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Archived questions from: 9 December, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

My BF wants to have sex, but I'm scared that it will hurt too much!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 337 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - lately my bf (of almost a year) and i have been joking around about sex we usually do foreplay and we both orgasm. were both virgins and i think he wants to take the next step so do i but im afraid its gonna hurt to muchh!! he says he'll be gentle ...

Seeing my wife with another man (3some) was hard enough, imagining her with another man solo is killing me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 349 days ago

9 December 2008 (M) - Ok my wife and I have been married for 13 years, we have had lots of trouble in the past, for the past two years she has hinted about wanting to sleep with another man. Now I have had my fair shares of adultry in our marriage but in all honesty I ...

How do I make my boyfriend cum and moan more during sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - me and my bf were virgins had sex it was amazing! but he didnt cum like at all and hardly made any noise apart from talking and moaning a bit while i did alot he said he thought he didnt cum because the condom was in the way and he was less s...

Is our sex illegal and considered rape? Also, could I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 345 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and we didnt use any kind of protection. We are in a bit of a rut because he is 21 and I am 17. He left the decision to me about if we should or not, so can the law still call it a form of rape? It was ...

How do I talk dirty?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - He wants me to talk dirty ? but how and what do i say ? ive read many articles on this to say what you feel but i dont know if thats the right thing to say !!! so how do i talk dirty ? xxx...

I felt really uncomfortable naked and I don't know if it was the right thing to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - I has sex with my boyfriend the other day and well i undressed for him but i didnt feel exactly comfortable with myself ... i am happy with my body its just not my private areas ive undressed down to my underwear many times but it felt completely ...

How can I change things when I don't feel wanted?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - Ive been with my bf for nearly 3 years. We broke up for 5 months about 3 months ago and he slept with another girl. I thought things would get better becuase he started to treat me better and tried to make up for what he did. Well I think I wa...

Is there any way you can get pregnate after unprotected sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - is there anyway you can get pregnate after you have unpretected sex, when you get your period 2 days later? Because a nurse told me that anything that would have went inside me would comeout with the flow of my period. and when you get your per...

Thick, pasty discharge and swollen vagina - I'm doing a pap smear, should I be worried?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - I don't know what's wrong with my genitals! I have an extremely thick, pasty discharge, also my vagina is incredibly swollen! I have had swabs done many times, everytimes they come back clear except for BV and thursh and everytime I get treat...

Does he want a threesome?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 349 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - my fiance asked if i had a helper foe sex. does that mean he wants a threesome?...

Do women like swallowing? My girl says I don't taste good!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

9 December 2008 (M) - Was chatting to my fairly new partner today, and got onto the topic of oral sex. Our sex life is good, with lots of oral sex as part of it. Ive always assumed she enjoys giving almost as much as receiving, when we see each other (fri to sunday a...

I had unprotected sex and now I'm freaked out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - This weekend my bf and I were fooling around and I got real horny so I let him put it in me without a condom but just for a minute or so. Then he pulled out and I gave him oral until he came. I know nothing got in me and it was only for a short ...

I'm married to a swinging liar!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - Last year i found out that my partner of 6 years had been cheating on me with swingers all through our relationship, he started meeting these people a few months after we got together. When I found out he denied it, he even swore on his young sons ...

How will I know if I'm pregnant using injection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - hey all.. im 19, with my boyfriend on 15 months and i am on the contraceptive injection. I've been on it about 8 months now. Recently i have been thinking. I know it's only like a 3% chance you can, but how do you know if you fall pregnant while o...

Why are men so confusing???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 351 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - Ok yesterdsay, i recevied the long arriving laptop which was for my bf( now ex bf) but i still gave it to him, as he didnt no how to set it up he asked me round after we had finished setting it up i said do u want me to go and he said no, anyway we ...

What does he really want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 261 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - So I've had this Friend with benefits thing with a guy for almost 4 months and I'm confused by what he really wants. I'm a single, never married 29 yr old mother to one 4 yr old. He's 33 yr old recently divorced father of 3 young kids (ages 1, 4 and ...

Instead of masturbation, what are other ways I can pleasure myself sexually?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

9 December 2008 (M) - Instead of masturbation, what are other ways I can pleasure myself sexually?...

He's a closed book in the bedroom!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - my husband is a closed book when it comes to the bedroom. i try to get him to open up and he doesnt. our sex life is becoming so repetitive that i am getting bored. he also doesnt last long and i have been finding myself needing more. he is also ...

Is it bad that my girl orgasms a little too fast?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (M) - Everytime but once if me and my girl have sex, she orgasms before I do. I know this is something to be happy about but her area I'm guessing, gets too sensitive to continue and like a guys does, needs a break. Could take her a few short minutes to ...

Do you still bleed after sex even if you've used tampons?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - Do you still bleed the first time you have sex even though you have used tampons before?...