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writes:I am a 20 year female old college student. Ive been dating my boyfriend for nearly 3 years and think its time I bring another woman into our bedroom to spice things up. Thing is, Im completely antisocial. Im a computer programming student, shy, and only have male friends. I am, however, quite a bit more attractive than I have probably alluded to (partially hence why other females arent my friends and why I tend to attract the male population).I want to surprise my boyfriend by bringing someone home one night that ISNT a stripper but is someone attractive. I have talked to him about this before so I know he is ok with the idea. Im not old enough to go to bars and dont know the best way to approach this subject with anyone. I dont want to offend anyone but Id rather not get real close to the person beforehand, wanting this to just be a one time affair.Any suggestions?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2009): Have you tried going to different parties? That's how my girlfriend accomplished the same feat for me when we were in college.
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reader, melanie0083 +, writes (15 September 2009):
 My friend was in a 10 year relationship and she brought in another woman...it wound up wrecking their relationship. she regretted it, so be careful. Maybe experience this with someone you dated "shortly" that wont go anywhere...just for fun...but a serious relationship? It may turn ugly...emotionally...on your part.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2009): Wow, this was easier when you could drink at 18...
OK, first, I have to belive that hooking up for a 3some is alot easier given the ability to use the internet. However, you could probably waste alot of time with fakes who are out there.
There are several good "how to" books on Amazon. One I remeber had alot of good advice (which in deed worked!) was
Threesome: How to Fulfill Your Favorite Fantasy (Paperback)
by Lori Gammon
There are 50+ review on Amazon. I'd search for "threesome" there and start a collection. Read & ENJOY!
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