hedoes nothing to ever make me think this either.i sometimes just think of being single too, even though i Love him to bits. Help me please. i know it sounds like i want to have my cake and eat it but its not that, i just don't know what to do. I do truly love him,and there is still a physical and mental attraction but i'm just so confused, why do i feel like this?? i also suffer from depression, but thats not it. if it was, id just lose my sex drive, or not. simple. Please somebody tell me why i feel the way i do?? Any advice? Thanks In Advance. Marie.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2010): I've got the same problem sometimes. I don't know what it is - but surely you are very normal!
Maybe it is about concentrating on other things - or concentrationg too much on the sex?
I don't know. But I know I love may boyfriend. And I don't want to be with someone else.
If I realy don't want it anymore and it starts to hurt me, I tell him and he understands - at least he stops and doesn't get mad at all.
Maybe don't tell your bf, you don't want any more, but tell him, it hurts?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2010): Perhaps you are a tad bored with your intimate routine as it has become to repetitive so it's time to liven it up. Your sex organ in your head is so tired of your predictability.
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