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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I just became sexually active about a month ago. The problem that I am having is that, I am totally turned on, and it feels really good, but I can't get off before he does, even if he is pleasuring me in other ways, I still can't reach climax. HELP!!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, deejuliet +, writes (11 November 2008):
 Very many women, in fact the great majority I would say, do not orgasm during intercourse. Most find orgasm to be, as the previous posted stated, elusive. You are not alone. You are completely normal. Most need other stimulation and some even then cannot climax. If you are enjoying what you are doing and it feels wonderful then dont worry about it too much! Just relax and enjoy. Dont worry about the destination, just enjoy the journey!
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male
reader, enjoimx +, writes (11 November 2008):
 I work at my school in the Sexuality Resource department at the health center, so trust me I know:
Orgasm is elusive for girls just starting sexual activity, and sometimes elusive for alot longer.
If it feels really good, you are on the right track. You cant force orgasm, guys can, we are lucky. You are lucky in that orgasm is much better when you get it.
Keep doing what feels good, mix it up sexually, get crazy, do it in crazy places, really try to turn him on which will in turn, help you.
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