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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Ok first thanks for taking the time to read this. This guy and I started an exclusive relationship a little over a week ago. He has a hard time staying hard during intercourse, and I am very patient with him and I continue to rub him and kiss him to try and get him in the mood again.. I am a very sexual person and I absolutely love sex. I have never had to deal with this before and have never had a problem getting a man off, but we've fooled around maybe 6-7 times and he has never reached orgasm. Last night we were talking about it over dinner and drinks and I asked him has that always been an issue and he said no. So I asked him what they did (his ex's) and he said nothing special I'm just not that turned on. I was absolutely mortified. Nothing like that has ever been said to me and I really didn't know how to handle it. I am a bigger girl 5'5" 200lbs, and I know he's not used to that. He always tells me I'm beautiful and very affectionate in front of his friends and everything.. So what is it? Please help.... Thanks
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reader, duce00 +, writes (17 November 2009):
 Its not you, trust me.
What Q said to the tenth power.
Does this guy have a thing for musicals and enjoys Brad Pitt movies just a wee bit too much? Hmmmm
You are gods gift to a whole bunch of men and I hope you pick that one out of the crowd that is searching for you too.
Rock what ya got baby!
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reader, april1116 +, writes (17 November 2009):
 we'll honey if hes not that turned on then let it go. i really don't know what else to say i mean I never had that happen to me, I say try giving him some head and if that doesn't work then idk. Good Luck!
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reader, bitch +, writes (17 November 2009):
Maybe he is telling you he isn't turned on by what you are doing and not you exactly. Or maybe you are not his type. Some guys like women who are shapely, some like women who are thin. It is not your fault. It is what he likes and doesn't like.
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