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Archived questions from: 11 December, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I'm a virgin unsure of what to do Advice please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

11 December 2008 (M) - hi im a virgin and i have found out that in my girlfriends last relationship she lost her virginity im 16 and she is 15. im still a virgin and i want to have the best connection i can my my girlfriend however i feel that when the time comes for us ...

I want more action but don't want to come across as sex crazed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - I'm crazy about a guy who I see from time to time! The thing is we are both backwards at coming forwards and all we do at the end of a date is give each other a goodnight kiss! The thing is he seems reluctant to make a move and I'm too shy (yes - ...

She keeps thinking she's pregnant, even though we use protection. What can I do!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

11 December 2008 (M) - Hi, Me and my girl started having sex about 3-4 months ago. Its always great but the big problem is her. We ALWAYS use protection and throughout the whole month she keeps thinking she is pregnant! I tell her not to worry, but she refuses to liste...

Does a man have a higher sex drive if he has hair on his chest??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - I heard, man with hairy chest has higher sex drive , than man with no hair on his chest. It seem to work in my relation ship, as my husband lost his drive and has no hair on his chest. But I don't know ,if it is a myth , or real? What do you think?...

Had an abortion, almost died, pregnant again w/HIS FRIEND! HELP!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - I fell in love with a guy a while back who became like my best friend too we came part of each other i got pregnant and we both panicked coz im achieved my dream of modelling and he was out of work so we decided on abortion but its illegal in our ...

Her dildos are bigger than I am

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 345 days ago

11 December 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been living together for about 3 months now.I recently found 2 dildos she had hidden in our closet.She hasn't told me about them.They are both larger than me in size.What should i do?I dont know how i should feel about it....

I don't think I'm normal "down there"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - basically im 16 years old and in a relationship with this guy who is i think pretty much in love with me. i feel like i am ready for sex but have this constant self conscious feeling when doing any sexual related things with any guy as i have al...

Is it too weird to have sex with my friend's mom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

11 December 2008 (M) - I need some help with my situation. Would it be wise to enter into a relationship with someone older. I am 20 and she is 45. The whole thing is kind of complicated. She is my friend's mother. She was kind of like my second mom growing up and I ...

Wife too tired for sex-is an affair the answer?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

11 December 2008 (M) - Ok, here's the situation. My wife and i are both 27 and been married for 3 years. we have a 1yr. old son and a 2yr. old daughter who has special needs. We are both college graduates, which attracted us to each other in the beginning along with alot ...

FWB relationship turning into more-do I go with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 347 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - I think I am falling in love with my friends w/benefits. I picked him as my FWB because I didn't see any future with him because he has 3 kids and 2 exwife at 28years old. We are compatible in every way and have the best of time when we are ...

I'm embarrassed to have sex with my boyfriend!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 347 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - I feel really embarassed about this problem because it is so stupid... Im 18 years old and recently I had sex with someone who ive been with for a long time. until then id said no to having sex with him because I wasnt ready but around 3 monthes ago ...

I only want an affair with him but he hesitates, what do you think?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - Please help. I have been married for 3 years but my husband and I are on the verge of splitting. I've come to realise I don't love him anymore and I can't stand him being anywhere near me. We have a son who is almost two. I've recently met someone ...

Husband spending money we don't have on strip clubs!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - i found out that my husband of 11 years has beeing spending thousands of dollars on strip clubs and that he is addicted to xanax. I am devastated, how could he do this to me. We are struggling financially and he is spending money on strippers and ...

Will having sex with him affect my future

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - Hi Fiends. As there are many elder, mature and wiser people here.Please help me in deciding what will be good for my future.As right now i can just see my present happiness. I love my boy friend very....... much. He also have the same feelings...

My husband has ED and wants me to have a child with his brother!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 306 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - my hubbie suffers from ed and cannot get an erection. he has given me permission to find a lover as long as he knows about. i am 32 years of age and i have not had any children and i am desperate to have a child. my hubbie knows i want a child and ...

My boyfriend ask me to have sex with him we are only in high school should I or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend ask me to have sex with him we are only in high school should I or not?...

Should I give my virginty to him in one sided love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - I love my boyfriend. But he does not loves me. He says he just likes me as a good friend. He wants to have sex with me. Should I give my virginty to him in one sided love?...

My GF's self esteem issues are really affecting our sex life.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 348 days ago

11 December 2008 (?) - My girlfriend has issues about her body (mainly her breasts) and it seems to get worse by the day. We been together for a year. For example I never seen her naked (or her boobs) and we only allow make out (with our underwear still on). Once we w...

Is our love brotherly or loverly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - So everyone says that me and my friend are meant for eachother. and that we would be a perfect couple. i know for a fact that i am in love with him. 100 percent. i dont know if he feels the same way. he goes and sees every movie with me, and we have ...

He said he couldn't cum after I stopped for a second - what's wrong and is it my fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - Hi I was giving my boyfriend a hand job and i lost my balance for a second and stopped. he then said he couldn't cum because i'd stopped for a sec, whats wrong and is it my fault this happened??...

Can I deduce that he's bisexual from his AdultFriendFinder account?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - Dear friends, I am really shocked as i have discovered that my boyfriend of three years has an adultfriend finder account. I would have never expected such a thing from a guy who is so conventional in sex and so serious. Also, even though his ...

What can I do to relieve all this horniness??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - I'm 13 years old and I'm sooooooooooo horny all the time. If I ever got caught with a vibrator I'd be dead! What do I do??????!!!!!!!!!...

How can I increase the volume of my cum?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

11 December 2008 (M) - first of all....new to dear cupid. thank you for allowing me here. BIG ?, I am married.... 15 years.... and I hear that I can cum alot more if i get my prostate massaged... scared to death to ask my wife to do such thing to me.... never had it d...

He wants to have sex with me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - Okay, there's a guy I really like. He's 17 and I've known him for a while. We're really good friends, but he wants to have sex with me. Should I agree to it? I'm kind of nervous, but how can I reject him? I don't want him to hate me as a ...

A cousin sex fantasy I should have grown out of!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

11 December 2008 (M) - from the time i was 15 i had the hot's for two of my female cousins one because she is so beautiful and the other because i like her big booty and big boobs i have never thought i was in love with any one of them i just got realy turned on by them i ...