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Archived questions from: 4 May, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

My boyfriend doesn't want sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 556 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - I know he loves me as he shows me in other ways. But getting him to kiss or have sex is very difficult. Ive tried lots of different things but nothing really works. He loves me I know that. HE said that sex was important in a relationship at the ...

I had a sex-only relationship but now I want more. I'm lost. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 524 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - I have a sex only relationship wit this guy. I got the idea he didn't wanna be all serious so I told him we can just call each other for those reasons. Before I didn't wanna go to the movies or dinner wit him cause I just go out an relationship now ...

No more attention unless he wants sex! What is going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 567 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have known each other about 4 months now and have dated about 3 months. at first we were all over each other. that lasted for about a month, if that. now he doesn't pay any attention to me unless he wants sex, which he hardly ...

I've lost my mojo! Is this because I'm no longer curious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 566 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - Whats going on???? I seem to have lost my sex drive! And I really don't understand why! The last three times my boyfriend and I had sex/did other things I haven't orgasmed, it usually happens every time (sometimes a couple of times!)It definately ...

How will I know if I am ready for sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 566 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - how will i know if im ready for sex? me and my bf have been together for just over 8 months and we havnt had sex and i am still a virgin. i often think about having sex with him but sometimes i get scared becus im a virgin and hes not and whether it ...

We had sex and now he won't talk to me. What's going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 416 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - ok. so theres this guy. weve been mztes for about 8/ months. now ans again we aould have a little kiss and cuddle but wouldnt say anything about it afterwards. then recently we both spoke and told each other we really like each other, but we agreed ...

He was so caring, and now I'm scared in case I get it wrong next time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 566 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - heya, i was going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 years, we both lost our viginitys to each other, we were in love and had so much trust in our relationship, so it felt right. he was amazing, in the way that he cared for me and always made sure...

I didn't have sex and now he ignores me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 559 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - I had a go with a boy in my course but did't have sex as I told him I only have it on a relationship basis and would prefer to know him better and so on, he told me to phone him and we agreed to date a week later but to muy surprise he look the ...

Are his porn mags more important to him than me? Is this normal? What can I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 567 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - I wanted to know if it is normal for your bf to masterbate to porn mag.'s rather than have sex with me? I always want sex, and he knows it, he looks at porn mag.'s while and after work.He always makes sexual advances when i’m sleeping. I feel li...

We had cybersex, but now I don't understand what he is really trying to tell me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 565 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - This guy and I started chatting a few months ago.... and had cybersex. We met a month later and got on really well. That was 2 months ago and I haven't seen him for a month. When I last saw him we got intimate, and then I went on holiday for two ...

I want to go on the pill. Will the doctor tell anyone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 567 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - hey i am worried i am 14 and want to go on the pill but i cnt let my mum find out so i was just wondring if i sneack to the doctors will they tell my mum or any of the family ...

I see the number 69 everywhere. Is it trying to tell me something? Is it a sign?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 567 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - hey, i was wondering if anyone could give me an answer to my question... basically, everywhere i go, i keep seeing these signs for things. not as in road signs, as in everywhere i go, i see the number 69..ok it might be nothing and im just noti...

He is going to tell me he loves me, but I'm confused and nervous

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 567 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - okay so ive been dating this guy for about three months and really like him a lot. we both have had our hearts broken in the past. he handled his break by sleeping around and what not, for him its been a year and a half, im the first girl hes wanted ...

It was special for her, but are there other methods to ensure she has an orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 566 days ago

4 May 2008 (M) - some educated answers would be great here!! I'm with a women with whom I make love with, literally for hours!!! Its great. The other day she had an orgasm through penetration, and I was shocked to learn that that was only the second time that had...

I can't get/keep an erection -any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 567 days ago

4 May 2008 (M) - Hey i usely have sex with my grilriend about four times a week, on two seperate days. im really attracted to her and her body arrouses me but i can't get/keep an errection. we do foreplay and is fun for her but not so much for me as: 1. its quit...

I always find myself fancying other men and sometimes ask myself do I really want to be with my husband?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 567 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - Hi, well here is my problem. I am married for nearly two years, we had our problems and broke up twice during this 2 years. The thing is, i always find myself fancying other men and sometimes ask myself do i really want to be with my husband. ...

I'm 23 and still a virgin. I don't know much about sex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 May 2008 (M) - i'm 23 and still a virgin. I don't know much about sex. i am looking for someone to tell me about sex. never had a girlfriend and never even fooled around with one. Please Help me!!!!!!...

Where can I hide my "toy" from Mum?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 567 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - Hello, I am trying to find a place to put my vibrator.do u know where the most unlikley Place that my Mom whould find it? Post thanks...

I feel I look awful without any make-up on and makes me feel too self-conscious about spending the night with guys!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 567 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I have never been lucky in love but recently I met someone really nice.We have been on dates. The problem is that i feel i look awful without any make-up on. He thinks i look really beautiful but i feel when he sees the real me he will run ...

How can I stop "Mr Perfect" from trying to force me to have sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 566 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - Everyone thinks my bf is perfect! He portrays this Mr Nice Guy act but Im not too sure how REAL that image is. His family think hes a perfect catholic boy who treats women with respect. My family think the same. And my friends, they think hes the ...

Does anyone else just not get that turned on when they are intimate with their partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 540 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - Can somebody please help me! Does anybody else just not get that turned on when they're being intimate with their partner? But finds it pretty easy on their own? I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months now and I thought maybe at the beginning...

I'm afraid of trying new sexual positions!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 566 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - I am afraid to try new sex postions what do i do?...

I don't think he went all the way, but he said he did cum. Now I don't know what to do. Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 567 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time yesteday, i don't think he went all the way but he said he did cum. I'm so worried i don't know what to do! I can't tell my parents, and i don't know if i can go doctor's without them? HELP!...