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writes:Hi,Im 21 and wish to keep my virginity until I am married however i still want sexual pleasure.My bf and I thrust a lot with underwear on but topless (dry hump) but I cant feel his penis properly. So he took it out but after a bit my lacey knickers were causing painful friction on his penis.I was wondering whether its normal if he just rubs his penis inside my labia up and down without going in the vagina?Can i get an STD via this? Does he need a condom?Thanks x
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (20 November 2008):
maybe carry on dry humping, but use a softer pair of knickers. cotton is probably better then lace or even silk. it will allow his penis to glide over them easily and will feel great for him. plus with silk it;s a thinner material so you will feel his penis pressing down on your clit. magic for both of you!
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reader, PreferVirgins +, writes (15 November 2008):
you are the strongest woman on earth! you don't want to hav sex yet nice penis is rubbed on your labia!if you don't want to do it, and i think you shouldn't, whyu go this far?
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reader, Gemini1506 +, writes (11 November 2008):
Yes it's still possible that you can get an sti or pregnant as his semen can still get inside you. Butt i think the chances will be a lot slimmer in comparsant to full penetration.
And rubbing his penis on you labia may well turn into full sex as you or him may get 'carried away'. But that's your choice.. Have you ever tried using vibraters, straps on or something similar?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): Yeah dry humping or whatever is normal. Even if it wasn't normal it's not like it's wrong! However you will need to use protection. If not just get him to finger you, you won't need to worry about protection or annoying underwear or your virginity or anything!
You're very lucky to have a boyfriend who is prepared to wait, be grateful for that =]
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