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Archived questions from: 9 May, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I'm 5 months pregnant and he's with another girl and he still comes round to sleep with me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - I am so hurt. My ex boyfriend is with another girl even though he knows i'm 5 months pregnant from him. He tells me he loves this girl. He phones me all the time and tells me he will be there for the baby, but he doesn't want to be with me. I feel...

There's ranting and there's ranting, but his ranting is a little too much! I've had my rant, now it's your turn!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - I've been married to my new husband for 6 weeks now. When we first met, he was kind, loving and caring towards me - but now he's changed. At the wedding he ranted about everything - and about everyone at the wedding and in the wedding speech. ...

When will I know she's ready to have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

9 May 2008 (M) - Hi everyone. I've been dating this girl for nearly a year, we get along very well, finish each other's sentences and all that, lovey-dovey kind of couple.I swore I would not be like that in another relationship, but.. here we are, lol. Anyway here's ...

What do I do? It hurts to let him go. I do love him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - Do I stay with my husband or leave him either for my lover, or to be alone? I have been married for 4 and a half years. I stopped wanting my husband and have been having sex with him when he wants it for just over a year of that marriage. He kn...

I think he does love me but he's never got time for me. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - We're working abroad and we are both married, he has a girlfriend but i couldn't help falling in love with him, he said he love me too. I really love him so much (well i'm just a human). My problem is i feel bored with our relationship because we d...

I really just want to let myself go with him tomorrow night, but what can I do to stop the nerves?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - Bit of a strange question. Recently, my best friend, who is a guy admitted he was in love with me. We have always had an amazingly intimate and close friendship and I think deep down I have always been in love with him too. He left me a letter...

Why don't I have an orgasm when I have sex with my partner?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - hi, i just want to ask why i did'nt feel orgasm every time i had sex with my partner? my partner is good in sex i know it. he always ask me if im finished i said not yet,if i feel that he can no longer to wait for my orgasm, im just pretending and ...

I watch lesbian porn and masturbate. I hate myself. Is this normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - hi im 13 year old female and just recently started masturbating but i use a hairbrush and masturbate watching lesbian porn i no it sounds discusting and i want to stop because afterwards i feel so dirrty and hate myself for doing in i...

Unusual sperm fetish? I even swallow sperm from used condoms..

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I have an unusual fetish. My thing is that I really enjoy having a guy ejaculate in my mouth. My friends think I am mad but I love the taste of sperm and have always allowed a partner to do this for me. I have not had a boyfriend for ...

How can I get my husband to have sex with me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - I am 32 and my husband is 40 we have been married nearly 10 months. Before we were married we had lots of sex, now its once a week if that. We both work hard and can be invoicing until late at night, when we do finally go to bed we are shattered. ...

We're trying to conceive but he can't ejaculate! What can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I hope some of you will be able to help. This is probably going to be long but I need advice real bad. I don't know what else to do! OKay, so my partner has difficulty ejaculating for some reason. But the sex is good, at least I think so, so i...

I have cheated on him several times but we're still together. Do I really love him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - Hi Everyone We have been dating for 2 yrs now, but sometimes i feel like i dont love him, and like he does not love me. I have cheated on him several times but we're still together, and he is the first longest relationship i have ever had. The o...

Should I leave my wife because our sex life is virtually non existent?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

9 May 2008 (M) - Hi i'm thinking of leaving my wife, i like her in many ways but our sex life is virtually non exsistance. I've met a wonderful woman aged 18 who is beautiful and works as a model. The sex is absolutely fantastic. Do think there is a chance for us, ...

He got caught masturbating in a shopping centre!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - My b/f often masturbates to porn, i'm o.k with this and sometimes we watch it together. Anyhow last week he got caught masterbating in a shopping centre, now i think maybe i shouldn't have encouraged him. What do you think?...

How can I tell her to return a favour in bed? She's a virgin.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

9 May 2008 (M) - how do you tell your gf to return the favor please when i please her every time but i'm left hangin or should i say stiff.. idk how to she's a virgin and just coming around to being comfortable with this kind of stuff.. can a guy get a hand job mayb...

Would you stick it out just for the kids?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - I am married 11 years with 2 kids. We have been living abroad for the past year. This is our first time away from fam/friends. He has made the move as he moved from another country to mine 15 years ago. Our relationship has never been passoinate ...

Don't be Embarrassed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 121 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - There is absolutely no need to be embarrassed during sex! It doesn't matter who you are, there will always be at least one sexual experience that leaves you slapping your forehead years down the road and thinking "what did I do?". The wonderful ...

My girlfriend bleeds everytime we have sex, is it unusual?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

9 May 2008 (M) - Most girls I've had sex with haven't bled during/afterwords, unless they were virgin's or hadn't had sex in quite a while, but my girlfriend at the moment, she bleeds EVERY TIME we have sex? is this unusual?...

How to spice things up in a relationship where sex and oral sex are not an option?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost one year now and we are both in our 20s. I've chosen to remain a virgin until I am married. It is both a religious and personal choice on my end. My question is this, how do you spice things up with...

Can someone shed some light on my secret fantasy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

9 May 2008 (?) - okay I am hoping someone can shed some light on my secret fantasy. I am not normally turned on by other women, and have a boyfriend, but sometimes certain women really turn me on (if they are attractive and have the right personality). ...

I'm no stunner but I'm not the elephant man either - So how can I attract some female attention?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

9 May 2008 (M) - How can I attract some female attention? I'm kind of shy and not good at flirting but I'm a nice guy and I'm not hideous but i'm 28 years old and I've only had sex twice, and that was 2 or 3 years ago. I was going out with a girl for two year...

I think about having sex with this other girl, but I'm already with someone.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 120 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - Hello everyone, I have a question i know you all may hear this a lot, but i need to have it answered in detail Right firstly, i'm a bi-female and i have been dating this girl got 3 years, but i do still like guys a little, but i am mostly for ...

I haven't clue about lesbian sex, but I want to try it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - Hey i guess i am bi..and i want to try having physical relationship with a girl..but i have no clue about lesbians sex. Do they cause sexual diseases? Do we lose our virginity by lesbian sex? I am sorry if my questions are lame. Please help...

My boyfriend thinks I'm nuts...would you say I was over-reacting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - Please help! I don't trust my own judgment because I have anxiety/depression and take meds. I have a b/f who I have been seeing for about three yrs - All my friends say he is using me - I have decorated and remodelled his house, landscaped...

He's not "small" but his male part is crooked.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - I've already posted this but no one really replied... please give me some feed back thanks!!!! Okay, so i've been dating this guy for a while and we recently had sex, twice. Both times i was on top and both times didn't last too long. I've only ...

If he keeps saying my name that way, I'm going to give him something that guaranteed he'll never forget.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - I told a guy at work today that "I love the way you say my name, you make it sound so sexy." (This guy is Spanish and he pronounces my name with an appealing accent, almost with adoration). The next time he does this, I'll tell him that if he keep...

He's 35 and I'm 17 and pregnant, is that really wrong?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - I'm 17 he's 35, we have been living together for two months, and i'm 6 weeks pregnant. I love him so much, is this wrong we get along so good, so in love with each other? I left mad and went 7 hrs away to my sister's and he drove all night, tired wi...

I'm having difficulties satisfying my girlfriend due to erection problems.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

9 May 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm having trouble having sex with my girlfriend. As i seem to be suffering from erectile dysfunction. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. We have only been able to have missionary sex, with me on top. However i don't feel like she is s...

Please clarify 'doggy style' for an argument's sake, thank you.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

9 May 2008 (M) - Okay, so my friend and i are arguing over who is right on this one, please help... While doing it doggy style, does the guy go in the girls vagina or her butt hole? Thank you!!...