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Archived questions from: 20 May, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I had sex with him before I was ready, any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 549 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now. It was all going great, until 4 days ago. It was the first time i'd slept at his house, but not the first time we'd slept in the same bed. We were messing around, and he asked if I wanted to do ...

Welcome to Unprotected-Sex - The City of Sin

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 522 days ago

20 May 2008 (?) - Hey! Welcome to Unprotected-Sex. More and more tourists visit Unprotected-Sex every year, and we're sure there'll be more! While you're stopping, why not relax with the guy you met just a few minutes ago over a few vodkas at Cinema Syphilis...

His high sex drive is making me feel under pressure!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 551 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - Hi, i'm very happy with my boyfriend but there is one thing that always causes problems between us- his sex drive is a lot higher than mine and i feel as though it is coming between us. my boyfriend of 2 years is lovely, hes thoughtful, cari...

What happened to our sex life? Seems like she is avoiding me sexually.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 552 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have had fantastic sex. She would even brag to a couple of her close female friends how this is the first time she has such great sex. However, the past couple of months our sex life is practically nill. Not for my lack of trying ...

She is amazing but her past puts me off...

This question has 43 answers - newest was posted 544 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - Im in a relationship with someone. I love her. She is amazing. She is, ultimately, what I have ever desired about in a woman. Except, I fear she is a slut... Slept with about 20 people, one a couple weeks before me... A couple months before that ...

Should I cheat or not? I'm in a long distance relationship of 5 months and won't see her for 6 more!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 549 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - Hi I'm a student and I'm in a long distance relationship but its only been 5 months do, bad thing is that I wont be seeing her for the next 6 months,do you think I should cheat whilest I personally don't want to cheat coz I really love this girl but ...

I feel bad about it, as I denied all the rumors to my ex as well as my friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 552 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - I'll try and keep this short! Basically i have known 'R' for over 5 years now, as a friend. We had kissed at a party years ago, which was no big deal. We have always got on very well, and meet up every once in a while to catch up. Anyway, i ...

Did I just lose my virginity over 'wild' masturbation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - i masturbate not that often but yesterday...i just broke up with my boyfren whom i thought i will have sex with. i did it with my deodorant bottle. it hurts me but at the same time it gave me pleasure. it last for 20 minutes i guess and i stop and ...

We met via on line dating, is it too soon to ask if he has other dates in parallel? We have been intimate already.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 552 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - I recently met a guy on an on-line dating site. We have been dating for a couple of months and sleeping together as well. Out of curiosity, I went on the site to see when he was last on-line, and it was TODAY. How do I approach him about this? I ...

We're both ready for sex, I trust him, so what do I need to know about it? Does it hurt, and if it does, how do I deal with the pain?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 552 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - Hi Guys (: Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 and a half years. We're both 15 and considering having sex for the first time. I know what your probably thinking "Just another teenage couple rushing to grow up" but thats not the case....

How to make sure I am satisfying my older lover? I'm afraid of losing him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 552 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - help!! there is 23 years between me n my boyfriend, we have been together for 5 months and only started having sex 2 months ago, he is quite experience, even thou he denies that he has been with over 10 girls, but we joke bout it, i love him so m...

The more he says NO, the more I want my HOT neighbour!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 307 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - Ok I have never ever done this before! I am always a good girl who hasnt slept with many people. I never sleep around and i always make sure I am proctected. I have this neighbour who i find very attractive! I life at home with my parents and i have ...

I've been having no strings sex with the ex, who I did not seem to be able to let go... until now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 552 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - I've been separated almost a year and i have been having sex with the ex on and off. However, it has been almost 3 months no sex. I have met someone 3 weeks ago that i really like. My ex wanted to have sex last night and i had no desire too. Is ...

My fiancée is against fellatio. I've never received one in my life, and I crave for one!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - Hey. I've been with my fiance currently for just over 1 year. The only problem i'm having with her, is that she won't give blowjobs. I've never had a blowjob in my life.. And it drives me mad, i crave one! I've talked to her about it, and she ...

My husband thinks my vibrators are "dirty things" and he doesn't sleep with me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 371 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been together 3 years, married 8 months of those. We have 2 young children, my husband was very very keen to have a family hence why we had one so soon plus he is 10 years older than me. For the first 6 months, sex was ...

"Am I really ready for sex?"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 549 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - Using contraceptives for the first time can be daunting and stressful. Before you rush out for those contraceptives ask yourself "Am I really ready for sex?" Running through these few questions with a simple YES or NO answer may help you to be reall...

Sex with cousin, we used the withdrawal method. What are the risks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 549 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - i had sex with my cousin. we are 2nd cousins, and he did not use protection, but he pulled out before he came. Is there a chance i might be pregnant???...

I don't ejaculate when my girlfriend masturbates me or by myself, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 540 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - well i am 14 almost 15 and i can't ejaculate when I masturbate or when my girlfriend masturbates me or gives me a blowjob and it is frusterating to both of us. is there anyway that i can cum either by myself or with her helping me along? thanks...

My ex said she had a one night stand, why is this cutting me up?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 487 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - Okay, here's the situation... My Ex-Girlfriend I broke up with in November was my first love and real relationship, I broke up with for treating me horribly and because I suspected she had Hypomania calls me everyday. She gets drunk then calls...