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I don't know how to start off in sex!

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Question - (11 November 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 11 November 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I don't know how to start off in sex! How do you start off, do you just start making out and then let it unfold or just let him lead you, or should I even lead him?

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A female reader, xXxLisaxXx United Kingdom +, writes (11 November 2008):

I completely agree if your asking these questions your not ready yet. Sex should be enjoyed and will happen naturally. You need to want it to happen and not be pressured especially with the right. We waited 6 months and by that time I was ready and its the best thing I ever did. You will know what to do when the time is right hun xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008):

girl, you seem nervous! you need to loosen up a bit. don't worry i was asking myself the same question before it happened. i like when my boyfriend carries me to the bed and gets on top of me lol. you usually start making out, and from there he'll put his hands down your pants. if not then here comes the big question he'll ask "are you sure you wanna do this" and if your answers yes, then you can start to take eachothers clothes off and do the nasty ;)

lol, i hope this helped.

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you need any help, wish

you the best of luck. 3

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A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (11 November 2008):

Fairy_Lu agony auntThe fact you have had to ask leads me to think you not 100% ready for this?

Sex is natural and everything that leads up to just comes naturally but only when you are ready.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks for the advice .ox

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A male reader, enjoimx United States +, writes (11 November 2008):

enjoimx agony auntI wouldnt have sex until it feels natural, not forced.

If you force it, it will RUIN it.

I would recommend waiting in your case, and that is coming from a guy with a lot of life experience, and I wish I would have waited!

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