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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have fallen head over heels for a guy I work with, we both fancy each other but I am shy and he doesn't want a relationship, we have kind of just been flirting and having the odd kiss and "grope" now and again, after work or sometimes at work, he has just told me he is leaving next month as he has a new job but he says he will definately keep in touch, he is having a leaving night and says we can take things further if I want, and I really really want to because as I said I fancy him but and as I wont see him again. I keep thinking why not but then another part of me thinks that it just being "easy" and I wont hear from him again. Should I tell him how I feel, and risk being blown out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2009): He is just trying to convince you for sex, that's all. The rest is up to you
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (13 November 2009):
Definitly tell him. You totally fancy him, and he has said he doens't want a relationship. Which means that he will use you for sex then leave you behind to nurse a broken heart. Explain you don't do sex unless there is something meaningful in it. Don't allow yourself to be used.
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