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Archived questions from: 12 December, 2010 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Surely you wouldn't carry on sleeping with an ex if you didn't still love them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Ok here goes..... ready to be confused..... I was with a guy for just over 6 years, he ended the relationship just over a year ago as he said he didnt love me anymore, But a year on where still doing things a normal couple would do, we go to the...

What is it like to make love for the first time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - question i would like to ask all the women on here what it was like to make love for the first time as i don't know what it like...

How do I fight being too shy for cybersex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - Hi. I've had an online girlfriend for about three months, and we've been talking lots, and recently she made it clear she wants to move forward to cybersex. But we're both criminally shy, and when we tried I just kept talking about sandwiches, ...

Should I be concerned with her thinking of other men during sex??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - In order to spice up our sex lives, my partner and I have been imagining others occasionally. It turns her on to hear me imagine she's another girl. Likewise, she is turned on by imagining other guys. Whilst it has worked a couple of times for me ...

How do I get out of this horrible situation with my husband's depression?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - How to get rid of depressed husband? I got married 2 and half years back. After one month in a conversation i told my husband about my all Exs. I felt he will not mind and was bold enough. Then he started asking in detail and at that time i was ...

We're both virgins and tried unsuccessfully to have sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - hello there me and my girlfriend just tried to have sex for the first time (for both of us) and after a little foreplay we got down t busness and i put the protection on and then the problem, it wouldnt go in, we are both very nearly seventeen and ...

What am I involved in with this guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Been involved for past 6-8 years with male partner with sex as the only reason for us meeting or communicating. He is more than willing to meet with me anytime at my request. This male is NOT married (confirmed)or in any other type of commited ...

I'm not 100% sure who the dad is.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - i found out i was pregnant in june 2009 i had a 1 night stand with sum1 in april 2009 (somwere in the middle of the month) then i had sex with my fella at the the end of april i had my period about may the 5th 2009 then had sex with my fella again ...

We have sex but he won't kiss me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I have been dating this guy on and off for about 8 mos. now, we are sexually active, but he never kisses me. He knows it is an issue, I have tried to talk to him about a couple of times. It is depressing. He is a really great guy besides that. I ...

No explanation why but sex hurts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I was with my previous boyfriend for 3 years, at the begining of the relationship we had sex 4 times a week minimum. through to the end of our relation ship, we had sex less and less as you can imagen. but near to the end, it hurt, it wasnt that i ...

I want to be a nice memory for him, not mess him up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I am single and 40. I transferred to this new job location a year ago. I made many nice new friends. Including B, a 29 year old guy. In the beginning I found him odd, awkward, loud, but brilliant and I assumed he had a form of autism, aspergers, I ...

First time sex and the skin on my penis ripped?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - Hey i am 15 years old and me and my girlfriend had un protected sex, (shes on the pill so i didnt really think it mattered) it was my first time having sex and the skin on my penis kinda ripped? :\ is this normal or not ):! It was bleeding and hurt...

My husband and best friend had sex and blame it on the drink!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - SO, in need of some advice- my husband, who've I've been for 6 years and have a son with, has slept with my best friend. After a long night of partying she stayed over at our house. My husband, who was totally drunk, decided to go into her bedroom ...

After amazing sex I felt depressed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4890 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Ive had anxiety and depression for about 5 years now,i have been seeking help with my mental issues aswell but besides that im not really sure if this has anything to do with my question. The other night my boyfriend and i had this really amazing ...

Why does it have to hurt so bad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - My husband and I decided to separate yesterday morning. Well, more or less "take a break". I always knew that if a man needs a "break" its because he has other interests. I decided to go to the local bar to have a drink alone to calm my frazzled...

My FWB cancelled out with a lame excuse

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I have this friend with benefits we decided we didnt want a relationship but tonight i called and asked what i was doing i invited him over. he said make sure im awake and dont fall asleep on him, which i always do. two hours later he text me and ...

My neighbor asked me if I would engage in a FWBs with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - My neighbour recently approched me online about the idea of friends with benefits. We had been casually talking for a couple weeks. At first I was totally offended he thought that way about me but lately I've really been warming up to the idea. He's ...

My wife has a list of rules and guidelines for sex!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - My wife insists on having rules for sex, no oral unless we are freshly out of the shower. No cumming on her face or in her mouth. And no matter what, I have not convinced her even once to swallow. I love her dearly but, I think this kills the s...

Is it because he feels something more or he thinks that I do???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I have been fuck buddies with a guy for quite a while now, but lately things are getting weird but for whatever reason we havent seen each other for a couple of weeks. That's because when one of us plans to chill something always comes up. Now he's ...

Please help me and tell me how to enjoy my sexuality more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4892 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I have always wanted to have a one night stand and i was offered the chance and i refused it. i can't believe it, i am so regretful for saying no. I have been years without sex and mad at myself for my boring sex life and I only got myself to ...

Anyone have any advice on how to kickstart a relationship after having a baby?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for nearly three years and we have a four month old daughter together. Ever since our baby was born my girlfriend has stopped showing me any form of affection (including sex). When I try to talk to her abou...